I don t want to have a boyfriend, I don t want to be in a relationship, I don t want to get married

··· That's what I thought... I'm 20 years old.

I think it's mainly because I'm numb to love... It's not that I've experienced much love, but I've always heard the grief of love...

But there hasn't been a time since then, because of the appearance of an ex-boyfriend... And then it went on again... I feel that those who pursue around me are so fake... Or maybe they don't deserve me...

You can change it whenever you want.

I don't want to have a boyfriend, I don't want to fall in love, I don't want to get married, and you pay so much attention to it, it can only mean that you want to do it very much.

Why torture yourself so aggrieved.

How old are you? If it doesn't exceed 22, it's normal.

More than 22 years old still like that. Narcissism is overdone.

I don't want to be in love or get married now, hehe.

But I don't think those who pursue themselves are ridiculous.

You're strong!

Women are all sensual. It's impossible not to love, what women in the world are most afraid of is loneliness!!

No, I don't want to have a girlfriend, I don't want to fall in love, I don't want to get married like you now, but I think I'm not mature now, and after a while, I will want to have a home

It seems that you still want to have a boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't ask such a question, it's just that you haven't met someone you like yet, maybe you think the men around you are a bit vulgar, hehe, the requirements are a bit high! Take your time.

Face life correctly, figure out what makes you happy and live a meaningful life on this basis, as for marriage? Falling in love and other issues are your personal freedom.

Don't be self-righteous, you say that people like you are really rubbish, are you narcissistic? Go as far as you can.

First of all, you have to figure out why you don't want to get married, and your fear of marrying him lies in **.

Once you have figured out the cause, then see if you can overcome the fear on your own.

If you feel that you can't overcome it on your own, talk to the other person and ask him to help you face the fear together.

Then you don't fall in love with others, a girl, you can afford it, a boy can't afford it, if people find out your purpose, people will hate you, and they will not forgive you in this life.

If you and your boyfriend just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, you can tell your boyfriend directly, and if he doesn't object, you can continue to get along.

It can be said that this is just your own thought, you should understand, what is the purpose of falling in love? It can be said that the purpose of falling in love is to get married. Falling in love can make you and your boyfriend's heart melt together, and being together can make you and your boyfriend like glue, so you can get married in the end.

Then you have to tell your boyfriend honestly the reasons why you don't want to get married. If he can understand you, then you can continue the relationship, if he can't understand, then you can only end up breaking up.

If you just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, then you need to communicate with your boyfriend about his views on marriage, if you have the same idea, then you can continue to fall in love.

Maybe every girl will have this kind of psychology at the beginning, but as you interact with each other, he is very good to you, then I think this concern will be dispelled slowly.

This is normal, it means that you are in love to solve your physiological needs, not to get married.

If you only want to fall in love with your boyfriend and don't want to get married, it shows that you are an irresponsible person because you don't want to take on the responsibilities of the family and only want to seek temporary happiness.

If you want to get married and your boyfriend and you don't have the same ideas, you need to think clearly, and you have to make your thoughts clear with your boyfriend and plan for your future. If he's unmarried, he's not a good fit for you.

Falling in love is an emotional resonance, and it is not necessary to rush to get married, because young people's minds are easily influenced and change quickly, so there is nothing wrong with not getting married.

Explain that you like him, but you don't love him enough and don't want to marry him. It is recommended that you do not delay others as soon as possible.

Prove you're still young. So I don't want to get married yet. You can try to talk about it for a few more years.

If you and your boyfriend just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, I think this kind of mentality may not be good, because at least it may delay the boyfriend, and the boyfriend may be rushing to get married, so it will be more difficult to coordinate.

Don't deliberately put pressure on yourself to be in love until you want to get married.

Marriage is stressful, it's better to fall in love, don't push yourself too hard.

I feel that we can fall in love first, and we can get married together when we talk about marriage and then feel that it is very appropriate.

This is the common idea of many contemporary young people, they all think that it is good to be in love, and it is very troublesome to get married. But marriage is always going to happen, so slowly overcome this problem.

Let's talk about it first, and then we'll talk about it when we get married.

In fact, this kind of thinking is not recommended, I personally think it is incorrect, try to explain it to your boyfriend.

People say that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, and this also depends on the common thoughts of the two people, if neither of you wants to get married, then there is nothing.

That's not enough yet.

If your boyfriend is only willing to fall in love with you and not get married, then I think you should first understand what the reason is and is unwilling to marry you, if he can't give a reasonable reason and doesn't give you a deadline. For example, if you are married within three years or how long, if you are not given this statement, then I think your boyfriend does not love you, does not want to marry you, just wants to fall in love with you, and you may be stepping on two boats during the transition period or he may already be married. Normal people don't get married.

If a man is most afraid of marriage, does not promise his girlfriend to get married, clearly tells his girlfriend not to get married, or chooses not to get married and fall in love under various excuses, then there are only two possibilities, the first possibility is that the man does not love this woman at all, if a man loves this woman, he must want to marry him and form a family, if he only falls in love with this woman and does not get married, it means that he does not think that this woman is the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life. And this man is also very irresponsible, if you don't love this woman and don't get married, don't delay the other party's time and drag the other party down. Falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.

