How did you live when you just graduated from college?

It's just hard work, catching up with the good times, when we were assigned work packages.

Looking for a job all day long, but I can't find a suitable one, my family clamored for me to find a partner, but I haven't been there, and I have been troubled and busy in my life all day long.

Every day is to prepare the venue for the training meeting, prepare the materials, do the **, and report the bill. The assistant's work is trivial and sudden, but fortunately, the working atmosphere is good.

Now in a design company, the probation period expires tomorrow in two months, if there is no accident, it is time to sign a deed of sale recently, learn to accumulate experience while walking, in fact, it will not be a lot of work that I have not seen, experience is very important, and I will learn while making mistakes.

After graduation, I went to a private company, in the construction industry, mainly to help foreign companies build factories, so sometimes I have to cooperate with the inspection of foreigners, but now the company has not received new projects, and the salary has been delayed for nearly a week.

and classmates are also developing independently, all over the world, without serious understanding, and there is no frequent contact. The circle of life has also changed from classes, departments, clubs, and interest groups in the university to current colleagues and three or two old friends.

I ran around in order to find a job, found a job that was not so suitable, silently gritted my teeth and persevered for a long time, and finally changed to a new job. Then I got acquainted with a new environment, new people, and a new job that I thought was right for me.

After graduating from university, I went to a company and started as a clerk at the bottom of the company, and now I am working on it.

Graduated in 16 years, majoring in fine arts, working in a private art training institution for a year, the salary is not high, there are a lot of things, I am finally going to resign after this month, and I will move to another chain agency, which is considered to be a new start, and I hope the treatment is good.

I majored in English in college, and now I work as an assistant and translator for the project manager, but I feel like I'm about to lose my job and the company has no projects.

There's no connection anymore, and everyone still plays games and stuff from time to time when they just graduate. It's been about half a year since I graduated, and I've had a lot less contact.

On the one hand, everyone's time is really much less, and there is almost no time to get together and play something.

On the other hand, everyone actually doesn't know what to chat about, looking at the teenagers in the circle of friends, from the boring daily life of laughing and scolding in the past, posting some things to eat, drink and have fun in the royal consumption section to now starting to post some marketing articles, happy things are no longer happy.

Students who rely on their relationships to enter public institutions or have strong family backgrounds and many students from the bridge family who enter private enterprises are very different.

Some people are working from 9 to 5, everything is on the right track, some people are counting the big and small weeks, some people are going to graduate school, some people are working overtime late at night, some people are still looking for jobs, some people go back to their hometowns to live a comfortable life, some people are suffering in small cities, and some are unable to find their way in big cities.

Everyone has suffering, but they can't expose each other's old bottoms like before, and laugh and make trouble unscrupulously. Students who are not happy with their jobs avoid being able to talk to those who have not yet found a job, and students who have had a smooth sailing life do not know how to drink and talk with their old friends who are worried all day long.

The happiness of others seems to be no longer empathetic at this moment, and can only be said bitterly, without poking the needle, and gradually drifting away.

Actually, I really want to say to some classmates who are not in such a good situation, it's okay, if you have any troubles, just say it. In the past, we failed the exam, were notified and criticized, were punished by the teacher, and talked to by the counselor, we have all experienced each other, and no matter how embarrassing the moment, we will not look down on each other, laugh and scold them.

But from his own standpoint, he saw his former classmates, and today's high-spirited appearance, it seems that he can't fully accept such a distance.

And this second, I sat on the bus and watched you drive away in a BMW.

The distance in our hearts, the distance in reality, and the huge gap make us afraid that we will never have any more intersections.

May we all have a bright future, and when we are successful, we will meet again at the barbecue stand on that cold night, with a bottle of beer and a handful of cumin, around the fire, burning our eventful years.