Mental counseling, obviously I like a person, why do I hate him occasionally?

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Mainly because of the following reasons, I inexplicably hate a person.

1. Self-protection mechanism.

Evolutionary psychology believes that the reason why we hate some people is actually a kind of self-protection, we may feel that this person is unfriendly, and a strong intuition in our heart tells us that they may have a certain degree of harm or threat to us, so we will naturally have a nasty emotion, which can be said to be an instinctive reaction.

2. Loss of inner security 3. Projection from the heart, contrary to values.

Probably you suddenly saw this person, or heard some negative news about this person. And all of a sudden, your good impression of him disappears. And I feel that I have been deceived by illusions, and I feel that I have been deceived. Therefore, it will hate the person even more.

It may be because you and the person's temperament and personality are not compatible, or you have discovered the person's shortcomings, or it may be that the person is gossiping about you outside and makes you hate the person.

At the beginning, you may start to hate a person because of a detail, and if you hate a person, you will hate it all, so that in a vicious circle, you will hate it more and more, and gradually you will not like what he does, so you hate him very much, but it is best not to be full of hatred in a person's life.

Some people make you hate because of his appearance, not how disgusting he looks, nor how ugly he looks, but he triggers something in your subconscious"Prototype"。

You may have heard that how we view a person is actually within ourselves"Projection"。The so-called projection refers to the belief that oneself has certain characteristics, and others must also have the same or similar characteristics as oneself, so as to project one's own feelings, will, and characteristics onto others.

The last one is stereotypes.

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1.During this time, you are in a bad mood, everything around you will bore you, and your own heart may not be well adjusted for a while, so you need to think about your own problems.

2.This person has done things that you hate during this time, touching your own principles and bottom lines, and causing you to be disgusted.

I think everyone has been in this situation at one time or another. And the people who are hated are often those who are not related to each other, nor are they friends, classmates, colleagues, etc. It's not a problem, it's not a fault, it's just that I suddenly get bored with someone, I don't want to deal with her or him, I don't even want to see her, and I will take a detour when I see it from a distance on the road.

After all, everyone has shortcomings, and it is normal to suddenly find some unacceptable shortcomings in the other person.

1. Some people make you hate because of his appearance, not how disgusting he looks, nor how ugly he looks, but he triggers something in your subconscious"Prototype"。

2. The person you hate may be yourself.

You may have heard that how we view a person is actually within ourselves"Projection"。When we find that we have some characteristics that we are not very good with, we will project this trait that we are not very acceptable to others, thinking that others also have these characteristics, so as to gain psychological comfort. Those who annoy you at first glance may have accidentally become your target.

It's very simple to hate a person, why do you hate him, because he has done nasty things and spoken nasty words. In some cases, I do things that go against my own opinions, and I am no longer a good person in my mind, so I hate it more and more.

Even if she does something that you hate, or finds some of his shortcomings that make you very uncomfortable, it can make you suddenly hate someone.

If you suddenly feel that a person is annoying, it is because you must be sure that the way this person does things and what they do offends you, and you will find this person very annoying.

It may be that his impression of him has changed dramatically, so he suddenly hates a person, thinks she is very hypocritical, and feels that he has been deceived, so this emotion brings a great shock to himself.

Suddenly it will be very annoying to a person. If you suddenly hate someone. Then you must not like him, you see what shortcomings he has, and you feel very annoyed with him.

It may be that some of this person's behaviors have violated your bottom line, or maybe you suddenly have a new goal in your heart.

The individual is in a bad mood, and this person doesn't like it.

It may be that you don't like this kind of personality of his, or that you don't like to get along with him.

Why do you suddenly and hate someone? It's yours that thinks the same way as mine. Sometimes there is a person who says things and does things that make you very angry, and you hate to see them.

Nothing is sudden, in fact, you already hate him, it's just that you don't realize when you started hating him.

Could it be something about him that you hate?

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you. Because they still love each other. Human psychology is complex and multi-layered, so there are often contradictions within the psychology, such as loving and hating a person, hating and not leaving, or trying to love but can't love anything, wanting to forget how to forget, etc., when deciding to establish a relationship - union, or destroy the relationship - separation, these contradictions will be extremely intense, making people hesitate and hesitate, difficult to decide.

When you are conflicted, you will agree with this psychological principle: a person's psyche is like a small group, made up of several different "people". When there is a conflict, one I want to love, the other I hate, and maybe a third I have a third opinion.

Summary. The reason for your psychology is very simple, because deep down in your heart you hate the opposite sex, it can be because of one thing, or the evaluation of the opposite sex by others, will affect its image in your mind, so when the other party likes you, you will feel that you hate him in your heart and reject her.

Knowing that a person likes himself will hate him very muchKnowing that a person likes himself, he will be very disgusted with him, and even feel disgusting, what's going on.

The reason for your psychology is very simple, because deep down in your heart you hate the opposite sex, it can be because of one thing, or the evaluation of the opposite sex by others, will affect its image in your mind, so when the other party likes you, you will feel that you hate him in your heart and reject her.

Well, thanks. You are welcome.

So can this emotion be avoided.

You can't stop a person from liking you, the opposite sex likes you, it means that you have something in you that attracts him, so this is a good thing, it shows that you are excellent in a certain aspect, at least in the other person's heart, so just learn to say no.

Um okay, thanks for the answer.

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Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you. Because they still love each other.

Human psychology is complex and multi-layered, so there are often contradictions within the psychology, such as loving and hating a person, hating and not leaving, or trying to love but can't love anything, wanting to forget how to forget, etc., when deciding to establish a relationship - union, or destroy the relationship - separation, these contradictions will be extremely intense, making people hesitate and hesitate, difficult to decide. When you are conflicted, you will agree with this psychological principle: a person's psyche is like a small group, made up of several different "people".

When there is a conflict, one I want to love, and the other I hate.

Why do you like and hate someone at the same time?

Hello, glad to answer for you. Because they still love each other. Human psychology is complex and multi-layered, so there are often contradictions within the psychology, such as loving and hating a person, hating and not leaving, or trying to love but can't love anything, wanting to forget how to forget, etc., when deciding to establish a relationship - union, or destroy the relationship - separation, these contradictions will be extremely intense, making people hesitate and hesitate, difficult to decide.

When you are conflicted, you will agree with this psychological principle: a person's psyche is like a small group, made up of several different "people". When there is a conflict, one I want to love, and the other I hate.

I like a guy, but I'm happy when we talk on my phone, but when we meet, I feel bored and disgusted because he doesn't look like the type I like. The teacher said, "Do you think I like him or not?"

Hello, you are disgusted when you see him, but if you still want to chat with him, then feel with your heart, his personality, don't judge people by their appearance.

Why don't I like him, but when he doesn't take the initiative to talk to me for a long time, I get very lost. Then I wonder if he doesn't like me anymore? Do you like other girls?

Did he give up on me? even took the initiative to send him a message to maintain the relationship between our two friends, and then I would be jealous when I saw him interacting with other girls in his circle of friends, and my heart was very blocked. But if I meet him, I'll reject him, him, because he doesn't look the type I like.

Do you say I like him at all? What kind of attitude do I have towards him?

Hello, you already have a crush on him. You can try to reach it slowly.