I have something to say, and I have something to say

Finished? Can you say that again? I didn't get it.

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Hello dear, glad to answer for you. Having something to say is actually something to say, there will inevitably be troughs in life, and the unproductive man Huai Sui always has something to say. In fact, in love, women want to marry a promising man, even if the man is not very rich at first, but if a man is willing to do his best, then life will naturally get better and better in the future.

And if a woman's jujube is guessed to a man who has no interest, then the days after marriage will naturally get worse and worse, so women want to marry a man with a good fortune and want their marriage to be beautiful.

Recently, due to the rush to write, I suddenly found that I couldn't calm down when I read the book, and I always read this book for a day and hurriedly flipped through another book the next day, and the books on the shelves were piled up, but I felt that I couldn't start, and fell into an unprecedented selective anxiety.

In the past two days, I was busy arranging the Spring Festival atmosphere at home, and I found that because I didn't look carefully at it, it was a bunch of things that needed to be spliced and installed by myself, and I was thinking about returning it.

But the biggest possibility is that Xiao Cui's book is like a big brother next door, and the nagging narrative can gradually seep into my heart. Let's get back to business, let's talk about this book, I didn't know Xiao Cui before, but I knew the truth he did before, and I also knew that he was teased by Aunt Baiyun on the Spring Festival Gala of a certain year and said that he was depressed. In the past two years, the most focused news I have seen about him is that he exposed Fan Bingbing's yin and yang contract, and for a long time, I saw that *** The article recommended below has always been that one:

He is not Xiao Cui, now he is Niu Hulu Yongyuan Just look at the title to know the general content. Regarding this major matter, we and the people who eat melons do not know the truth, and of course they will not comment. But after reading this book, I have some understanding of Xiao Cui's sincerity to people, open-mindedness, and the original intention, and I also know that he has a cat named Anna, for me, that cat is **, of course, through Xiao Cui's words, it can be seen that Anna is also not noisy and unique.

Among them, Xiao Cui's remarks on speech skills need to be carefully touched and quietly thought to be able to realize something that is shallow or blind, near or far. He is not the kind of person who will be condescending, pointing fingers to tell you a big truth, and saying some specious big scenes.

The following is an excerpt of Xiao Cui's quotations to encourage you.

1.I don't believe that a person can't be a good person, but he can say good things.

2.The hard things and the things that should be done are often the same thing. Anything meaningful is never easy, after all, there is rarely the word 'easy' in adult life.

3.Everyone is perfect, and all your experiences and stories are incomparably wonderful, and all have a huge impact and value on this world. You are yourself, you have your own path.

4.In fact, everyone can be an author and write a book about their own experiences and experiences.

Summary. There is something to say.

On the contrary, there is nothing to say.

"Nothing to say" means that there is nothing to say, and in some cases it contains a feeling of helplessness, depression.

I don't know what kind of confusion you have encountered, you can describe it to me in detail, and see if I can give you some advice

There is something to say" because the relationship is better, at this time, there are endless topics to talk about, couples can try new things together, create common good memories, Li Tan increased the common language to imitate the disturbance.

Inspiring.

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"Inspired" means to understand something from one thing.

For example, if you don't know how to do something, you suddenly have some comprehension due to the influence of a certain phenomenon or someone or some books.

When two people just got to know each other, because they didn't know each other, there would be a lot of topics to talk about in the process of getting to know each other, and they were all exploring each other.

I've always thought I was a very good person, so I was very confident and rarely looked at myself. But that time, my brother pointed out my mistake mercilessly.

At that time, we were playing a mock debate in the debate competition, and the four debates I made as a concluding speech did not summarize the whole audience, but I finished reading the manuscript prepared in advance, and I was full of pride after reading it, because the whole text quoted the classics, the beginning and the end, there was theory, practice, and more sensationalism and sublimation, which was simply a full score composition.

But after the end, a senior brother in the courtyard didn't bring any foreplay, and directly said that although you are very positive, your article is fake and empty, the logic is not obvious, and there is no summary of the audience, really, very disappointed. After all, it's a senior brother, what else can I say? I can only nod my head frequently:

Yes, yes, what the senior brother taught is "".

But afterwards, the more I think about it, the more angry I become, and I explain it from the perspective of the audience, and it will definitely not be too obscure. Moreover, shouldn't the four debates be summarized and sublimated, and the atmosphere exaggerated? I directly decided that it was the senior brother's problem, after all, he was not very strong.

However, after the anger subsided a little, I began to realize that, indeed, when discussing at that time, there was no summary of the whole audience, that is, the foundation was lost, and the content of the speech was like a castle in the air, and the convincing force was not strong. If it weren't for my brother's guidance, I would have been immersed in my own joy and would never have discovered my mistakes.

Returning to this debate, think about it, if you meet someone who "has something to say" to you, you Da Tang will definitely have two reactions, one is instinctive resistance, and even scolds back. The other is a rational analysis of whether the question exists.

Some people, after scolding, will calm down and analyze their mistakes, and at this time, they will speak directly if they have something to say. If you don't want to be scolded, it's okay not to say it directly.

Some people will rationally analyze your suggestions, and at this time, they will have something to say directly, and they will save worry and effort.

In short, meet smart people and have something to say;

When you meet someone with a big temper, if you have something to say, you can say it;

When you meet someone with a big temper and stupidity, you have nothing to say.

1.Fear of rejection, alienation.

2.You don't want to make others anxious or upset, or you don't want to ruin the relationship.

3.I don't want the conversation to get out of hand.

4.I don't know how to tell the truth skillfully.

However, if you don't say it, it doesn't mean it's safe.

If you put your true thoughts and feelings in a bottle and then close the lid, when the emotions accumulate to a certain level, they will explode, such as blaming the other person: "You are always like this! "You never do! ”

Build a learning mindset.

The learning mindset is based on the fact that each of us has an inadequate and incomplete understanding of the world.

It is very normal for each of us to have different opinions due to subjective experience, and it is important to respect each other.

A fixed mindset is not an open-minded attitude towards others, but a willingness to prove others wrong at all costs.

If you learn the type xi thinking mode, it is relatively easier to tell the truth of Sakura, and the purpose of expression at this time is not to persuade others.

1.To distinguish between one's own opinion and the observed facts, you can use a sentence like this: "My opinion is.

2.When listening to others, you can say, "I'm curious about your reason for this.