Can two people who are too similar be together?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If both of them are stubborn, then it is still settled. If both people can accommodate each other, then it's okay to be together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't worry. Since you are similar. Then the feeling of fear should be similar. Then everyone will cherish it more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    OK.. If you have that feeling of wanting to be together, act on it Fault is not terrible, what I am afraid of is missing、、、

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, I think similar people are more suitable for being together than similar people, because two similar people will only appear relatively harmonious when they are in love, because the personalities are complementary, so when one wants to lose his temper, the other person can always start from another angle, so the problem will not expand again, but marriage is two people to be together for many years, if there is no friction between two people, life will undoubtedly seem a lot more boring, and according to the survey, two similar people are more suitable for being together than two similar people。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, this similar person, according to the rural parlance, is fate, there is a husband and wife or some places say that it is a marriage in a previous life.

    According to the current society, this is only the first step, the important thing is to look at the character, mutual appreciation, and harmony. Whether it is suitable or not, it depends on how well the two get along, I hope not to be bound by old ideas, have a good talk, even if you lose, you will not regret it, thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's definitely okay, because when everyone meets together, they must go through a lot of running-in.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, as long as two people have a good temper and personality in all aspects, they are suitable for living together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whether two similar people are suitable for being together, I think the main thing to consider is from all aspects, first of all, whether they can get along with each other in terms of personality, and whether they will tolerate and care for each other, these are very important.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, suitable: 1Because of the similarity, it is easy to attract.

    Similar past experiences, similar interests, and similar backgrounds can all increase mutual attraction. When attraction is perceived, two people become more intimate. If two people have many similarities, they will have more topics to chat about and get along more harmoniously.

    2.If the three views are the same, the cognition will be similar. A quarrel between husband and wife does not mean that two people have no feelings.

    It is precisely because two people lack deep feelings that they hope that they can understand what they say, and they want to make each other's thoughts consistent with their own. The reason for this is that the two sides have different ways of looking at the problem, which leads to the fact that the two people will fight over a trivial matter. If the three views are the same, the angle of understanding things will be similar, so as to avoid quarrels and make it easier to achieve spiritual fit.

    3.Better perceive the needs of the other person. In an intimate relationship, everyone wants the other person to understand and tolerate themselves.

    Similar lovers will understand you better. Know your grievances, understand your needs, and understand how Huai makes you feel. On the other hand, if your needs are not satisfied, you will have resentment, disappointment and other pessimism.

    Sense each other's needs in time and meet each other's needs, and the relationship between the two parties will become more intimate. In fact, two people are not suitable, and the external additional conditions that lead the disadvantages are not deciding, and the right person is really found when it feels right. The most direct and objective feeling is:

    With him, there are far more happy days than sad days.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people with similar personalities are suitable to be together.

    There is a ironic characteristic of human nature, that is, they tend to judge others by their own standards. When you come into contact with someone, you will naturally praise and approve when you see that the other person is similar to you.

    If it is two people with similar personalities, not only will they like each other, but they will also get along better. Personality is defined in psychology as a person's stable attitude towards reality, and the personality traits expressed by the way of behavior under this attitude. From this point of view, people with similar personalities get along with each other, and there will be a lot less conflicts than those with different personalities.

    In this way, we don't have to make too many changes to each other, and we will adapt to each other. Break-in period.

    Short, there will be fewer contradictions. What the other party is going to do, you don't have to rack your brains to guess. If we were simpler with each other, we would be very harmonious and happy.

    In fact, the personality is similar, that is, the attitude and values of life are similar. If a person is optimistic, he will tend to find someone who is equally optimistic to live with. Many of his views on things are similar, and there are more topics to talk about, so that they will be together for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is nothing wrong with two people being similar, but it depends on what aspects they are similar, whether it is a disadvantage or an advantage, if it is an advantage, it is fine, if it is a disadvantage, it is not very suitable, and as for feeling tired, this is already a red flag. Therefore, you need to calm down and think about it carefully, see if it is okay, and then make a decision, and don't regret it. I wish you happiness and happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Research has confirmed that couples with similar personalities are more likely to be considerate and accommodating to each other, to see problems in a similar way of thinking, and that their relationship will take a higher level after the problem is resolved. Couples who also have personality traits such as cheerful, outgoing, easy-going, and organized are very happy in their married life. On the contrary, couples with strained relationships have strong opposition in personality.

    They can still get along normally when they are in love, but after marriage, they become incompatible and frictional. One possible reason is that some people are susceptible to being attracted to the opposite sex of their personality, such as a quiet and introverted girl who falls in love with an unruly and rebellious boy. The advice of marriage experts is that it is better to consider whether it is someone with a similar personality to consider considering the chances of harmony after marriage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    One is reluctant to communicate, and the other is not willing to communicate. Are you sure it's appropriate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's suitable, and it's very comfortable to be with someone who knows it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People who are similar are more harmonious than opposites.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At noon, I watched a short new blind date conference, which triggered a little feeling.

    In the scene I watched, the male guest was a very strong, fitness-loving, adventurous, highly self-disciplined, and golden-looking big boy, and he used so many modifiers just to show that this boy was really sought-after.

    Despite this, as soon as he appeared, I felt that I was not suitable for such a boy, because I really couldn't hold it. )

    There is a female guest at the scene, who also likes fitness, they have a lot of common interests and hobbies, and their lifestyles are also very similar, so when the male guests first appeared, many people called the heart-warming female guests must be this girl, because they are too similar!

    In fact, his favorite female guest is this girl, and this girl also likes this male guest, constantly emphasizing that they have a lot in common. In the end, the wish hand-holding was successful.

    I suddenly had a question, are two people who are very similar fit together? Why did everyone identify the female guest who was most similar to him as soon as the male guest appeared?

    I personally feel that complementarity is better than being very similar. The hobbies and lifestyles of two people are already very similar, so after the two people are together, they are still like this, so what's the fun? And two complementary people, both of whom enter each other's lives in a different state, will collide with a lot of new things, isn't this kind of life more colorful?

    For me, two people who are very similar may be more suitable to be friends, and you still have to find a complementary person to find a partner, so that life can stay fresh, isn't it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, different people are more likely to attract each other, but similar people walk longer. For example, if there is a conflict between two people with different personality experiences, if no one is willing to take a step back and explain, there will be a mustard. But after two similar people quarrel, they can understand each other, and understand you as if they understood themselves.

    But then again. There are no two people who are exactly the same in terms of personality, and there are no two completely different people, the most important thing is to be tolerant and understanding.

    Some people say: people will have needs in their lives, and this demand is more for intimate people, you want more, you want the other party to understand you, understand your feelings, understand your grievances, we have less needs for outsiders, so there will be more tolerance, and for the people you love, usually the needs will become more. If the needs are not met, there will be negative emotions such as anger, if two people are similar, they will understand each other's needs and meet each other in a timely manner, making both parties more intimate.

    Some people also say: similar people, living habits do not have so many places to run in: one urban, one rural, one loves clean, one messy, such ironclad is bound to quarrel over trivial matters, but I don't mean that there are differences will fail, it's just that similar people don't need to spend so much time to run in, so there are fewer opportunities for quarrels......

    Similar people have similar interests, the money will be the same, and each other will not feel that the other party has spent the wrong money, which is very important, economic difficulties are difficulties, but there should be fewer disputes, because everyone has similar values for money, there are not so many contradictions ......

    So I don't think there are similar people in the field, only the relative person, the one who understands you, is suitable!

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