Boys, please come in, what will happen if you find out that your wife can t have children?

No, my wife can't, I still love her very much, I love her people.

Think more about your wife! I guess you married her because you loved her, not because she could give you a baby, right? Your wife must be sad now that she knows that she can't have a baby for you, right?

You're going to divorce her, what is she going to do now? Maybe you are also under pressure now, but this is also a time to test your love, the two of them have already managed a lot of hardships to be together, please cherish it!

Love her well, go and raise a child, treat him as his own, and when he grows up, he will be filial to you like his own child, don't be too conservative.

If you really love her, don't worry about it

Now a lot of people are gone!

Go adopt one.

Sometimes the biological one is not as filial as the adopted one.

It can't be your sake.

If the wife really can't have children, we will choose to adopt a child, after all, this kind of thing is not forced, and we also have to ask my wife's opinion.

If I am a married man (I am a woman), I like children, and I also want to have my own children, if my wife cannot have children, maybe because I love her, I will choose to adopt, but I can't guarantee that if I have the opportunity to have my own children, I will not choose to divorce my wife.

Personally, I think that at this time, we must seek relevant solutions, and if you really can't solve it, you can adopt one, after all, I think your love is still very important.

I will choose two people to raise a child, and I can also choose Dink, so that the relationship between the two people is more stable, and there will not be too many contradictions.

I will choose to continue living with my wife, and then the two of us will adopt a child and raise it together.

I would choose to divorce my wife and give her some financial compensation, because I still want to have children of my own.

First of all, both parties should go to the hospital to verify whose problem it is, and secondly, they should be more concerned and loving to him, let him know that you really love her, and more importantly, the two parties can negotiate, if allowed, they can try to do IVF.

At this time, he will definitely not choose to give up his wife, and he can go to an orphanage to adopt a child, so that he can satisfy his desire to have a child.

I will be stuck in a kind of entanglement and contradiction, and I may end up with a divorce. Because my parents really want children.

My wife can't have children, and you really want to have a child, so you can actively seek medical treatment and find a way to have a child.

So the wife can't have children, it's really not a problem.

If modern medicine can't solve this problem and you want to have a child, you can consider adopting one.

If you can think about it, without children, two people can enjoy life, life is too short, it is not necessary to have a child to call it a perfect life.

The extra time, take care of yourself, study hard, continue to grow, and be a person who can create value.

Since you don't have children, it's better to give your wife both love, I believe that she is more sad than you without children.

I have also imagined a childless life, which may have more time and know how to take good care of myself, transfer the expectations of my children to myself, and make double efforts to live a different life.

Even with the child's share, live together.

Life is not easy, and it is life to have children and not to have children.

Two different lives, two different tastes, I can't say which one is better, it's good to live.

As for the idea of inheritance, there are really few people in modern times who think about it.

First of all, we must have a positive attitude and go to the doctor first, now that medicine is developed, many diseases can be overcome, and infertility is no longer a problem. We know that Big S was also rumored to be infertile, and later he didn't have a baby. Even if you really can't conceive a child, you can do IVF, there are many ways, it depends on whether you are willing to try.

Of course, no matter what the best method costs a lot of money, most of them will be discouraged at this time, after all, a penny is not a hero, so try to accept the adoption of a child. Although it is not his own birth, the child has grown up under his own careful care since he was a child, and it is no different from his own birth. However, you must be mentally prepared, and only when you fully accept the idea of adoption can you act, otherwise you will not only harm yourself but also your children.

After being mentally prepared, go to the street to go through the formalities, select the child through the orphanage and other institutions, take the child for a physical examination, and when everything is ready, there will be a little life, and from then on, this is your own child. He comes to us like an angel and brings us happiness, no matter what problems you encounter in the future, you must love this child, because adoption is a more important responsibility than giving birth, originally there is no relationship between you, only because of one of your actions that the child has a new family, so the nurturer is crucial in this relationship.

