How to be successful and confident? How can you be truly confident?

First of all, you have to believe in yourself. No matter what others say about you, you have to move forward according to your own wishes! Don't let yourself regret it! Then it will be too late.

The heart can be hell, the heart can be heaven, the heart can be mortal, the heart can be virtuous and sage, it all lies in the mind!

Don't carry too much on your back, sometimes you know how to sneak with weight, and sometimes you have to travel light, don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Be truly confident:

1. Correctly understand your own strengths and weaknesses. Know yourself and your opponent, know your own strengths and weaknesses, recognize and think about your own strengths and weaknesses, and then write them down, carry forward the advantages, and correct the shortcomings one by one.

2. Be humble. Humility makes people progress, this sentence is very reasonable, look at the advantages of others, learn from others' strengths, live modestly, and don't exaggerate your achievements.

3. Strive to be the best. Ask yourself to do your best in doing things, no matter how small a thing is, don't consider the gains and losses when doing things, do your best in everything, so that you can know your ability most correctly.

4. Improve self-cultivation. Read more, study more, keep pace with the times, be a knowledgeable and cultivated person, and your knowledge will naturally increase your self-confidence.

5. Maintain a capable and tidy image. Appearance image is also very important, no matter when you are delicate, you must tidy yourself up, a capable and neat external image will make you feel comfortable, and it will also let others see a refreshed and confident self. Ruler envy.

I think there are two things that can make you completely and completely confident. One is outside, the other is self-controlled; One is hard to find, and the other can be obtained with your efforts.

First, self-confidence at the emotional level. This comes from being unconditionally loved when you grow up, and no matter what you do, you know that your parents' love will always be there, which will make you very stable and confident on an emotional level. Unfortunately, very few children can have such a perfect family environment, so this is unavoidable, and the most we can do is treat our children in this way.

Second, and most importantly, self-confidence at the level of reason. This comes from a thorough understanding of life, a thorough understanding of the ultimate truth, which is completely graspable for yourself. Of course, this requires you to keep learning.

I suggest that when you are young, you must learn more philosophy and understand the truth about the world.

When you are a little older, please be sure to start learning about life, about life and death. At this time, you may really know where you come from, where you will go, where you can go, the meaning of your life, and so on.

I myself seem to have found the answers to these questions in my constant research after a car accident. In my opinion, the most important meaning of life is to realize that we keep coming back to this world in an attempt to achieve a state of unconditional love.

When you can get to this point, you have already surpassed the first point, and you no longer need to be confident because you are loved, but giving love and being love will make you confident all the time.

At this point, your self-confidence will melt into your bone marrow, and you will give birth to this unconditional love from the depths of your heart, for all living beings. You no longer need external forces, you no longer need the approval of others. No matter who he faces, no matter what nationality he comes from, what beliefs he has, how high his knowledge is, and how high he is.

position, how much wealth you have, you can take it easy.

Even no matter what hardships you encounter in your life, even if you are sitting on the passenger plane that is crashing in the Huai Brigade, you can calmly meet the last moments of your life.

There is no doubt that this is really achievable, at least I have seen a lot of high-ranking people already here, and I am working on it. Happy Mid-Autumn Festival to you!

The ways to be truly confident are to know yourself, encourage yourself, enrich yourself, make more money, and develop your skills.

1. Know yourself

For a comprehensive evaluation of oneself, the evaluation should be correct, objective and in line with the situation. Record your strengths and give yourself more of a sense of accomplishment. Keep a record of your shortcomings and give yourself reasons for acceptance, or reasons for improvement.

2. Encourage yourself

After knowing and understanding yourself, you must start to praise yourself, the good places in the past, and your persistence is worth encouraging. Discover new strengths and encourage yourself in time. Accumulate faith bit by bit from action, boost self-confidence, and build positive emotions.

3. Enrich yourself

Improving self-confidence starts with improving your ability and spending 1-2 hours a day doing something that can add value to yourself. Start with reading every day, read communication books if you lack communication skills, and exercise if you don't have good immunity from daily exercise.

4. Make more money

Money strengthens people's courage. When you don't have money, it's easy to lose self-confidence, and when you live in poverty for a long time, you don't have self-confidence. Think about what skills are suitable for you to make money, and then take action.

5. Develop skills

One of the reasons for not being confident is that I feel that my ability is not enough, I have no skills, I have no specialty, I feel that my ability is not suitable, and I am unfamiliar with the things in hand. Correct your attitude, I can't but I can learn, I can accumulate experience if I don't do well, next time I do a good job, work hard, you can change your current situation.

To be truly confident, you need to start with the following aspects: First, learn to know yourself. Ask yourself to know yourself better and have a real and effective understanding of yourself, so that you can build self-confidence.

Secondly, learn to believe in yourself, you must evaluate yourself well and objectively, constantly enhance your self-confidence, and make yourself feel that you are capable of accomplishing your goals. Third, we must have the motivation to keep moving forward, be brave to do it, be brave to accept challenges, brave to accept criticism and suggestions, and use hard work to change ourselves and help ourselves embark on the road of continuous improvement. Finally, when building self-confidence, it is also important to pay attention to the sense of responsibility.

It is necessary to understand one's responsibilities, to keep records, to respect one's own values, to have the ability to self-regulate and self-discipline, and to dare to accept new things, so that you can build true self-confidence.