Ruby Lin and his wife have changed from friends to lovers, can the love that knows the roots last lo

I think Ruby Lin is indeed a very good person, there have been no scandals for so many years, which is indeed very admirable, so let's take a look at the reasons why the two of them have changed from friends to lovers and can love for a long time?

The first point is to know the root cause and understand it more tacitly.

In real life, we all understand that if two people can know the roots, it is naturally a particularly good thing, in the process of getting along, maybe a look of the other party, maybe an action of the other party, then you can understand what the other party wants to do from these body language or eyes, this tacit understanding is actually necessary to know the root to be able to do, it is possible to cultivate a tacit understanding, so it will be easier for such people to get along, Naturally, it won't be so tired.

The second point is more reassuring.

We all understand that two people who know each other are often able to make each other feel at ease, after all, you know him, he understands you, so that there will be more trust, which will naturally make each other feel at ease, and there is no need to worry about the other party may do something sorry for themselves at some moment. In this way, when you get along together, you can often be more relaxed, and it will naturally make the love last.

The third point is that families get along more harmoniously.

For the two people who are with themselves, it is easier to get along in the family, and it is easier to get along, after all, everyone understands each other, so naturally there will not be too many requirements, and the conditions are often relaxed in the process of getting along. And the two families will also know how to respect each other, after all, they are both people who know each other, and there will be nothing to hide if they have one thing to say and two things to say, so they will be more pleasant in the process of getting along, and it will naturally make the love last longer.

Yes, the love that knows the root belongs to the kind of love that flows through the water, although the relationship does not seem so vigorous, but the happiness time can last longer.

The best lover is the best friend. From a friend to a lover in 10 years, he is very handsome, and he attracts Ruby Lin with his own value, Ruby Lin feels a sense of security, and a sense of value, knows each other, loves each other, and cherishes each other for a long time.

It also depends on whether the two of them love each other, if they are, then they must know the roots, whether it is or not, as long as you love each other, it will last for a long time.

Knowing the root of love can last longer. Only when two people know each other can they know what they want from each other, understand each other, and have fewer contradictions. It will be easier to get along with each other and have a certain space for each other.

It can last for a long time, because when you are a friend, you already know each other's personality and hobbies, and you won't understand it and try it after becoming a lover.

This kind of love can reduce the run-in and get along for a longer time, because each other's personalities and tempers are well understood, and they can better communicate and solve problems when dealing with things.

Knowing the root of the love will last for a long time, because two people have a good foundation, and two people will understand each other better. They don't blame each other when they encounter things.

The difference between friendship and love is whether you are possessive of him, whether you have maintained a good relationship with him for many years without contact, or if you have not seen him for a day, and whether you want to fit into his life. Huo Jianhua and Ruby Lin have been friends for many years, and finally got married and came together, and the relationship must have undergone qualitative changes, and there is no shortage of this situation in real life. The main changes are the above points.

There are several clear boundaries between the two. The first is possessiveness. We are tolerant and kind to our friends, we are happy to play with her, and if we meet other new friends because of her, we will only be happy about it, because the more friends the better; But love is different, if you feel a little resistant or even wary of a person and the opposite sex around him, it means that you are not getting along as an ordinary friend, lovers are not allowed to share, if it is love, there will inevitably be possessiveness.

This is a prerequisite.

The second is the frequency of contact. For friends, we don't need to be in touch as often. Many friends who have a good relationship, even if they don't contact each other for a year or two, they won't be unfamiliar when they meet again.

This is because friends are just one part of our lives, and our focus is always on career and family. If it's love, the connection must be more. Because love must be fresh, and you must be aware of each other's dynamics at any time, you care about his movements, and only such frequent exchanges can allow you to discover more of each other's appearance.

Finally, whether you want to fit in with the other person's life. As mentioned above, friends are only a very small part of our lives, and most of the time, our lives with our friends are two parallel lines that do not intersect with each other. But lovers, not only will we become each other's family, but we will also want to integrate into his original family, as well as his social circle.

Only then will you truly form a family. This is the biggest difference between friends and lovers.

Love is a day without seeing each other, missing each other very much, wanting to be together all the time, friendship is two people who have a common topic together, and there is no feeling of liking.

If it is friendship, two people will be relatively calm and calm when they are together, but if two people love each other, they will be very happy and very excited to see each other.

The most distinguishable place is the opposite sex friends, if you are not jealous of the opposite sex friends of the male girlfriend, then this should be a more pure friendship, but if you are jealous, there may be a little doping with love.

Friendship and love are actually very difficult to distinguish, if it is unrequited love, it can only become friendship, if both parties are interesting, then friendship will eventually become love.

If you just like to be with each other, that's friendship, and if you want to be with each other, it's love.

If it is friendship between men and women, it is relatively simple, and if it is love between men and women, if they leave each other, they will feel reluctant in their hearts.

If two people know all about each other's preferences, and the other person has a little thing that you are more nervous about, and you are worried that this is love.

The relationship between men and women, if it is love, will always think about each other, and will think about taking care of and caring for each other with their hearts.

It is necessary to discern whether there is friendship or love between a man and a woman. It depends on what kind of feelings you have for each other, but the mutual appreciation of friends or the feeling of heartbeat.

It's not easy to start with people who are too familiar, since they are good friends, they can only stay in the relationship of good friends, if they can become lovers, they have already become, why wait until now to become them? This is the problem of fate, this life can only stay on friendship, not love.

1. Won't develop a good friend into a lover

Zhang Yishan once mentioned the reason why he couldn't become lovers with Yang Zi, he said that the two people are too familiar, so there is no sense of mystery, and becoming lovers will feel that it is not interesting, it is too uninteresting. A good friend is a relationship between good friends, and you can be the first to help with anything, but it is not suitable to develop into a lover. There is a difference between lovers and friends, because the time between friends has not arrived, so they cannot develop lovers, and they cannot develop love without a little thing, which is a very wonderful problem of fate.

2. Good friends develop into lovers, and it is difficult to solve problems when there are problems

Some people feel that since they are good friends and develop into lovers from this basis, it is also very good for future relationships. In fact, this idea is wrong, the more familiar people develop into lovers, the more they lack that tacit understanding, and they think that two people know each other very well, in fact, it is because of this understanding that they have planted the fuse for each other's emotions. When there is a real problem between two people, it is really very difficult to solve, and it is very likely to be a big problem.

Loving someone requires a careful choice, some people can only be suitable for friends in this life, and some people can be deeper than friends. This is a feeling in the dark, two people are close to each other, there is a feeling of mutual attraction, and if there is no such feeling, it is not love. Friendship and love are only a little bit apart, but this determines a lifelong relationship.

Yes, friends understand each other's temper, personality, hobbies, etc., which can reduce conflicts, increase the duration of marriage, and make two people happier.

If we really like each other, I'll be with him. Because there is a saying that it may be more difficult for a relationship to end when it is converted from a friendship relationship.

I would choose, it is a very happy thing to be a close lover with a good friend, and there are a lot fewer steps to contact with a stranger.

This way of going from friends to lovers, of course, will be chosen, being able to be friends shows that they understand each other, since they understand each other, appreciate each other, and love each other, of course, they can become friends in love.

If you are a good friend for a long time, if you usually get along with each other very comfortably, and there is no big contradiction, I think I will still choose to become lovers with friends.