Why do poor people hoard things? Why some people naturally like to stock up

Poor people like to hoard things, because poor people know that life is not easy, and they have a good habit of thrift and thrift.

Some old things, used things, can still be reused in daily life after being hoarded, and they can be saved and bought again, which is a waste.

Because stockpiling things is not only cheap when buying but also convenient to use, but you should not stock up on too many things, and you should have the right amount of everything.

The situation you mentioned should be relatively normal, because it is difficult to change the habit of thrift and thrift.

Because they always feel prepared.

1. Truly rich people don't waste their time buying things.

Many people think that if they are rich, they will go shopping as they please, but they are not. Often, the richer the person, the more low-key and steady the consumption behavior, rather than fanfare, or wanton consumption.

Compared with the rich, the poor will have more desires, because "what you can't get is always in turmoil", they not only want to be rich, even if they can't become rich, but they also experience the feeling of having through shopping. The rich don't spend money on things that aren't worth it or don't need it, but the poor do the opposite. Just like buying a car, the rich will spend a lot of money on a luxury car, but then stop replacing and buying it for a long time.

But the poor will take a break to upgrade and replace little by little. And the same goes for everything else. In this way, more and more things are being bought.

Second, the rich pay attention to value, and the poor care about **.

When the rich are shopping, they pay more attention to the value while paying attention to the **. The poor, on the other hand, tend to focus on **. In other words, many poor people will decide whether they need this item according to ****. And the rich do decide according to their own needs**.

Third, the rich have more self-control than the poor.

Many poor people will keep an eye on various shopping festivals, while the rich will focus more time and attention on wealth creation and appreciation. The poor have no self-control to buy cheap things when they see them, and in the end, they buy even things that may not be necessary.

Manifestations of hoarding:

01 Fanatical love of their own belongings.

Hoarders behave in a way that is incomprehensible to normal people, and they have a very fanatical and paranoid love for their belongings, which can even be described as obsession. Normal people like an object, usually that object has an extraordinary meaning, while hoarders may be obsessed with a broken or even rotten object.

02 Collection fetish.

People who suffer from hoarding have a collecting habit, but this collecting habit is different from other people's collecting habits, they collect items that make people cry and laugh, such as items that others discard, and do not have any use value, appreciation value, etc., even if it is a used band-aid, they will collect it like a treasure.

03It is difficult to dispose of items.

To use an analogy, people with hoarding have injured their fingers and need to be bandaged with gauze, and when the wound is healed, they are not even willing to throw away the gauze that bandages their fingers, but carefully treasure them. If one day, for some reason, let them throw these away, it is really a very painful thing.

04 Strong possessiveness.

This is also a personality that is easily produced by people who suffer from hoarding, and the desire to possess an object or even a person is very strong. This kind of strong possessiveness is actually very scary, especially when facing people or things that may not belong to them, they want to get to their side with what they are missing, and it is easy to go to the extreme road.

Ways to say goodbye to hoarding:

01 Be truly aware of the consequences of hoarding.

Many people who suffer from hoarding are actually very conflicted and entangled, they know which of their behaviors are wrong, but they can't control their desire to do it, and it is not the feeling of mental illness that they don't know what they are doing. Therefore, if you have a clear mind, you should not let yourself go, but think about the consequences of these actions, only in this way can you have the determination to say goodbye to hoarding.

02Learn to give up.

Detachment, this is the three-word mantra given by psychologists to hoardists, which is really very difficult for hoarding people, but if you have realized the harm of hoarding and have the determination to get rid of hoarding, then you must strive to achieve renunciation. Clean up the items you treasure, and then choose them carefully, and put the things that you think are very quirky into the cardboard box and throw them away as soon as possible.

03Engage in more outdoor interactive activities.

Too many people with hoarding are resistant to outdoor social activities or other activities, and they prefer to live alone, and it is precisely this solitary life that makes their hoarding more severe. Therefore, you have to let yourself participate in those outdoor activities more, even if you force yourself to do more, you will gradually get used to it, so that your vision will be broadened, your mind will naturally be broadened, and the problem of hoarding can be slowly alleviated.

It's like this, like ants will eat a lot before it rains, otherwise they will starve to death when it rains. This is also a rainy day, and it is also related to prices, enter at a low price, ** you don't need to buy it anymore.

Because of the three-year epidemic, many people have been under a lot of pressure, and these pressures have directly affected their psychological level, such as the people around me because of the following psychological problems under the epidemic.

First of all, because of the continuation of the epidemic, some people around me have become more and more anxious, especially for those friends around me who are engaged in the service industry, because of the impact of the epidemic, their work and business have been greatly affected, because the recurrence of the epidemic often requires the suspension of work or the suspension of their own business, which will naturally reduce their income significantly, and even if they return to work or start their own business again, Liu is no longer as prosperous as before. Even many acquaintances around me eventually went bankrupt due to the impact of the epidemic, so that they lost their income for a period of time** and lived a difficult life, which naturally caused a lot of pressure in their hearts.

On the other hand, under the epidemic, many people around me often have a self-enclosed mentality, because they often think that they have left their pure home, outside, activities are not safe, under the epidemic, the best way to protect themselves is to close themselves at home as much as possible, of course, there are some acquaintances around me because of the epidemic to form an irrational shopping psychology, in order to cope with the epidemic, these acquaintances tend to stock up on a lot of food and a lot of daily necessities at home, Even if they can't eat and use these things for a long time, they will still do it, because only in this way can they really feel at ease.