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I would have refused directly, or asked her directly, why do you always invite me to dinner, but you never invite me? I'm not so poor that I eat dirt.
I think whether it's a roommate or a friend, you have to know how to be polite and reciprocal, there is no free lunch in the world. Between friends, it's better for you to invite a meal, and I'll invite a meal, it's better to AA, who is not her parents, and she can't be invited for nothing. Besides, even if you invite her, it's okay once or twice, but if you have more times, it's really ......
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It depends.
If we have a particularly good relationship and have reached the level of good friends, it doesn't matter if we invite her to dinner all the time. At most, when I was joking, I said something that asked the other party to invite me too.
If it's just an ordinary roommate relationship, then I think it's okay once or twice, but if it's too many times, I'll just slap her. After all, I have a normal relationship with you, and I am not your ATM, so why have I been used to you.
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It's normal to invite her to a meal occasionally, but if it's often I will definitely refuse in person, no one's money is blown by the wind, why always let me invite you, I hope she can be a little self-aware.
And everyone should also pay attention to the fact that such a roommate is not worthy of our deep friendship, and she will not see herself as a friend at any time. <>
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It doesn't matter once or twice, after all, there is no need to be too stingy with friends, it's all mutual, but it's precisely because it's mutual, I invite him once or twice It doesn't matter, but if he doesn't respond at all, he just wants to eat my food for nothing, then I don't think it's realistic, because friends are also particular, support each other and be equal to each other. <>
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I would politely refuse, my own family is not very good, if I always invite my roommate to dinner, my own financial pressure will be very high, and there is no need to invite her to dinner often. Our living expenses are all earned by our parents, and everyone is a first-time person, so there is no need for anyone to be used to whom. If you meet such a roommate, you don't need to please her, just be yourself.
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Maybe she's just joking and saying that if you really invite her, she doesn't necessarily actually eat yet. It may also be a little interesting to you.,Give you a chance.,Want to see what you mean.。。 In fact, it's just for you to have a meal, don't think too much. But super friendship relationships all start with friends!
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Friends often get together with each other, and there is nothing wrong with communicating feelings. I can ask you once, twice, it's okay, but if I always ask for it, it's a bit too much. You can tell him directly, why you always invite, why he never invites!
Besides, everyone's money is earned by hard work, and everyone pays attention to a courtesy exchange, doesn't it?
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Personally, I think it's okay to invite him once or twice, and I'll talk to him every day when I invite him to dinner. My money is not blown by the wind, it is all the money that my parents have worked hard to earn. Do you come up and down and your parents don't even give you living expenses? Hello do it yourself.
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When he buys something, you can also take the initiative to go over and eat.
For this kind of self-acquaintance, you are sorry.
Thinking about refusal, I would definitely be embarrassed to talk to him directly. I can only treat him in the same way, and I hope he can appreciate the bad of this kind of self-cooking.
In fact, this is also a kind of emotional transportation, isn't the friendship between roommates so a plus? He eats your stuff, and you can eat his stuff too, use her cosmetics, and wear his clothes.
I'm sorry to say no, then let myself be like him, everyone knows each other so well anyway.
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When I was in college, the people in our dormitory didn't seem to be separated from each other, and everyone didn't care who bought things or snacks together, so I didn't think there was anything wrong with this problem, if you mind this matter, you can put the fruits and snacks you bought, and only take out your own part when you eat, so that she won't come over to eat with you, and you won't be embarrassed.
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Don't care too much about these, learn to share with friends! She also thinks that she has a good relationship with you, and you can eat her food often! Sharing is all mutual.
But if it's the kind of roommate who can eat you and you can't, I think you can have a good chat! Or in the same euphemistic way, saying that it was bought for you by some person with a special meaning and you don't want to share it.
People value harmony, so don't be too careful!
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Some people are self-cooked, and she may have been used to having delicious and friends.
Friends eat together. Wait until she buys Tonai.
Xi, you can also take the initiative to eat like her. If you're not used to eating with others, you can eat as much as you want, put the rest in a bag, and put it under the bed, and she'll be embarrassed to go under the bed and get it again. In fact, this kind of person is just a little lazy, and he is used to reaching out for food and opening his mouth.
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I also often encounter various situations.,My roommates don't usually buy things.,dao but I prefer to buy some snacks to eat.,A and then they come to get it.,Actually, it's nothing.,I feel like this kind of sharing is also quite happy.,It's not interesting to eat alone.。 And they are all roommates, and they usually help each other, so it doesn't hurt to eat some snacks or something, and you don't need to be overly entangled, otherwise it will look stingy.
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In this case, I feel that you are the best, next time don't buy anything and go back to the dormitory, only in this way I feel that the specialization will be very good, on the other hand, you can tactfully tell him, I didn't buy much of this thing, we have to save some food, so maybe he will also realize that you just bought your own portions.
