Because of her mother in law, her husband is getting more and more excessive.

How to resolve the conflict between you and your husband is your own business, and it is also different from person to person, and you have to find a good way. It's just that you don't go back to your parents' house with the child in any case. Because in this way, you handed over the little discord between you to the people of your mother's family, and they will solve your affairs, do you think it will be resolved?

No, it won't! It is the most inappropriate way for the woman's family to get involved in the conflict between the husband and wife, not only is it impossible to solve the problem of the husband and wife, but the more the conflict is involved, the greater the consequences. Therefore, it is recommended that no matter what kind of conflict you have between husband and wife, solve it yourself, and believe that you have the ability to grasp the relationship between husband and wife and let it develop in a good direction.

Other men are very coaxing, as long as you show your wisdom and strength, you will be able to steer this little boat of your little family well, let it sail smoothly to the silver, gold, diamond wedding.

You should sit down calmly with your husband and have a good talk, as for your housework, we outsiders should not intervene in the discussion, or you should discuss it with your husband yourself, I wish you can compromise with your husband to deal with this matter...

You should let your husband take the child for two days and experience it, the man just doesn't know how hard it is for a woman to take care of the child!! He shouldn't have had a baby

Just throw the child to him, your husband's personality is too similar to my husband. He also often thinks that the is not good with it, so let me bring it. Children who bring not the same as growing up?

You let him bring it himself for two days to try and see if he has the patience? I'm also married to a foreign province, and I understand your feelings very well! Your husband's psychology is arrogant.

Thinking of himself as a big man, whatever he says is nothing. Think of yourself as the head of your family? Women can't be weak, they can't spoil their husbands, they have to fight back appropriately.

Otherwise, you will have to be angry and die for the rest of your life...

Talk to your husband about it, and if you can't discuss it, it's okay to go back to your parents' house for a few days.

If you don't work. Just bring your own children. The child itself is good to be taken by the elderly.

The old man follows the child's will, and the child's future character will be great. The children brought out by the young people themselves are more mature and sensible than the children brought by the elderly, and have a perfect personality. My own children, I bring them myself 24 hours a day.

My own mom was just helping out with hugs or something when she went out on the street. It's also possible that your mother-in-law doesn't want to bring it. It's hard to say to you.

I told your husband. Your husband is also in a dilemma, so he is in a bad mood. You and your husband need to communicate well.

Let's exchange opinions. Carry the child back to her parents' house. It's easy for a marriage to fall apart and it's not good for the kids.

Suffering in silence is also not a good approach. Communication is the way out.

First of all, we must wake up to ourselves. If you don't have to go to work yourself, take care of your own children, let your mother-in-law Heng Heng Qingfu, get their approval, and change their attitude towards you.

Children should not go directly to their parents' homes.

Even if the man comes to know.

My parents are not very good at doing things, and I can't tolerate my wife criticizing my parents in front of me, just like you can't pick up dao

Just like your husband saying that your parents are not good in front of you, everyone has the psychology of protecting their shortcomings and protecting their families. He can criticize his parents himself, but you are not allowed to criticize. So, if there is something that needs to be communicated, say it tactfully in a different way, as for criticism.

If you can save, you will save. Not necessarily.

Hehe, look at bai, you are a fast talker. When you get married, the order of the relationship is naturally the partner first, and the family later. Your dissatisfaction with your mother-in-law needs to be vented through your husband, and you also want to be accepted and recognized, and you want to feel the emotional support and companionship between husband and wife.

And your husband's attitude makes you more and more dissatisfied and disappointed, and you are also a little aggrieved and angry, helpless and dazed? Your husband and wife are also somewhat similar, and they are very concerned about the feelings of their parents, which is a sign of insufficient psychological differentiation. Intimate relationships between adults need to maintain boundaries and bottom lines, as well as mutual feelings and respect.

Our personality traits and emotional patterns do come from the influence of early upbringing and family environment, especially when it comes to whether the emotional interaction with our parents is healthy and stable. The emotional pattern between us and our parents will also be carried over into our own marriage and repeated in our relationship with our in-laws. Don't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, lower your expectations, lower your requirements, keep your distance, and everyone is comfortable.

Therefore, emotional interaction requires awareness and learning. Start with yourself, learn to express and communicate, and also learn to soothe yourself. The marriage that was once disfavored by the parents, through their own efforts, manages their own happiness, is the sign of real growth.

Mother-in-law is the mother of your husband, as a daughter-in-law, mother-in-law is wrong, you can point out the place, but you can't be very angry and unhappy.