Finally, as long as you treat your child sincerely, they will definitely love you more. Although blood relationship is always said to be thicker than water, but the warmth in actual life is the most important, we must live in the present, do not be solidified by some thoughts, life is our own, we have to be responsible.

If you can go for an IVF, use a medical attitude to solve it!

If IVF isn't feasible either, go for one and adopt one!

I understand how sad it is to not be able to have a child of my own, and it is not particularly easy to adopt a child as if it were my own.

To tell the truth, before I got married, I was very worried that I couldn't have children, and I even talked to my boyfriend about it, but my boyfriend told me very seriously, it's okay, let's adopt one.

His sincere words gave me a great sense of security. Later, we got married and had children of our own, and we didn't go through the process of worrying about having children, but I am still grateful for the affirmation that my partner gave me at that moment.

Actually, I think your wife also needs your support and affirmation, and it's not your wife who chooses not to have children.

Not being able to have children is already a very big blow to a woman, coupled with the rejection and blow of the object, her heart will not suffer less than yours! If you love her, you have to bear life with her, instead of blaming the mistakes that she herself can't control.

We have no way to escape everything life gives us, we can only choose to accept it, and then do our best on this basis.

I think this topic is also a topic that many men are more concerned about or entangled, everyone in the family wants to have their own baby, so that the family is healthy, but what if it is really not related to the baby?

1. Go to the hospital for examination.

If it is indeed the woman's problem, you have to check whether it is the best thing to do, why can't you have children, after the checkout, go to the hospital to prescribe the right medicine, now the medical level is so developed, you must believe that if there are no other problems, you should be able to have children.

2. Adoption. If not, then adopt a baby for a long time, although the social security is better now, but there are still many orphans, like children in orphanages, you can adopt one, from childhood to adulthood is also the same.

3. Dink. Then you have to think about whether you love your children or your wife, or just want your wife to give you a baby, if you love your wife, I think the two of you will be very happy together even if you don't have children.

4. Divorce. It's really not good, and it's also the worst solution, that is, your family can't accept it, your wife can't accept that you can't get pregnant, under the pressure of both parties, you feel that you can't hold on, and it hurts you and her if you force it down, so it's better to divorce, you find a new one, although you may not be able to have children, but at least there is one more chance.

Therefore, it is still necessary to look at this problem from the perspective of personal mentality, some people think it is actually a small problem, while some people think it is a big joke.

Think, who are you really in love?

This is a heavy topic, and I am sad in my heart, because I am also one of the many unfortunate people. I don't know why, we just didn't have a baby born, check it out, or my problem. I used to hate myself, I hated everyone, and even the thought of suicide appeared, but that was only once.

I'm still alive and well. He's still there for me.

When I first got checked, I was in a hurry to go to the doctor. I spent a lot of unjust money, and I suffered a lot of sins. In the end, I found that it was useless, and I gave up.

Because these are realities, you have to accept your fate. I accepted. The attitude of the family is incomprehensible.

A lot of people came to figure it out. What is constantly struggling on the road to healing, what is better than raising a child, and even divorce has come out.

I panicked for a while, because the more I could, the more I didn't know what to do. Until one day I couldn't hold it anymore, I wanted to commit suicide, and as a result, he grabbed me and said to me, I can live without children, but I can't live without you. I cried, crying heartbreakingly, whether it was for the sake of the child or myself, I didn't figure it out, I just cried.

But, since then, I don't have that intense pain, but sometimes I feel a little melancholy.

Today, it's still two people, but we're still together. Although, maybe it's because of the lack of children's fun, but I think we're still quite happy, and he said that he can't live without me, which shows that I am the most important, and I think, this is enough. After all, it's not easy to have someone who loves you, not to mention that we really love each other.

Didn't you do this test before you got married? It depends on whether you love your wife or for the sake of inheritance. It's up to you to choose a divorce.