What is the reason for the increasing number of singles in rural areas? Why were there so few before

There is now an imbalance between men and women. There are more girls and fewer boys. Many boys in rural areas do not have the ability to buy a house or drive a car, and their lives are particularly stressful.

Moreover, there are many women who are financially independent and do not want to start a family. In the seventies, everyone was more conservative, it was very normal for men to marry women, and there was not much gap between the rich and the poor.

The reason is that the feudal mentality of preference for sons over women still exists in rural areas, most families must have boys, and the bride price in rural areas is also high, and men must be required to have cars and houses. In the 70s, the bride price was very small, and it would not marry very far.

Because the women of the seventies only need to be good to her and give her food and clothing, unlike today's women who have to have a car, a house, and a deposit and can't afford to offend, and now women can't afford to offend, if they offend her, they have to change their homes.

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The main reason is that the rural economy is relatively backward, and there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and unwilling to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and those in the cities!

Although many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the rural living environment, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of noise and noise in the city are not conducive to life and residence.

But after all, the countryside is a rural area, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical resources and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to the old traditions and habits of Xunzhou in our rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

There are more and more singles in rural areas, because of rural poverty, the imbalance between men and women, and the increasing conditions of women.

Because now that social development is getting better and better, many women are getting higher and higher conditions for choosing a mate, and many are unwilling to marry back to the countryside, after all, there is everything in the big city, how many are willing to go back to the countryside to live an idyllic life? (This is not to say that there are none, just that there are relatively few).

One word, money! The uneven economic development has led to a serious gap between the rich and the poor, and it is becoming more and more difficult for men with poor conditions to find a partner.

Because now people are more demanding.

Many conditions in rural areas do not meet the requirements of girls.

Because rural people have outdated thinking, no self-motivation, and some people have no ability, and their temper is not very good, so women will not look for such people, now the society is so developed, advanced, and people's vision is so high, so there will be more and more singles in the countryside.

Because there are too few women and the requirements are too high, rural boys do not meet the standards.

This is because the rural areas are relatively poor, girls are reluctant to go to the countryside, and there is an imbalance between men and women, and there are more men than women.

Because they all went to the city to make money, they ended up marrying in the city, so there are fewer and fewer rural women.

There are more men and fewer women in rural areas, it is not easy to get married, and the high requirements of women cannot be satisfied.

There are more and more singles in rural areas, and this is the result of the survival of the fittest.

First of all, the girls who are beautiful in the countryside, or who are good at studying, stay in the city through their own advantages, so the total number of girls in the village has decreased.

In addition, even if there are young women of appropriate age in the village, they must choose among their peers who are highly educated, have good family conditions, or have good appearance.

In short, this is the result of a two-way choice.

If it's leftover, you should see what's wrong with you. Detect early, correct early, and find the excellent other half early.

Because life in the countryside is, after all, much lower than in the cities. The children of Yang Village do not want to go back to the countryside after they go to university. Jobs are arranged in the cities, and living conditions are much better than in the countryside.

There are many children in rural areas who cannot afford to go to college. It's hard for them to get a target. Especially now, there are very few girls.

It is normal that there are more and more singles in rural areas. Not to mention that children can't get a partner in the countryside. In a few years, the house in the countryside.

There aren't many left. The old man died, and the children settled in the countryside. There are only a few singles who can't get the target.

Subsistence in the countryside. Later, science also developed. Land in the countryside.

Grow with mechanized science. It won't take many people anymore. In a few decades, the countryside will no longer exist.

Only towns and big cities. Growing and growing. This is the trend of society.

Rural singles are getting better and better, that is, rural people want too much bride price, girls are too materialistic, rural areas are relatively poor, and they are not willing to marry in the countryside, they all go to the city to marry, and now this girl is too realistic, so there are more and more rural singles.

The women went to the city, and the people in the countryside stayed at home if they had no way out and hope, so it became more and more difficult to find a partner, and there were more and more singles!

This is because of the idea of preference for sons, many people are willing to give birth to boys, and through the form of doing B ultrasound, artificially creating more men and fewer women. The girls in the rural areas of Huize all go to the city, and the part-time jobs are easy to set up, and people get married, so the boys in the countryside can't do anything, and the realization of girls has caused more and more singles in the countryside. If I want to change this situation, we must first develop the rural economy and abandon the idea of preference for sons over women.

Not only in rural areas and cities, but also in the cities, there is a large number of singles, first, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women.

Second, now the Internet is spreading all kinds of luxury life, etc., women do not feel satisfied, and third, as women grow older, the standards for mate selection are getting higher and higher.

Fourth, many women have a fear of marriage because of family reasons.

Fifth, more and more women are more inclined to develop spare tires.

and so on, all of which have led to the fact that there are now many singles

The rural and remote areas are poor, young people do not seek to be motivated, do not want to go out to fight, indulge in gambling and want to become rich overnight, fight and fight to hurt people's reputation and become bad, borrowing money everywhere is a deception to run a business, and bring it with them in a year.

