Debate Question Hooligans is the girl s fault

When I read this, I also felt that it was the girl's fault, he and her relationship was no matchmaker at the beginning, but he didn't look at his character, it all depends on the matchmaker's words, and now we all know, matchmaker, it was all for money. That's all there is to it, we take the exam, if you are interested, ask me.

"Hooligans" is a person who seems to be honest and honest, but in fact has a lot of ghost eyes. Under the pretext of changing cloth, he did everything possible to get close to the girl and pursue the girl. When he achieved his goal and got both the girl and the girl's dowry, he exposed his ugly face, abandoned the woman mercilessly, and even brutalized the woman, eager to kill the yellow-faced woman.

Such a person is hateful, and the tragic fate of the woman is a direct result of him. But while we hate this negative man, have we ever wondered if our heroine is carried away by love in this tragic marriage, so that she falls into pain?

There is this sentence in the text, which is worth our attention: "Send the son to wade Qi, as for Dunqiu." I am scared, and there is no good matchmaker.

There will be no anger, and the autumn will be for a period. Under the rhetoric of the "hooligan", the woman was tempted, and she actually sent the man across the Qishui until he was sent to Dunqiu before turning around. These two places are written in the poem, which shows that women send men far away, and women love men deeply.

At this time, the man offered to marry the woman. Such a hasty marriage, of course, the girl did not agree. It doesn't conform to the customs of the time, you don't have a matchmaker, how can I marry you?

The man didn't care about this and got angry. So the woman persuaded her with kind words, don't be angry, let's take autumn as the wedding date.

From here we can see that the nature of the hooligan has been exposed, but our heroine is indulged in love and does not find the man's shortcomings. It makes sense for a woman to reject a man. One is that it is hasty to get married after a short acquaintance, and the other is that without a matchmaker, the marriage is not proper and unsatisfactory.

But how did the man behave? He was angry. He was at fault, but he blamed the woman, which laid the groundwork for the later text of "what he said, as for the violence", he was so easy to get angry before marrying him, which shows that his temper is short-tempered.

But our heroine is completely carried away by love, and does not see this, and is extremely gentle with him, accommodating and comforting him. Besides, he gets angry at the mention of the matchmaker, which shows that he doesn't want to be really responsible for the woman and doesn't want to marry her in accordance with the norms, which also lays the groundwork for the later abandonment of the woman, because the man is not sincere from the beginning, he is just greedy for the woman's young beauty and money, once the money is in hand, the woman is old and decrepit, and he abandons the woman mercilessly.

The woman is wrong, you can change it.