What do women think about their parents and parents in law in their hearts?

Before I got married, I felt that my parents didn't understand me, and I always quarreled with them, but after getting married, I slowly found that only in front of my parents can I live like a child, and I can do whatever I want, even if you work hard to please them in front of your in-laws, you are still an outsider and can't fit in.

I feel that my parents must be the closest people in my heart, and my parents-in-law must be incomparable, but in my heart, my parents-in-law are my husband's parents, and we must also give them the same status of respect, so I have always been very good to them. Be kind to them.

Maybe when I was not married, I heard some things about my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law outside, and I had a bad idea in my heart, and I felt that it was difficult to get along with my mother-in-law!

Is this really the case? Not really, everything is faced on your own, even if your mother-in-law really has an opinion about you, you should find a way to resolve such a problem. Look at yourself in the end** There is a problem, it's not likable!

My parents-in-law are the same as my own parents, they have worked hard to raise my husband and me, and I will be just as filial to them. The only difference between the two is that I don't agree with some of the practices of my parents-in-law, but I can't express my opinions clearly, which will hurt the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But we are much more honest with our parents, because they will never get angry and ignore us.

Of course it's different, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be their child, no matter how you cry or how willful, they will understand you. Even if there is a quarrel, it is easy to reconcile. But it's different from your parents-in-law, even if you do well, he will think that you are not good enough.

Deliberately making trouble for you.

Although now after getting married, they are called parents, but the concept and status in my heart are still different, I am more comfortable with the freedom of the public family, I can say whatever I want, and do whatever I want, because there is no grudge between biological parents and children, but when I get along with my mother-in-law and father-in-law, I have to pay attention to this, after all, I am not related by blood, even if I get along very well, if there is a certain contradiction, it is big, then both parties may remember it for a long time, and there has been a pimple in my heart and uncomfortable.

When women first arrived at their father-in-law and mother-in-law's house, they thought to themselves, this is not my home, and I am not their daughter. So I will think more about it everywhere, maybe some small things are slowly magnified. So that's how the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law got in.

For my parents, it has always been a harbor, and this kind of thinking is also very normal, after all, it is the place where I was born and raised.

My parents-in-law are like my parents, I raised my husband with hard work, and finally I was able to marry in love with me. Chinese cultural history is very hard, and at the same time, the education of my husband is also very in place, so I will treat my father-in-law and mother-in-law with the best attitude.