From Ordinary Girlfriend to Wife 195

Personally, I believe that marriage is a pair of people who go on a blind date, love each other, have common ideals (at least in life), and can tolerate each other.

The first is an opportunity, an opportunity for him and you to get to know each other, this opportunity does not fall from the sky, either through friends, through the Internet or some other platform, or to create opportunities by yourself. No matter what kind of you must take the initiative, only by giving others the opportunity to know and understand, note down your future development, a lot of raglan shoulders feelings are that both parties have concerns, can not put down to give others a deeper impression, and finally the figure that was not bad is either faded in time, or replaced by another figure.

The second is rationality, looking for a wife is not looking for a lover, just playing, it is to find a partner to go through a lifetime of ups and downs, life can not be smooth for a lifetime, don't be too limited by appearance, ability, education, family conditions, you must find someone who understands you, can silently give support and can accompany you for a lifetime. There are too many choices in life, sometimes based on intuition, and you can't find a reason to convince yourself, only someone who can fully trust will support you without hesitation.

And then there is tolerance, everyone has too many shortcomings, the difference is that when you fall in love, the disadvantages are also advantages, and the advantages become disadvantages after a long time. Everything that does not exceed the principle can be accommodated, and the one that exceeds the principle should be dealt with decisively, either she should, or you change, or separate.

And then there is integrity, how you treat people, how others treat you, don't think that only men can deal with it, women's feelings are too sensitive, it's better to be honest.

Remember one point, there is an opportunity to take advantage of the opportunity, there is no opportunity to create opportunities, only let others remember you you will have a follow-up development, you should strive for it as much as possible, but if you find it too suitable, you should deal with it rationally as soon as possible, and if you find that there is a suitable one, treat her well.

I wish you a happy !!

Real experience, there is no point in copying it completely. It is still necessary to look around and find a suitable person according to your actual situation. The so-called suitability, first of all, you have to understand this person, and the personal quality must be good.

Secondly, you have to like and love from the bottom of your heart. Moreover, the conditions of the two parties are almost the same, and they have common interests and hobbies. Wait a minute.

In fact, there is no experience to talk about in love and marriage, different people, different situations, different backgrounds, different family environments, and many differences. And a chance encounter has made a thousand-year-old story. From now on, take your heart to seek and you will find.

Other people's experience is useless, if you want to get married, you have to love each other, love is mutual, you let her feel your love, and are willing to accept your love, it means that you have succeeded, borrowing other people's experience you will be counterproductive, and finally wish happiness!

Everyone has their own script, and it is better to go with the flow than to deliberately pursue it. However, as long as it is sincere, the other party will always feel it. As long as you are normal in your daily life, you will be fine.

From a female point of view, I have to say that there are actually a lot of good girls now, the key is to ask boys to be attentive, after all, girls think about problems from a different angle than boys, girls often want your attitude, not that you must do it, maybe many girls born in the 80s are affected by too many idol dramas. Usually attentive boys are more favored by their female compatriots.

There's no way to follow the steps, I just finished logging in, this thing depends on your personal understanding and adaptability, the first thing you have to learn is to understand women, how to say routines, this is indispensable.

Let me tell you about my teacher, my teacher and her husband turned out to be classmates in high school and college, and they have always had a good relationship......Just try it, and it's ......

In fact, whether a girl is a girl or not is suitable for marriage, you know best in your heart. As the saying goes, only you know if your shoes will fit or not.

If you want to get married, her personal qualities should be good and the most important thing is to honor her parents, and secondly, you have to like it from the bottom of your heart, and you have similar conditions with her, and she also likes you, so you can, but after all, such fate is very rare, I wish you a good marriage.

Let it be, don't force it, what should come will always come.

Experience is someone else's, if you want to get married, treat others with your heart, and others will treat you seriously, it's mutual.

It depends on what you think, if you want to get married, treat others in a down-to-earth manner, there is nothing difficult!

Be yourself, work down-to-earth, be kind to your own woman, pursue, and persevere, and you will succeed.