Your husband complains that will only make your husband think that you are ignorant Hear from your words You are an impulsive temper sometimes very impatient As a daughter-in-law, you have to learn to tolerate your mother-in-law's mistakes Yes, it is more difficult to get along with the elderly, husband and wife are together to support each other, and after marriage, problems will continue to emerge But at this time, you have to learn to be generous, learn to endure, learn to be considerate Of course, boys have always been late bloomers, they are a little willful, and the old people are like this In fact, getting married means that you are with children because you have to start learning to mature Divorce is a big deal I believe you love your husband Maybe sometimes your husband doesn't do well But if you get divorced and you leave your husband You will regret it Because you love him Will you one day remember that you shouldn't let go of your husband's hand You should try to fit into all this.

Calm down, everyone gives way, maybe the situation is better, don't fight, emotionally you can do anything, including bad decisions.

Mother-in-law is her husband's mother, and because of this, she will always endure as a daughter-in-law, but sometimes her mother-in-law is indeed too much, and occasionally she is casual, I think it shouldn't be too much, right?

You put yourself in your shoes, no matter how bad your mother-in-law is, to your husband, she is also someone's mother, you have to be considerate of this. Look at the problem with a different mindset, and you will find that all problems are not problems.

Hi: Whether it's your parents, or your parents-in-law

Something is definitely wrong with living together

Try to live a little farther away from both parents

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and they divorce if they quarrel and have contradictions?

The mother-in-law said that her son's temper was relatively bad, mainly because of her daughter-in-law, and the husband and wife had only been married for three years, so there was no possibility at all. Men's temper is relatively poor, generally influenced by their parents, it is impossible to change by their wives at all, no matter how long the husband and wife have been together, it is obviously very difficult to change a person's temper and character. Regardless of whether your husband's temper is bad or not, you should make your husband aware of his temper problems.

Don't believe what your mother-in-law says in everything, because some mothers-in-law just can't get used to seeing their sons and daughters-in-law get along sweetly. <>

In real life, everyone will want to change the temperament and personality of the other party, and you must know that the so-called temperament and personality are generally cultivated from an early age. A man and his wife have been together for three years, and they may not see what kind of person the man is when they fall in love, and when they get married, the man will burst out all his temper. If the man's temper is more irritable, and the wife's temper is also a more domineering type, it will be easy to hurt the feelings between husband and wife.

As a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law together, when talking about her husband's problems, she should also take the best effort to protect her husband. The mother-in-law said that her husband's temper was caused by her daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law should directly reply to her mother-in-law and let her mother-in-law know that her husband's bad temper has always existed. It's just because the mother-in-law usually doesn't pay too much attention to her son, if the mother-in-law has to meddle in the affairs between young people, then the daughter-in-law can directly ask the mother-in-law to talk about her husband and let the husband change his bad temper.

In the process of disliking married life, there are also many men who like to drink and drink because they can't bear the financial pressure of their families. When they return home, they always look indifferent to their families, and in such a situation, women should comfort their husbands appropriately. Let the husband know that as long as he is willing to work hard and don't put so much pressure on himself, the greatest happiness of the whole family must be that the parents are healthy, the children are thriving, and it is enough to have some spare money to spend stupidly.

This is unlikely. The good or bad temper of a person is cultivated from a young age, and although it will change after marriage, it will not change much.

There is also a possibility of this, and it may also be because you put too much pressure on him and often quarrel with him, causing his temper to get bigger and bigger.

I don't think it should be like this, the reason why he has a bad temper is because he has a bad temper in the first place, and it has nothing to do with you.

This situation is indeed embarrassing, because the mother-in-law is an elder and is also the biological mother of the husband, which may bring you some contradictions and troubles. Here are some suggestions:

1.Communicate with your husband. Try to communicate with your husband in a calm manner, let him understand your feelings and confusion, and negotiate a solution to the problem. At the same time, when dealing with such shortcode questions, you need to be careful not to let things escalate or affect the relationship between husband and wife.

2.Hold your horses. No matter what kind of behavior the mother-in-law does, we should stay calm, do not prevent the overreaction driven by emotions, and reduce unnecessary conflicts.

3.Take a step back and open the sky. If you can't reach a compromise on an issue, consider putting aside the argument for a while, giving each other some time and space, waiting until the mood calms down before resuming the conversation and finding a solution to the problem.

In short, it takes reason and patience to solve and deal with the problems of family relationships, and the establishment of a harmonious family atmosphere requires the efforts and understanding of both husband and wife. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain respect and filial piety for the elders, and try to resolve conflicts through calm words and actions, so as to make the relationship between family members more harmonious.