What s the deal with my girlfriend never asking me to help?

It's not that she doesn't like you, maybe she thinks you're not familiar enough to be inward, so she doesn't want to owe you, I'm embarrassed to let you do anything, or she's very self-reliant.

She just shows that she is independent, every woman wants someone to care for her, and you can take the initiative to care for her.

Summary. The girlfriend asked you to help him, but didn't tell you, because in this case you can promise him first, because after all, he is your girlfriend, and then see what he asked you to help, and then make a decision how the girlfriend described it to you, you can also tell the teacher, and the teacher will help you to counsel.

The girlfriend asked you to help him, but didn't tell you, because in this case you can promise him first, because after all, he is your girlfriend, and then see what he asked you to help, and then make a decision how the girlfriend described it to you, you can also tell the teacher, and the teacher will help you to counsel.

The reason why you are depressed and worried is that you are afraid that your girlfriend will ask you something that you can't do, such as borrowing a huge amount of money, or going home and getting married right away, right? You can also complete the content in detail and tell the teacher, who will help you analyze it and give you more detailed guidance.

Her little brother was in a car accident and was hospitalized in the hospital during this period, it stands to reason that you should often go to the hospital to help him take care of his little brother, and you should often see your girlfriend when you go to the hospital to take care of her little brother.

Take advantage of the time now to think about the future, don't think about the present, think about making money first, and when you really get married together in the future, the days will be long!

I think you should communicate with her, if she still doesn't talk about it, it may be because you know that this matter is not helpful to her and does not want you to be upset with her, and there is also a possibility that she thinks the two of you are not suitable and wants to break up.

Dear, your girlfriend should be more independent And I judge that your ability is really limited To put it bluntly, you don't have money and no power Don't mind I guess.

In the event of a major event like a car accident, it is better if you are in the traffic police or in the hospital, and there are acquaintances in it, so it is easier to communicate and solve some tricky things.

Whether it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend or two couples, they are all safe and sound in normal times, because there are no worries, and of course they can enjoy the good times of love.

But when you encounter something, a lot of it breaks up, because sometimes two people think differently to solve problems, and of course there is a contradiction, and what you think is right is not necessarily what the other person thinks.

So my girlfriend said I don't need you to take care of it, and I don't need you to help me, so you just wait.

And don't talk to her, because she doesn't have the time and energy, and don't ask how things are going, and she doesn't have to report to you.

Good luck and peace with the situation.

On the surface, your matter is your girlfriend's brother's matter, but in essence, it is a relationship problem;

Let's talk about the problem of your "brother-in-law" first, she contacted you as soon as possible, indicating that she still has you in her heart, as for not contacting you later, there are two possibilities, either she solved it herself, or someone else helped him solve it, and she thought it was better than you to solve it.

Let's talk about the problem of the two of you, when a woman falls in love, other things will basically not interfere with the main line of feelings. Or maybe your girlfriend is really annoyed by this incident and needs to be quiet alone? However, there should be other family members at your girlfriend's house, and she should not be the main pillar of dealing with this issue.

So, she wants to isolate herself from you for a while.

Feelings are like this, sometimes you don't need a reason, sometimes you can just borrow a reason, just to be separated from the object for a while, no matter what the reason, there is only one: that is, she doesn't need you during this time.

You also analyzed, it's not because she's busy, because she's busy, and there's time to send a message, and the reason why she doesn't want to send a message or talk is because she really doesn't want to pay attention to you.

Suggestions for you: 1. You don't need to contact her frequently during this time, just send her a message occasionally to comfort her. Not the kind that asks for answers, not the kind that asks questions.

2. Strive to enhance their own strength. Flowers and birds come naturally. This is the core and the fundamental.

3. If you have seen her family, go to the hospital to take a look; If you haven't seen it yet, ask her if it's convenient to go to the hospital to see it, if it's not convenient, transfer some money and she will go to see it on your behalf.

4. Work hard to recover your life and make your life wonderful without her. Don't keep pestering others, it will make the woman feel that you are not mature and courageous enough.

5. In the end, it depends on your feelings for her, it's hard to say.

You'd better find a chance to talk to him face-to-face.

This kind of thing is not clear at all. It may have something to do with you. To put it simply, for example, his family wants you to help, but he feels that it is unreasonable for you to bear the burden of specific things, so there is a disagreement.

So because of you, he had a conflict with his family. It may also have nothing to do with you, but he has encountered great difficulties at home, and he personally feels that you should not be allowed to get involved and drag you into the water. So I won't contact you anymore and carry everything alone.

Maybe it's because it's a hard thing to do.

After all, it was because of something that happened to his family and his younger brother had a car accident. So at this juncture, it is too incredible to say that there is a third party, and then he empathizes and does not fall in love, which is too incredible, and the possibility is too small.

So personally, I still think that he is upset because of the difficulties at home. I don't want to bother you.