A true heart and a man's sense of responsibility.

No, one way for one person.

What technical methods are specific.

Girlfriend is the title before marriage, and wife is the title after getting the marriage certificate. They may or may not be the same person, and it depends on whether your girlfriend will be your wife.

The wife is protected by the law and the girlfriend is the opposite.

No, yes, no. It's up to you to see how you end up.

If you want to, if you don't want to, you won't.

1 If you marry you for some kind of benefit, it is destined not to give you happiness, but will bring harm, because when you have no use value, his so-called love will end.

First, they are willing to follow you when you have no money; second, someone who is willing to take care of your parents when they are sick; Third, the woman who is there for you to encourage you when you are frustrated.

I'll follow you when I don't have any money. Second, be willing to take care of your parents when they are sick. Three women who are willing to encourage you when you are frustrated. Four women who accompany you through thick and thin.

Wife, the husband's name for his wife, also refers to the woman who accompanies her husband to grow old together. The original meaning referred to older women. Different people have different names for their wives, such as the ancient emperor called his wife Zitong, and the prime minister called his wife Mrs.

Later, Wang Jinqing's poem said: "My wife is anxious to persuade each other." This "wife" refers to the wife who is always in charge of the housework.

For work? You just want to find a woman when you go to college, and you want a girlfriend not to affect you, you think about it perfectly...Laughing ......

1: Stable and generous, good character.

In today's world where savage girlfriends are popular, mature men prefer women with good personalities and steady attitudes. Among the men who pay attention to the selection of Jiayuan's "perfect bride", more than half of them clearly say that "looking for a wife is still looking for a sensible one".

The reason why 29-year-old Jeff broke up with his ex-girlfriend was that the other party was too childish: "I think I love her very much, and I spend my free time shopping with her, watching movies, and traveling, but her childish temper makes me very sad." I think my wife can understand and comfort me, but she can't.

Maybe it's because she's almost six years younger than me. The women I like should have a steady personality and know how to respect each other. ”

2: Internal and external training, self-confidence.

Is it good at housework, virtuous and obedient, a good bride? This statement has been refuted by many men. Tony, a 30-year-old IT man on Jiayuan, believes that the perfect bride can no longer be judged by "old ideas":

Working women are also under a lot of pressure, and housework should be shared between husband and wife. When I get married, I will consider hiring a part-time worker. Tony pointed out that a confident girl who is both internal and external is the "perfect bride" in his eyes.

3: Honor your parents and love life.

For men who are looking forward to the "perfect bride", the current "brain-dead women" and "non-mainstream" are the objects of their disdain. And girls who honor their parents, love life, and sunshine are being welcomed by them. Many of the contestants of Jiayuan's "Perfect Bride" played the "filial piety card", showing that she is a good girl who cares for her family, respects her and understands life.

Gong Haiyan, a senior marriage and love expert and CEO of Jiayuan, said that there is no hard standard for the "perfect bride", and there are various types of good women, as long as they meet their own aesthetic and mate selection needs, the other party is your "perfect bride". She also revealed that in the near future, Jiayuan will also hold a "perfect groom" competition, and women are welcome to "point fingers" on their ideal objects.

4: Beautiful, kind, healthy and brave.

Everyone has a love for beauty, let alone a man? On the selection page of Jiayuan's "Perfect Bride", the more attractive the woman is, the more attention she gets. "Before you get to know each other, of course a good-looking girl will want me to look at each other twice.

One man said.

The perfect bride should certainly have a beautiful appearance. But a kind, temperamental girl really has the qualities of a perfect bride. 35-year-old Ah Chang said.

For those women who love to go to nightclubs and can't live without men, most men say "stay away".

The family is from a high-level intellectual, which means that your parents-in-law have worked hard to raise a good wife.

Know a dutiful, kind girl who thinks about you.

is not clingy to you, but loves you very much, and is suitable for being a wife......

Honest, duty, not vanity.

This one cannot be shared, your own answer is the answer.

The girlfriend is playing, and the wife is living.