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Ms. Zhang's 89-year-old father, two months after his son's death, forgot about it because he was too sad and went to the streets every day to look for him, and the villagers spontaneously concealed it. The old man's only son died in a car accident during this year's Lantern Festival.
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His child died in an accident, but he had forgotten that his child had died, so the neighbors around him would accompany him in the play.
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His son died of illness, and because his family was relatively poor and had no money for treatment, he could only watch him die.
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The old man's son died in an accident, and a car accident took away the old man's child, and the old man couldn't accept this kind of news.
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The 89-year-old man was so sad because of his son's death that he himself forgot this cruel fact, so he would shuttle through the streets and alleys on crutches every day to find his son's figure, and he still chanted his son's name. The old man's every move made people feel sad inexplicably. Although he forgot about his son's death because of excessive sadness or because he suffered from cerebellar atrophy, his love for his son never faded, and even became mellow in his thoughts day after day.
According to the old man's daughter, Ms. Zhang, the old man's health was not good in the first place. After the death of the old man's son two months ago, the old man was very sad. It may have been so sad that the old man forgot the fact that his son had died, so he would go to the street on crutches every day to look for his son.
Sometimes the villagers see the old man, and they will kindly help the old man's family to solve their lies, hoping that the old man can forget this sadness. After all, the elderly are very old, and if they are emotionally unstable, they may aggravate their condition.
In fact, when the old man called his son's name over and over again on the streets, he could probably vaguely feel that something was unusual in his heart. So sometimes when he met the villagers, he would ask others where their son had gone, and ask the villagers if they had seen his son. The villagers were also very embarrassed to see such an old man, and when they sympathized with the old man, they also comforted the old man by the way, so that the old man could feel relieved.
Seeing the old man's rickety figure, as well as his sincere call, I believe everyone is sad about this. For the elderly, it has become a routine to go to the street every day to find his son, perhaps this is his subconscious way of mourning his son, or maybe he is running away from the fact that his son has died. After all, the pain of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person is too great, and it is understandable that the old man can't accept it for a while.
I just hope that the elderly can be well taken care of by their families, so that they can come out of the pain as soon as possible.
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89-year-old Uncle Zhang walked on crutches every day, looking for his son who passed away two months ago, and Uncle Zhang was too sad. The villagers helped their daughter hide it in good faith.
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The old man may have done this because he missed his son too much, because he only experienced this pain when he lost it.
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Zhangjiakou, Hebei, 89-year-old Uncle Zhang is on crutches every day, looking for his son who passed away two months ago.
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According to Ms. Zhang, her father had cerebellar atrophy, and it was good to forget about it, but every time he mentioned it, he would be sad.
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I think there are three main things that hurt me the most. The first thing is that you can't accept your ordinariness. The second thing is that you once had it and then lost it.
The third thing is the people and things you want to catch, and you can't catch them.
There is a news on the Internet that has attracted the attention of netizens, that is, there is an 89-year-old father who forgot that his son died and looked for his son in the village every day. Some people will think that this old man is very painful after reading it, in fact, I think it is like this, but it is also happy, at least he still has a glimmer of hope. In his cognition, his son did not die, but was lost, as long as he searched carefully, he could find it.
Many people are very curious about what is the most painful thing in life, and I think there are three main things that are the most painful. The first is that you can't accept your ordinariness. This is when we are young, we will find ourselves as if we are an ordinary person, want to find a good job but can't do it, want to be a great person, but can't be ordinary.
When you can't accept your ordinariness, you will feel that life is meaningless, and at this time you will find yourself particularly miserable.
When you have passed the ordinary and extraordinary hurdles, do you think that life will be happy? It's not like this, and there are two things waiting for you in life. The first is that the things that you once owned have have been lost, and the people and things you want to grasp can't be grasped.
Some people lose some important opportunities as they grow up, and some people lose some important people as they grow up. Just like this 89-year-old father, his son died. That is what I said I once had, but it was painful to lose this and not have it, if he didn't have a son in the first place, he might not be like this, it is precisely because he has a son and a son, he has been together for a long time, and he has feelings and love for his son, so the death of his son will make him difficult to accept.
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The three most painful things in life are: losing a father at a young age, losing a wife in middle age, and losing a son in old age. Mourning is greater than dying, losing the motivation of life and having no direction to work towards.
Eight or nine times out of ten, there are things that do not go well in life, and we should learn to forget.
Afford to take it, put it down, think more about happy things, put unpleasant things aside, and do something you like. Make yourself a little happier every day. Wouldn't that be great? When we are in a bad mood, we can try to regulate our emotions in the following three ways.
Method 1; When you are in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the topic, or do something else, such as listening. Watch TV. Play. Play chess, go for a walk, etc., to distract yourself. This can lead to emotional relief.
Method 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, big sandbags, etc. Venting the worries that have accumulated in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health. However, it is necessary to pay attention to the object, place and occasion of catharsis to avoid harming others.
Method 3; When you want to get something, or want to do something and fail, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you accept the reality in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude. Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.
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The 89-year-old father forgot that his son had died, and he looked for his son in the village every day, and the biggest pain in his life I think is forgetting the person closest to him, because there is no him in his memory, and I can't remember his existence, which is very painful.
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The biggest pain in life is that when you are old, you don't have your relatives by your side, you need yourself, and you are lonely and have no one to talk to.
