What do you think of the phrase that adults often say, It s good to get married ?

In our lives, we often hear our parents say that it is good to wait for you to get married. Maybe in the eyes of parents, marriage means maturity, it means responsibility, marriage is an adult, and parents don't need to worry about themselves anymore. At home, no matter what happens, parents like to take this sentence, you can't cook, your parents will say that you will do it after marriage, you are more willful, and your parents will say that it will be fine after you get married.

But when you get married, things will be fine, but it's not.

One: After getting married, parents don't have to worry about themselves.

Every parent is very worried about their children, and in the eyes of parents, children are children after all. Parents will always take care of their children before they get married. You can't cook, you can't wash dishes, you can't do housework, because you have your parents around.

In the eyes of parents, after getting married, they will form another family with others, and the children are the masters of this family, and many things need to be done by themselves, and they don't need to worry about it anymore. <>

Two: After getting married, I know the hard work of being a parent.

If you can be very willful at home before you get married, because you have parents who spoil you, you don't need to take any responsibility, because your parents will help us with anything. We never feel the hard work of our parents. But when we get married, we will have our own family, and our parents have no right to ask about our lives, so we naturally know the hard work of being in charge of the family, and we also know the sadness of making money.

It can be a lot more mature in an instant. <>

Three: After getting married, your task is completed.

Children's lifelong events are always the most worrying thing for parents, because if they don't get married, they can't let go of the big stone in their hearts. After the child gets married, he can start his new life, so for the parents, it is also a kind of letting go. Because this means that the responsibility of the parents is completed, and the future road needs to be walked by the children themselves.

In fact, it is said that it is fine after marriage, but many parents are still worried about their children, and after marriage, there are still things to have children, and parents will still worry about this and that. After all, no matter how old a child is, in the eyes of his parents, he will always be a child who will not grow up.

It's good to get married, it's a helpless tone. It is parents who hope that their children can understand things, but there are also some irresponsible and cannot correct the things that their children do not do in time.

There is no truth to this statement. Getting married is just a change of identity, and it doesn't change your body or life for the better.

This sentence is mainly based on the perspective of adults, and different angles and different perspectives are different. Adults say this because marriage is a person's transformation, and when they get married, young people really grow up, have responsibilities, and have responsibilities, and their parents' lives will be easier, and they don't need to think about themselves and test their children's future lives. After getting married, the pressure on parents will be much less than before.

I think it's too bad, it's completely misleading, and it's not good to get married.

I think what adults mean is that after getting married, your temper and personality will be restrained accordingly, and then your mood will become calmer. It's a sign of maturity.

In fact, what adults mean is that after getting married, people will become mature and have a sense of responsibility. At the same time, after getting married, you will be relieved, and you will become stable. And after getting married, I can better understand the difficulty of life.

Adults always think that as long as the child gets married, he will grow up immediately, and he will immediately become a responsible person. But getting married doesn't make a person immediately responsible.

Yes, it's better to get married, two people are happier and happier to live together, better than one person 1, I don't like this world, I only like you.

2. You are the light in my heart and the sea in front of me.

3. There are 40,000 roses in my yard, and every morning, I sit at the door with a book in my hand.

All the people who passed by praised my roses, and some wanted to break one or two, but I ignored them.

Until that day, you came, smiling and narrowing into crescent moons, asked me, what kind of book are you reading?

I knew that these 40,000 roses are all yours, all of them are yours.

4. Let my love, like the sunshine, surround you and give you glorious freedom.

5. "For the rest of your life, the wind and snow are you, the plainness is you, the poverty is you, the glory is you, the tenderness in the heart is you, and the eyes are also you."

6. I hope that in the days to come, I can sing with you about wine, and I can also have a quiet time.

7. Be able to understand the hardships of your previous life, and you can also accompany you in the next life.

2. Talk about mood phrases and ancient sentences when you get married.

1. Lonely smoke and endless sand, I am fortunate to be able to step with you.

2. Married as husband and wife, there is no doubt about love.

3. You and I already know how to match it for a hundred years.

4. The rivers and lakes are far away, and they will go and return together.

5. If one person is favored, he is willing to be generous for the rest of his life.

6, life and death are broad, and Zicheng said. Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.

7. Often compare wings and swear white-headedly.

8. The marriage of two surnames, the contract is signed in one class, the good relationship is forever, and the same name is matched.

9. I would like to take the white-headed covenant and write to the Hongjian, so that the alliance of red leaves will contain the mandarin spectrum.

10. Seeing a gentleman, Yunhu doesn't like it.

11. I heard that Mr. governs the family well, and the little girl is willing to spend the rest of her life hearing about it.

2. Talk about mood phrases and literary sentences when you get married.

1. When I first saw it, I was still stunned for a long time.

2. Si people are like rainbows, and they know that there are above.

3. A journey through the landscape, three lives are fortunate.

4. Since then, some people have asked me about porridge and warmth, and some people have shared dusk with me.

5. Three meals for two people a day for four seasons.

6. In the past, the person in front of me was the sweetheart. In the future, the sweetheart is the pillow person.

7. The world is not worth it, but you are worth it.

8. Begin at the first sight and end at the end of life.

9. I hope that for the rest of my life, I will know each other with warmth and coldness, share joy, spend the sun and moon with the same amount of heaven and earth, and spend the sun and moon together 10, and the known people, and go to live an unknown life.

11. I only have one life, and I can't give it generously to someone I don't love.

There is nothing good or bad about getting married, the key is to see if you want to get married. Because after getting married, you are not alone, it is the life of two people, whether they are selfish or not, when they are married, they must integrate others into their own lives or integrate themselves into other people's lives.

