At first, I was afraid that my boyfriend would cheat on me. I never told him my real name. But slowl

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He may think that you are not sincere, because you don't even hide your name, even if it is online, either tell him or don't say it, don't use a fake name; But there is something wrong with him, he can't be sad because of such a trivial matter, but it can also be seen that he is sincere, I think it's better to communicate well, good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, if he wants to break up with you because of this little thing, then this kind of boyfriend doesn't want it, the measure is small, and he doesn't understand you, you say, right? Give him some time to think about it, and talk to him in a day or two.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Anyone is like this, you get along with someone for a long time, he has a good relationship with you, he trusts you very much...In the end, I found out that you lied to him...It's going to be outrageous....Let him calm down for two days first, and then go and find his mistake and it will be fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you shouldn't be with her, because you just deceived her and your real name, she ignored you, and you deceived her together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether you want to break up with you or not, this man shouldn't want it, just because of a name, then if you are together in the future, then you will have to suffer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If I really like you, I won't answer the ** and don't reply to the message because of this little thing, at most it will scare you, but it won't be like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Online dating is mostly just for fun.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    I've been dating online for four years, and I'm going to run out this year, but my boyfriend found out that my name lied to him.

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    I met him online, I said fake names to people on the Internet, I have been dating him online for four years, and I plan to run this year, but he found that I didn't even tell him my real name, in fact, I thought about telling him, but I don't know how to tell him.

    I think if he likes you.

    I don't think so.

    Then the two of us quarreled a lot during this period, and they were separated and combined, and today he deleted and blocked me.

    According to what you say, in fact, to be honest, this relationship is not strong, and if you run out, there may be a gap due to various problems.

    If you feel the need to keep him and meet him.

    The two of us are dating online, and I originally planned to see you this year.

    In fact, there are various factors in Benxian, even if you don't lie to him, if there is a party to meet at that time, it is easy to fail under the huge gap.

    I want to fix this.

    It's best for both parties to meet and make it clear, because it's not easy after 4 years.

    You can't really tell it online.

    It's all blocked, how can we meet <>

    Let's talk about it, and then come out and make it clear.

    Or text to unblock it.

    Tell him why he made it clear in a pseudonym.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think this is very normal for you to do this, because girls are more introverted and shy, and there must be a defensiveness towards boys, and you should have more contact with him for a while. If you can feel that he truly loves you, can care about you, tolerate you, and make you feel a sense of security, then determine that a relationship is the best option. I think this is very normal for you to do this, because girls are more introverted and shy, and there must be a defensiveness towards boys, and you should have more contact with him for a while.

    If you can feel that he truly loves you, can care about you, tolerate you, and make you feel a sense of security, then determine that a relationship is the best option. I think this is very normal for you to do this, because girls are more introverted and shy, and there must be a defensiveness towards boys, and you should have more contact with him for a while. If you can feel that he truly loves you, can care about you, tolerate you, and make you feel a sense of security, then determine that a relationship is the best option.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In your life, has there ever been such a person, who amazed your time and tendered your years, but passed by you, and you are inseparable.

    In this case, everyone will have a deep sense of powerlessness, how much you want to keep him and go to the end with him, but the reality is often unsatisfactory, and people who love each other may not be able to be together.

    After two people separate, you don't dare to contact each other, every time you pick up the phone and put it down, every time you say something in the dialog box, write and delete, delete and write, you know, you still can't let go of him, but you don't dare to bother him anymore, I'm afraid that the heart will be messed up because of this, and I'm afraid that the thoughts that have finally stopped will come surging again.

    Don't dare to contact each other, it doesn't mean that you can forget each other, in most cases, not daring to contact is a sign of deep love, it is because you are still in love, it is because he still occupies a very important position in the depths of your memory, she will be timid, she will be cautious.

    You are afraid of forgetting the other person, just because the memories that the other person brings you are too good, and you are worried that once you forget him, you will throw away all those good things, which is unacceptable to you.

    In everyone's life, there may be such a person who does not dare to contact, but is very afraid of forgetting, so it is necessary to create a little movement so that the other party will not forget you soon, but is this persistence meaningful?

    If two people break up and can't be together, then you have to let the other party know that you can't let go of him, and even have to intersect with each other, isn't it embarrassing for yourself? Nothing will come of it except that you yourself are sadder and sadder.

    No matter what reason you are separated, whether you still love each other or not, you should treat it with a normal heart, you must understand that you are the most familiar stranger now, and no longer intimate lovers, this time you might as well take a step back, let yourself turn gracefully, and go to find the next better person.

    The most fearful thing is that you know that two people can't be together, and you have to worry about how to save this relationship, and you don't dare to contact and force yourself to contact, which is the most irrational approach.

    Since you are destined to be together in this life, since the breakup has become a fact, since you are the end of passing by, then tell yourself and accept the reality.

    Maybe at the beginning, it was a little difficult to face the reality, after all, I once really loved each other, even if we can't be together now, we will leave many good memories, how can it be so easy to forget?

    But you have to take this step and change the fear of contacting to not being able to connect, and the fear of forgetting to forgetting slowly, so that you will be much better.

