Do people have to give up when they reach a certain age?

I feel that when people reach a certain age, they have to learn to throw away some things in order to move forward. My grandfather likes to smoke, he is an old smoker, and when he was young, it was useless to persuade anyone. But what he didn't expect was that he consciously reached the age of 60 and quit directly, and now he is in good health.

When I asked him why, he said that when people are old, they have to give up something. At what age do people have to do things, and the further back they go, the more they have to learn to do "subtraction". Unconsciously, half of life has passed, wrinkles quietly creep up the corners of the eyes, as if they are old without doing anything, and with a flick of the fingers, the annual rings of life are drawn again.

At this time, I found that when I reached a certain age, I had to give up some things, such as things that I was very passionate about when I was young, and which seem meaningless now.

At a certain age, we no longer be competitive, we have learned to disguise ourselves, we have learned to compromise with reality, the edges and corners of the past have now been polished to be round and flexible, and when we reach a certain age, we understand that many people and things are actually unnecessary.

As I get older, my physiology and mentality have changed, and I am more likely to be at peace with what happens. We must learn to throw away the things that bother us and hinder us, and we can only gain in life, so that we can travel lightly and move forward all the way.

Many people only start to complain when they reach middle age: I am old, ** has deteriorated, my body is out of shape, my memory is lost, and my body is not good. When you really reach old age, the whole person has been defeated by yourself, and you only feel that you are an outcast of the years and a forgotten person in society.

When I am older, I begin to realize the meaning of life on my own. Life has to move from addition to subtraction, there are many things to lose, but there are a few things, not only can not be lost, but as you get older, you have to have more and more.

There are some things in life that will not come back if they are lost, rather than regretting the past, it is better to cherish every moment of the present, we must always slowly get used to the hot and cold of some people, and we must gradually accept the gradual distancing of some people.

The busy are valuable, the idle have taste, know the world but not the world, understand the world but not the world, life is like chess, and there are no regrets. At this age, I don't want to pursue too much, live a healthy life, live a real and simple life, and get what I need, which is a blessing; Those who are greedy too much are tired, and those who are at ease are happy, calm and peaceful, and contented and happy.

Although I am not yet 40 years old this year, I also feel that there are some things that should be given up and not taken so seriously. When encountering unpleasant things and troublesome things, we will always habitually complain, although we know that complaining will not solve any problems, but we still can't help but sigh. After a long time, this kind of resentment accumulated over the years will be reflected in our hearts, reflected in our faces, and in our temperament, there is no doubt that such a face will definitely not look good.

I have a friend I haven't seen for a long time, and when I meet him, he says, "Why did you get so old, and what else can't you put down?" I really feel bad, looking back, thinking about it, you will find that you have always been unable to get along with yourself, rather than pointless complaints, it is better to think more about the solution is more practical.

People, when they reach a certain age, everyone has troubles, everyone has helplessness, speaking has become no longer so reckless, right and wrong do not want to care too much, and only they know the pain in their hearts. I no longer like the hustle and bustle of life, I just want to have a simple and real life.

Always learn to pretend to be confused, learn not to care, the world is so big that there are no surprises, existence is reasonable, some things will be sad if you see too clearly, some people will be sad if you see too clearly, no one has the obligation to get used to your temper, you must always learn to restrain your emotions.

A person who does things carefully, has a very small heart, is very selfish, and always likes to take advantage of others is not worthy of being good to him.

Very selfish, doesn't know how to share, double-faced, always says bad things about you behind your back, and people who treat you badly are not worthy of your kindness to him.

When people reach a certain age, they must know how to give up, if they give you negative energy every day, and then make you unhappy, you must stay away from them, and you must be with like-minded people.

No, when people reach middle age, they will become more and more calm, knowing what money means to a man, and it is not worth taking risks for a person, after all, this is human nature.

Some people will, some people don't.

There is a ** "Paradise Lost" in Japan, and the middle-aged man gave up everything he had for his new love, this kind of love is a bit extreme and needs to be treated with caution.

When people reach middle age, many things are hard to come by, and they have matured a lot, and it is basically difficult to give up everything for a person, unless that kind of person is a moth to fire type.

Writer Xue Xiaozen said: "When people reach a certain age, they are going to **, and at the end, they will live as they want to be, three or two confidants, a cup of light tea, and live as they want." ”

Empathize, I don't know when I don't like to join in the fun, I don't like to stick to the crowd, the banquet can be pushed on the occasion, I really can't push it, it is also quiet, I can talk less, the less I say, you are lively, I only look and listen to only smile.

As I grew older, I tasted the ups and downs of life, and I saw the truth, goodness, beauty, ugliness and despicability of human nature.

There are many things and people that belong to you, and if you can't run, you can't keep them, or it's useless to fight for your head and bleed, you will only be exhausted.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "I don't fight with anyone, and I don't care about anyone I fight. "It is best to do your best to obey the destiny of God, accept the reality and go with the flow, and it is also an attitude to be smooth and smooth when you encounter it.

When people reach a certain age, they want to understand and begin to break away, not only to cut off and abandon things and things that are not suitable or necessary, but also to break off and give up inappropriate people and feelings, some feelings are not suitable for themselves, they will only bring pain, so why bother to entangle, they are together for happiness and happiness. If a relationship is painful and unpleasant, it is better not to be entangled.

The more things you have, the more energy is occupied, the weaker your control over the life book and yourself, and the less time and energy you have left for yourself. Sometimes appropriation is an obsession, but also greed, but also a burden, the more courage to give up, the more independent and relaxed they are, and the richer the spiritual world.

Learn to be alone and adapt to loneliness, as time goes by, people will always become more and more lonely, and it is wise to adapt to loneliness as soon as possible.

I like to be alone, I like to be alone, I like to be alone, I like to be alone, I like to be alone, I like to be alone, I feel like I am alone, I feel free at this time, I feel a

Life is too short, put yourself in a worthwhile, comfortable, and free environment, and surround yourself with people who can make you better and make yourself happy.

Material simplicity, peace of mind, no surprise, no desire is rigid, no longer will be anyone, no longer say things against your will, no longer pretend to go along with anyone, you can not say a word when you don't want to speak, and live yourself as you want.

Don't have too many friends, otherwise it will only consume energy, have two or three confidants, a cup of tea, and be able to speak freely, it is enough.