If this person is someone you love, then you will be happy. Because you love him, you are willing to let him have him in your life, and you can't wait for him to join, then even if this person is not good, you will be very happy.

If this person is the one who loves you, then it is content. Because this person loves you, he will let you spoil you and take care of you.

But marriage is a two-way street... If you can't go to the smooth side, you will stumble, because your space is divided itself is not used to it, and life must take into account two people... Some of this person's behavior and habits may not be known when they are not married, but one thing is for sure, everything about this person will be exposed after living together... So getting married is not really a topic to be cautious about, I think it's a natural topic.

Because no matter how careful you think, you can't catch up with the changes, if you change your mind, it's useless to get married, and if you fall in love, it's okay to live together without getting married.

It's just that falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. I think it's really your family that you have to think about when you get married...

As long as you are comfortable with your marriage, you can accept it, if you feel unsure, you won't accept it...

Marriage is never afraid of being too late...

So there's nothing good or bad, and it depends on what kind of mentality you have. Many people have a fear of marriage... I think it's just that they don't know if they can bear the future life... Most of these people are people who have a good sense of self-space or are very slim...

Once you get married, there's nothing good or bad, it's a question of whether you can live it.

When a celebrity gets married, he has a good life and is rich, but is he comfortable? Being watched and making scandals... Poor people also encourage each other to support their families when they get married, and their lives are not good...

It depends on what you are pursuing, although marriage is not child's play, it is also a personal attitude, some people just have a bad attitude, so nothing is good...

Marriage must be very good, people always have to go this way. As long as two people tolerate each other, be tolerant, and honor their parents. You can grow old with a white head!

Men and women are married. For the sake of succession. Of course it's good to get married.

You don't want to borrow it, though. Okay, too. I don't want to get married and live my life on my own.

You can also. Tie the knot. After getting married, the old and the young.

There's a lot of wordiness. Humans are high-level animals. It's better to get married!

As long as two people really love each other, it is of course good to form a family! After getting married, two people have a cute baby together, and the family is happy to love each other!

If you find someone you really love, it's really good to get married.

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Of course not.

If you marry the person you love, and that person happens to love you, then life will be very happy, so whether you get married or not is not happy or not, there is no direct connection, it depends on the person

Marriage is a large-scale love scene, love and marriage are all good things, isn't it a good thing to break up and divorce? Not necessarily, it's not the same as before, and no one will point fingers at you when you get divorced. Does divorce mean it's bad to get married?

No, it's just that I wasn't lucky enough to meet the person who was good to me. Whether marriage is good or not, whether it is good or not depends on how you live, life is good, marriage is good, life is not good, marriage is not good.

You can get along with the people you like.

It is lucky to marry the person you like, and it is happy to marry two people who love each other. When you meet the right person, love is sweet, marriage is happy, and every day is fulfillment. Marriage is all about happiness, and no one thinks about changing their husbands all day long, except for those whose interests are paramount.

If you are lucky enough to meet the right person, marry him, and live every day as if you were in love, I believe that even if you are given a few chances, you will be willing to get married. We are all married to the person we like, but the days after marriage are not good, there is no imaginary sweetness, especially in the first two years of the birth of the child, countless thoughts of divorce flashed in our hearts.

Married to the one you like, every day is his gentleness and thoughtfulness, eating each other's meals, saying heart-warming words, doing what you like together, every day is as sweet as falling in love. We all like this kind of life, but in fact, we are mixed with many small things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there are many quarrels, basically there is no sweetness, only estrangement.

Didn't think relationships were so difficult to get along with.

Don't say that people who are afraid of social phobia are afraid of getting along with people, even people who are married are afraid of interpersonal relationships. The most difficult thing to solve after marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are relatives and enemies, both understand each other but do things that hurt each other. A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will still affect the relationship between husband and wife, even if the relationship between the husband and wife is good, they can't stand a-stirring stick in the middle of you.

I have experienced a conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I really can't go through it a second time, I am really tired. If I have to face the ambivalence of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when I get married, then I'd rather not get married. The mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law of other people's families is filial and will serve the elderly, and the daughter-in-law will also feel that the mother-in-law of other people's families is reasonable.

I can't get used to seeing each other, how can I coexist peacefully, I don't dare to relax when I go home, and I have to fight wits and courage with my mother-in-law, so it's better not to go back to this home.

The vast majority of people will choose to get married. ......But there are also people who like to live a single life and think "it's good to be single". These people think this way because they don't feel like they have to take on family responsibilities when they're single, they don't have to do more housework when they're single, and they don't have to worry about marital fights.

After getting married, there is a lot of housework, and I have to do housework after work, which is very hard. ......In a single life, there is not much housework, and as long as you are satisfied, you can skip housework, which will obviously make you feel more relaxed, and then produce a feeling of "it's good to be single".

2. Single life does not have to worry about husband and wife quarrels.

After getting married, although the husband and wife can support each other and face life together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and even quarrels because of the differences between them. It's annoying to yourself. ......But single living effectively avoids this problem.

In the single state, living alone, not having to worry about the quarrel between the husband and wife, and being happy every day, such a state of life will make you feel more comfortable and satisfied.

3. Living single does not have to take on family responsibilities.

When you get married, you have to take on family responsibilities, which is a burden for yourself. ......If you are single, you don't have a family, so you don't have to take on family responsibilities. ......Because there are no burdens in life, you will feel more relaxed and happy, so you will feel "It's good to be single".

It is precisely because of the above situations that some people feel more comfortable living alone. But after all, there are many inconveniences in living alone, so for the vast majority of people, they will eventually choose to get married.