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Sometimes you don't feel good about things, the other party probably doesn't feel anything, so you have to say it, or she will never know that your non-answer is comfortable, you can half-jokingly remind you, so it won't hurt the peace.
In the future, you can buy less things, just enough to eat for yourself, so that she will slowly feel it, and just say something.
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The dormitory is a big family, so you can bring things back to the dormitory to eat.
zhi should have the idea of sharing it with others. But roommates should be inside.
Anyone will feel uncomfortable eating what you can eat often, so you don't need to worry too much about telling your roommate what you think, and say in a relaxed tone that you bought this thing for yourself, and he will understand what you mean.
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This one is a bit nerve-wracking, your Shedu
Friends may be bigger than zhi in ordinary life, and don't pay much attention to these details, such people are also bigger than Rong, and make jokes, so you can hint at her in a ridiculous tone, for example, you say in a joking tone, only give you this time and don't allow it next time, she should understand.
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In fact, it is normal to have this kind of person, or she just feels that she has a good relationship with you to be like this, dedicated.
And it's just a little snack.
That's it, it's not a very expensive thing, you can wait for him to buy something, and ask her for food, if he doesn't give it, then you can tell her in front of her, and you won't eat anything I buy in the future.
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That's a lot, all kinds of flipping plates, smashing mouths, licking chopsticks or something, I can't stand it after eating with her a few times.
I am a person who likes food very much, and the enjoyment of food is often not only the enjoyment of the taste that will affect the appetite, but also many aspects at the dinner table, such as some behaviors of the people around me, sometimes when I see it, it is really unbearable, and people feel that they don't want to eat anymore! My roommate is a prime example of a person who makes people "full" when they look at it.
1. Always pick vegetables in one dish.
Many children will do this, in fact, it is still understandable, but when adults do the same, it is very unbearable, during the meal, my roommate has been picking various dishes in the same dish after pulling out his chopsticks, and even turning the dishes into the same dish, this behavior is very unqualified, I really don't know how her elders taught her.
2. Do not use public chopsticks.
When many people are eating, there will always be some public things, such as the public chopsticks used when eating hot pot, and the public spoon at the dinner table, but my roommate will directly use his own small spoon or his own chopsticks to put the ingredients into his own bowl, but also directly into his mouth, but this behavior is still relatively cheap, every time I see her action, I directly lose my appetite, even if it is my favorite hot pot, I can't get off the chopsticks.
3. Mouth.
I believe that many people nowadays will have this habit when eating, as if they are proving to other people how delicious they eat. But in fact, the act of eating like this will make the people around you begin to despise you in all kinds, this behavior is actually a disrespectful way to the people around you, and eating like this will make the people around you feel "full" instantly, since you eat so deliciously, or give it to you!
My roommate is like that, he is very good at chirping, and every time I eat, the next table turns to look at us when he hears it. Later I found out that I had to be cheeky when I went out to eat with my roommate, but unfortunately I didn't.
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Every time I went out to eat with my roommate, he was the one who ordered, and he never thought about what we wanted to eat.
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I can't bear to spit on the table if I don't like to eat, which makes me feel particularly nauseous.
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I took all four people at the buffet, and I didn't ask others if I liked it, and I couldn't bear it if I couldn't finish it.
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The most unbearable thing is that the amount of food is very small, but every time I order a lot of food, I can't eat it at all, and I don't let it be packed, saying that it is too embarrassing to pack.
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I can't stand her chirping, I can hear her chirping when I'm eating from a long distance, it's very annoying.
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He always makes a loud chewing noise and likes to talk while eating, I always find it rude to make noises while eating, and I can't accept this behavior.
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When I eat with him, he makes a smacking sound, like a pig eating, very ugly, that kind of sound.
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My roommate has a lot of bad habits when eating, he likes to make noises when eating, loves to bite chopsticks, and likes to pick and choose at the food on the plate, so that others have no appetite, and he likes to pick his teeth with his hands after eating, which is disgusting to watch.
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When I ate with her, I asked her what she was eating, but she didn't say anything, and when she ordered it, she didn't like it, and she kept nagging that the dish was not delicious.
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It is actually very unhygienic, very impolite, and easy to bring germs to others.
Find an opportunity to communicate with your girlfriend, ask the reason, ask her why she ignores you, whether there is any misunderstanding in the middle, or if she doesn't like you anymore.
will not blame and complain, will kindly remind and refuse, try to minimize contact opportunities, and distance yourself from him.
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Giving up means a new life, this is your best choice right now, and I wish you a happy Mid-Autumn Festival.
I will definitely not continue to quarrel with him, I will ignore him, let him reflect on himself, and I will not let myself be angry.