But no matter what. You still have to ask in person to find out the truth. But as a man, something happened to people, and it's normal to be upset, and you shouldn't have a lot of emotions. Two angry people came together and nothing came of it.

When you encounter a problem, it's better for two people to solve it together, and you feel that your girlfriend may not think much of you.

It may be that more than in the past, the girl asked the boy to help, but the boy did not do what the girl wanted.

Some problems can still be solved.

Prove that your girlfriend's work ability is very strong, don't panic in case of trouble, you can solve it yourself, such a girl, you meet is your blessing, I hope you cherish it, in case your girlfriend likes it.

Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.

The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, you have to get the approval, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it.

Forgetting just takes a while to let go.

If you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well?

Yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past, time can really change everything, learn to be strong.

Just have this heart, don't feel guilty.

First of all, this question. You'll have to think about it. In everything, ask yourself if there is something you are not doing well.

Your girlfriend has something to do and you can't help? Did you inquire about that? Or have you ever hit a **?

See if you can't help? Sometimes you don't have to be around for a lot of data, you can also help, or use other tools to help. Or you can take the initiative to go where he is and help him.

If you really can't help, it's good for you to call ** and ask more. It's mostly up to you to see how seriously you take this matter. Of course, there is a good way, that is, you have to be courageous, or the two of us can discuss it.

Whose city to go to is always good for two people to be together. So this is the time to make an exception. Or you give up.

If you feel like ten o'clock to sleep. If you do the minister a favor, then you will find it hard to find out that this work was put in and taken out yesterday, but it will be a good help to him.

In fact, you know self-blame to prove that you are a good man, because some men will not care if their girlfriends help or not, and even when your friends have something, he will blame your friends for proving that you are a good person. We often say that there are always more solutions than difficulties, and I am sure that you will have a good future.

If a girl proposes to break up just because of such a trivial matter, either the girl has already developed a feeling of disgust for you, or she has already died to herself.

Although some girls always have a temper after falling in love, they generally do not easily propose to break up because they do not take the initiative to help them. As a man, you need to understand from yourself whether the other party proposes to break up because you often ignore it like this and cause disgust, or because you have not taken the initiative for a long time, causing the place to be dead and unloved; If you can't find the problem, it means that you already have a problem, and you can only communicate directly with the other party to understand the problem if the girlfriend proposes to break up, and if the other party is dead, it will be really difficult to recover.

That's what's wrong with you, what's a girlfriend? That's your "top boss", you have to listen to what she says, and you have to do what she tells you to do. If someone asks you to do a favor and you don't take the initiative to help, what's the use of asking you? It's not as good as an ordinary friend, who wants to associate with you.

You have to hurry up and take the initiative to admit your mistakes, show your determination, and next time she needs it, you must rush to the front. Girlfriends, no matter how big or small, are all big things, and you must pay attention to them.

In that case, let's break up, although it is generally persuaded and not persuaded to separate, but I really don't think there is any point in you being together. When two people are together, they have to be considerate of each other, and if they have anything, they can say it directly, if even the two of you are hiding and choking, there is no way to deal with it! Just say what you want, don't let others guess, you are still angry if you guess wrong, do you say that you are making trouble yourself?

First of all, observe your girlfriend's attitude towards breaking up, whether she threatens you, or really wants to break up.

If it's just a threat of anger, the coaxing should be alleviated, buy some of her favorite food, and buy her a gift to make amends.

If it's true, then you have to be serious, if you want to continue to get along with her, you have to learn to admit your mistakes to your girlfriend, and review yourself well, it's really easy for boys to no longer treat each other as the only one after chasing their girlfriends, but romantic relationships are to rely on each other's company and mutual compromise to maintain each other.

If you can't get it back, don't make similar mistakes in your next relationship.

If this is something that is within your ability, but you didn't do it because you didn't care about it, I think you should sincerely apologize to your girlfriend and make some amends.

But if it's something outside your ability, and your girlfriend still wants to force it, and uses this matter to blackmail you into breaking up, then maybe she really doesn't love you anymore.

It shows that you are a very irresponsible man, so the woman will break up with you when she is sad.

I broke up with my girlfriend because of some things before, and my girlfriend's family had something to ask me to help, but the work of the unit was too busy to be separated at all, so I refused, and my girlfriend borrowed money from me again, saying that my father was hospitalized and had no money, and hoped that I could borrow him 100,000 yuan, but I really didn't have so much money in my hand at that time and refused, just because my girlfriend was completely disappointed in me because of the refusal again and again, and finally chose to separate from me.

You have to admit your mistakes and try to redeem it, because in a girl's heart, if you love it, you can do everything for her, but unfortunately you didn't do it, she will definitely be angry, and she may choose to break up, because she is afraid that she will not care about her in the future, so in order to be happy in the future, you have to think about whether your girlfriend is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, and actively redeem it if you think about it.