    In life, there are many things that are destined to be unfulfilled, especially the feelings, which are uncontrollable, no matter how hard you try, you may not be able to get the feelings you want, so remember the good, forget the sad, and then move on!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal for a boyfriend in online dating to be a little defensive, after all, the Internet is a virtual world, and you need to know more about it to gain trust.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The acquaintance has been too short and there is no sense of trust yet. It's going to get better and better as time goes on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Online dating is a must. Check out, isn't his bottom line in reality after all? It's better to be careful, try it again, and wait.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you feel that you don't believe him very much, it is insensitive, is the waste of time online dating to be kept for the New Year?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. There are different rules and standards in the online world and the real world, which can create confusion and illusions about our feelings.

    I have been dating a man online for three years and am very obsessed with him. Meeting, not as I imagined, even a lot of difference, at first he was dissatisfied with Zheng Que, but when he looked back and didn't see each other, he missed him like crazy, and then he slowly accepted him in reality, but he was not good to me. But I became more and more mentally dependent on him.

    Shouting branches have long been put in reality, and I definitely won't look at this man more. Why? I want to pull it out now, but I find it so difficult.

    Why? In fact. This situation is related to the peculiarities of online dating.

    There are different rules and standards in the online world and the real world, which can create confusion and illusions about our feelings.

    The obsessive feeling of love is often based on illusory imagination and expectations, which can easily make us lose ourselves. You spend most of your time in contact online, maintaining a sense of mystery that might give you a fantasy of perfection.

    And you're not happy with him in reality.

    So instinctively, people tend to be more inclined to the Internet.

    I was obsessed with him at first because of his academic character...

    And he's it? In reality.

    Be. What did you think of him at first?

    Tell me about it.

    The Internet thinks he is a very humorous person. I started to think that if it felt right, the appearance was not very important. But it doesn't seem to be after the chakra guesses.

    When I saw that it was night, I felt a little tired because of the rush, and then he asked me if I should go to the Internet café or the hotel. I said to go to the hotel, I wanted to go there to sleep in a tung orange. But I didn't expect him to kiss me....I hadn't talked much about it before, and then I started to accept him.

    But he didn't confirm the relationship with me, and kept dragging it out. He had a falling out with me in August last year, and he was with someone else, but I still can't let go.

    In this case.

    It may not be the first time he's done this.

    Networks are risky after all.

    It is difficult to determine a person's true character and values based on appearances and chats on the web alone.

    Yes, I really wouldn't have liked him if it were reality, but I can't get out of it right now. Why?

    Because you may be too serious and too engaged.

    And you yourself said you haven't been in a relationship much, right?

    Yes, so what's the way.

    This will take your time and effort.

    What is your current state and what do you usually go back to?

    You can try to distract yourself by doing something you enjoy, participating in some activities, and making some new friends.

    I tried, but I couldn't be happy.

    Remember not to reminisce about past memories, and don't look at old chats or **these will only complicate your emotions.

    It takes time.

    in order to slowly adapt.

    You have to go out and walk around and participate in activities.

    Focus on something else.

    To experience these things with your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1 In the virtual world, there are eventually married, but the situation of cups is more common, and everything depends on fate.

    2 Love is just a part of life, even if this online romance ends in a breakup, don't make yourself very decadent because of this relationship, cheer up your spirits, look at this wonderful world, tomorrow's sun is still rising in the east.

    3 Listen to ** (Western classical), read books (recommend "The Road Less Traveled"), get together with three or five friends, or go to Lijiang, Fenghuang, Wuzhen, etc. Maybe you won't be so entangled.

    The Internet can't help you solve the problem, you still need to tie the bell to the bell, and you need a doctor for heart disease.

    It is necessary to establish a correct outlook on life, values, and love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Be honest with each other and be less painful!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When the judgment is continuous, you will suffer from its chaos, you are willing to give up, you can only get if you are giving, it is impossible to be an ordinary friend, be a passerby.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go with the flow, don't be too attached if it's not yours.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Tell you the truth, he loves you and he'll understand.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's impossible for a guy not to cheat, it depends on how you want to treat your relationship.

    It's simple, two options: 1. Break up. If his lies hurt you, hurt you once because you are unlucky, and the second time you are stupid because you gave him the opportunity to hurt you.

    If you want to keep this relationship, then you have to learn to be tolerant, learn to play stupid, know what to forgive, what to insist on, when to be soft and when to be hard. If you can't do it, break up as soon as possible, because you won't guess whether you will become exhausted if you are deceived again in the future, then it is better to leave a better image and keep yourself a self-esteem;

    2. Forgiveness. Although I forgave him this time, in order not to let him have a fluke in the future, I think you will forgive him, and it doesn't matter if you lie to you, just say good things, and explain your thoughts to him, tell him how he feels... In short, it is to talk openly and honestly, untie the knot, and get along well in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe some men are naturally very good at cheating girls, don't think too much, there are few men who don't lie, but see that you are with him in the end or someone else, if it is you, then it means that you are the woman he loves the most.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He's actually doing this to you, hey, as far as I'm concerned, others are not very good, I think he's quite scary, he's taught so many girlfriends, and he's older than you, you don't understand a lot of things, don't be superficial, do you really believe him in your own heart? I don't mean anything else, you have to be happy, girl, society is very complicated.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a bit of "Love the Way You Lie".

    You're still so young, do you just like the ambiguous feeling of being with him.

    Obviously, this BF is not attentive, stepping on a few boats, how can it be balanced, and sooner or later it will fall into the water.

    Don't easily believe the boy's oath, he has no capital to promise.

    Have you ever wondered what you like about him. The appearance of handsome is still easy to say. Rather lack than abuse, Xiao mm wanted to grasp his happiness and kicked him.

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