Three or four women go home and live together, let the women who bring them again hear, get drunk and noisy every day, go out in the middle of the night to be a gentleman, divorce the wife after marriage, and find a neighbor Kirk, who is found to be discredited by the neighbor, and the prostitute is known to be infected with diseases, and is not filial to his grandparents, but beats them to the point that their noses are blue and their eyes are swollen. Disrespectful elders often Ling is young, and being scolded by others is a person who has no future. ......The list goes on and on.

If you're older, see which way you belong to. There are many people who are still alone, and there are many who he can't tell because of me. If there is a wrong person, change the bad behavior, let the benevolence and righteousness be possessed by reason, follow the will of heaven and earth, be a husband of peace, and wish the future a family, a prosperous family, high character and prosperity!!

There are many reasons for the emergence of rural singles, but no matter what the reason, they are inseparable from the following:

First, physiological factors.

Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.

The second type is that the family is particularly poor.

There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.

Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and they couldn't say anything about this situation. I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away.

In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a willing girl, he may not be able to get such a high bride price now. Beating a single person is also forced to be helpless.

Third, personal factors.

There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, he went to find a factory to work when he had no money, and when he had money in the last few months, he went to squander, and he did not report when he left his job, and suddenly he did not go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him, and farming is also three days of fishing and two days of drying nets.

These people have been playing singles are also deserved, this kind of people are the least worthy of sympathy, pitiful, some singles can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy, idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. No one would want to marry such a person.

Introduce why there are so many single-child people in rural areas.

Because the current rural guys are so ambitious, they envy the life of urban people on the one hand, but on the other hand, they are unwilling to enrich themselves and refuse to work hard.

Because many rural families are patriarchal, they throw away their daughters after giving birth, leaving only sons, and over time, the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, and there are more and more singles.

Because the bride price in rural areas is getting more and more expensive, many rural people can't make so much money in their lifetime, let alone give it to the woman.

There are many reasons for the increasing number of singles in rural areas. For example, there is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women in rural areas, and the level of education and income in rural areas is low.

Because the income in the rural areas is not high, people naturally do not want to marry in the countryside, and the living standard in the cities is so high, and the various facilities are very perfect, so naturally they will not go to the countryside.

Many girls do not want to live in rural areas with relatively backward economic development, so they do not even consider marrying in such a remote village, so there are more and more singles.

It may be because the countryside is too poor, and there are many girls who are unwilling to marry in the countryside because they are poor and love rich, and these girls feel that the rural environment is not good.

Because there are few girls in the countryside, they all marry outside, and the rest are boys, and the family conditions are relatively difficult, and no girl dares to come to the countryside to endure hardship.

Because the quality of rural men is too low. No matter how much money you spend, you still can't get a wife.

Because the income of people in rural areas is relatively low, but the atmosphere of comparison in rural areas is very heavy, and the whole family will be bankrupt if they want to marry a daughter-in-law, so many people cannot afford to marry a wife and can only be single.

In fact, this is due to many reasons. The main reasons for the imbalance between male and female youth are the national family planning and the idea of preference for sons over women in rural areas. Second, the gap between urban and rural areas is also one thing.

After all, who doesn't want a good life? As for the influence of the boy himself and his family, of course, it cannot be ruled out.

Because the economic level in rural areas is relatively low, and there are still many backward ideas in many rural areas, most girls do not want to marry in such a place.

Because the peasants are more patriarchal! It leads to more men and fewer women!

Because women only want to go to the city, not to the countryside.

The poor are justifiably strong, and they deserve to be singles.

Now that the ratio of men and women is out of balance, why are singles basically in the countryside? Many rural people are very handsome, why can't they find a daughter-in-law? There are very few girls in our village, and there are forty or fifty young men in their 30s and 40s.

First, the increasing number of singles in rural areas is first of all because many rural girls get married after finishing primary or junior high school, and the people they choose are generally six or seven years older than themselves. Boys who are not much different in age from girls lose the opportunity to find a partner, and people in rural areas have little education, so they can only earn money by working hard outside, and have no chance to meet young women who are their age.

Second, rural people are more shy, and they don't have the courage to confess when they meet someone they like. There is a handsome little brother next to my house, and now he is in his thirties and has no daughter-in-law. It's not that he is not handsome, but he is very shy, he liked a girl in the next village, but he never dared to express it, so he missed the first love of his life.

3. Because of poverty and poor living conditions in rural areas, it is difficult to marry people from the city. Some young men go out to work, and they meet the people they like very much outside, they are lovers in the city, but they go home alone, and they are not willing to go home and marry people from the countryside. Some rural guys are particularly infatuated, they like a person and can no longer tolerate others, until the object gets married, and they are left with themselves.

Fourth, many rural guys have too high vision, and they pursue beauties who used to be class flowers, and he can't look down on ordinary girls. As they grew older, those women were taken away and married by better people, leaving only the rural people with low eyes and masters. They used to be picky, but when they reached the age of thirty, they could no longer find a suitable woman for them, and finally added a new bachelor to the village.