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The biggest pain in life is that the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, you are still alive, but the children are no longer there, it is very sad.
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An old man in his 80s does not remember that his son has long passed away, and he will look for his son's whereabouts every day. The reason why the old man forgot the death of the child was because the old man was very sad when his son died, so he forgot this memory. For the old man, the erasure of sad memories is not necessarily a good thing, as he is looking for the whereabouts of the child every day.
Longevity is indeed a good thing for the elderly, but if the elderly's children die before the elderly, the elderly will also be very sad and lonely. This is the case with this nearly 90-year-old man, although he is healthy and can live a few more years, but his son did not survive and passed away early, so the old man was very sad after experiencing the white-haired man sending the black-haired man. There is a protective mechanism in the brain that activates the mechanism to remove sad amnestics if you are overly sad.
This old man actually suffers from cerebellar atrophy, but the symptoms are not very serious, there is no Alzheimer's, and he remembers many things more clearly, but he forgot the sad thing of the child's death. The family originally thought that it was a good thing for the old man to be able to forget this sad memory, but they didn't expect that the old man was thinking about the child every day and wanted to find his son. Although the old man does not remember that his son is dead, he will be very sad and sad that he cannot find his son every day.
The main function of the cerebellum is memory, and after the cerebellum atrophy, the memory function of this old man itself is impaired. <>
Birth, old age, sickness and death are normal laws of nature, but for flesh-and-blood human beings, it will be very sad to face the death of a loved one, and this emotion will often accompany for a long time. Family affection is always inseparable, so this old man will work hard to find his son every day, and when people get older, their hearts will become softer and softer, and they will pay more attention to family affection.
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Because the old man is old, the cerebellum has atrophied, and his memory has declined, and now he is too sad, and the brain automatically deleted the news of his son's death and chose to forget, and the village couldn't bear to tell him the truth, so they were hiding it in good faith, in case he was hit again.
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It turned out that the old man was not in good health, and also suffered from cerebellar atrophy, some time ago his son died in an accident, the old man was too sad and forgot about it directly, so he was looking for his son every day.
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It seems that I was hit hard at the beginning, and I think that suffering is really only for those poor people.
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The death of his son has dealt a serious blow to the 89-year-old father, but he still has not forgotten his concern for his children, and he will always look for his children on the streets, which makes many people feel very sad and sympathetic. Everyone says that father's love is silent, but in my opinion, father's love is very great, and it is not inferior to the mother's love that everyone praises. Fathers are silent people, and it is difficult for them to express their love in words, but they can also feel extremely deep love and care in their father's actions, and then we can also know that father's love is also very selfless.
Father's love is an expression that describes the father's love, and the love they show is like a mountain, although it is difficult to move, but they can also feel a strong sense of security when facing it. In my impression, no matter where I am or where I am, I can feel the love that my father gave me from afar. Father's love supports and protects us like a pillar, so that we can have a steady stream of support and support when we do things, so that we can have a strong sense of belonging when we are helpless.
Fathers don't say how much they love their children in front of their children, their poor expression makes father's love seem more taciturn, selfless dedication, father's love is everyone's father's love, difficult to feel in words. Since there will be misunderstandings, but despite this, they will also selflessly show their emotions, so that their children know through their actions that their father loves them. <>
We always think that our father is not as meticulous and meticulous as our mother, but this is just that we don't feel it carefully. The effort they put in behind the scenes, the money, time, and emotional care they give is as great as a mother's love, and every child needs father's love and mother's love as they grow up. These two kinds of love are indispensable, especially boys need to have a father's love, so that they can be more responsible and responsible in their growth.
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Father's love is a kind of love for children with practical actions, and father's love is like a mountain, silent but heavy.
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Fatherly love is very great and very deep, and if your father is still by your side, it must be a very happy thing.
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Father's love is like a mountain that can be relied on, and it can be used to shelter from the wind and rain, and father's love is also very deep.
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People go through a lot of things in their lives, and there will be many situations. There are people and things that we find difficult to judge whether they are right or wrong. But there is one thing that makes many people feel confused and helpless.
That is, the 89-year-old mother of Wuliqiao Village, Qiaoxi District, Shijiazhuang City, Hebei Province, is looking for her son every day, and the old man is looking for "home" every day.
Now, there is an 89-year-old man named Song Suqin in Wuliqiao Village, Qiaoxi District, Shijiazhuang City, Hebei Province. The old man has never gone out to work since he married his son. And the reason why the old man can't remember his son is because after going out to work for a period of time, he has forgotten the specific situation of his son.
So the old man often went out to look for his son. But because the old man has a habit, that is, she will often take her children out to look for it. Maybe the old man did this for the sake of his children!
Although according to news reports, the son that the old mother was looking for has been found, many people do not think that there is anything wrong with the old mother. Some people think that this old man has not encountered any difficulties, and has not met anyone. Some people think that the old man is looking for his son every day, which is repeating the search notice in the process of repeating the search.
Maybe the villagers are "cheating" the old mother with good intentions? But the old mother repeated the search for her son again and again.
The reason why the old man still looks for her son at this age is actually that she wants to go out and see the outside world, because she wants to have a bigger space in life. If the old mother was looking for her son every day, then her son might be all she had. Many people may think that this old mother is not looking for her son?
But is the old man looking for his son? From the side, the old man's search behavior is indeed inappropriate.
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