Such a man should not continue to have a relationship with him, and breaking up immediately and stopping losses is the right way.

The second type of man may actually have a wife and children or a person who has promised to marry, otherwise he would not not marry you. There are many men who are already married, but because they are separated from each other or separated from their wives, they can't be together and hide their married status, and they are in love with other girls, and there are many such men now, so girls must investigate whether the other party is married if they want to fall in love.

In short, no matter what the excuse is, if this boyfriend does not agree to marry you and fall in love, then you should choose to break up with him. Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, because if you continue to fall in love with him, it will only drag yourself down and will not end well. A girl's youth is short, don't waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve your love.

You should choose to disembowel him, talk to him clearly, and then choose to break up with him. Then pack up your mood, come out of this relationship and work hard, there will be a better fate waiting for you.

If your boyfriend is only willing to fall in love with you, unwilling to marry you, and does not give you a deadline, if you say that you only fall in love and do not get married, then you have to leave, you can't wait because you can't afford to wait for him to marry you for 10 years and 8 years, your time is gone, youth is gone, if he changes his mind in the future, your age is also older, you can't find a better one, if he really wants to be with you, he will not refuse to marry you.

You have to have your own life, and appropriately refuse your boyfriend's invitation, after a long time, he will have a sense of crisis, and he will have the idea of getting married.

Take the initiative to explain to him that you have the idea of getting married and give him time to think about it.

You can be friendly with his friends and family and ask them to talk about marriage.

Take your boyfriend to the wedding, let him feel the sweet and happy wedding atmosphere, and be full of yearning for marriage.

1. Have your own life.

When your relationship has been very good, the other party will think that you love him so much that you will not leave him, and you will not be in a hurry to get married, so you need to have more of your own life, have more time to go on dates with your friends, and go to travel. Faced with her boyfriend's invitation, pretend that you have something. After a long time, he will have a sense of crisis, and he will have the idea of getting married.

2. Take the initiative to ** this matter.

You both love each other very much, but the other party just hasn't mentioned getting married. Then you can discuss marriage with him when he is not defensive, and tell him that you want to get married, and give him time to think about it. If he never considered marrying you, he would have offered to break up with you; If he truly loves you and is afraid of losing you, he will take the initiative to propose marriage to you.

3. Play the family card.

It's important to be friendly with your boyfriend and to be friendly with his friends and family. Therefore, if you want to get married, you can also start with his friends and family, often accompany his parents, and do what you can for his parents and friends, so that they can feel good about you. will also mention it in front of her boyfriend, and will also help urge her to get married.

4. Take him to the wedding party.

Your boyfriend may not want to get married because he has a certain fear of marriage, so you can take him to some friends' wedding parties or attend weddings to let him know that getting married is not a terrible thing. Let him feel the sweet and happy atmosphere of the wedding, and he will begin to have a good feeling for the marriage.

If you don't want to get married, you can not get married, but you will also bear the consequences of not getting married, a person is easy to be lonely, there is no one to accompany in life, no children, and there is no support when you are old. If you are determined not to get married, you can prepare yourself for the rest of your life. There are many people who do not marry in today's society.

Financially sufficient and self-sufficient, healthy, strong in heart, and able to enter a nursing home when you are old.

Adults can choose their own lifestyle and attitude towards life. If you don't want to fall in love or get married, you won't talk about it. Not illegal. But those who choose this kind of life must plan their lives well, live a wonderful life, and live this life in vain.

Hello! If you don't want to fall in love, it is very difficult to get married, and two people should get to know each other well before getting married, so as to increase the relationship between two people.

If you don't want to fall in love and don't want to get married, then you just live alone. Knowing that loneliness will end up in old age. That's what life is all about. You have to pay for your actions.

As long as you have the economy, you can support yourself, honor your parents, and support your old age, it doesn't matter if you don't get married.

For myself, I'm really not willing to fall in love for the sake of falling in love. So I want to wait.

Wait for someone who is still with me until the end.

A person who is willing to accompany me for the rest of my life. Here are some of the reasons why most people don't fall in love.

1. There are troubles and pressures in falling in love.

Some people may not want to be in a relationship because of other worries or stress. For example, they may feel that it takes more time and effort to challenge their career, academic, or other goals. As a result, they may want to focus on these aspects and avoid distractions in a relationship. 

The two limbs are not willing to face risks.

Falling in love and getting married are both risk-related decisions. When a person feels reluctant to take these risks, they may not want to be in a relationship. For example, they may worry that the relationship will eventually fail, or they may not want to take on the financial or psychological burden of emotional problems.

3. Have your own views on love.

Some people may be reluctant to fall in a relationship based on their values and beliefs. For example, some religions may teach different views of love, and perhaps an individual's life experiences and family background may also influence the concept of love. In addition, some people may have a negative attitude towards the good things in their relationship because of the failure of their past relationship experience.

Fourth, I want to grow and develop myself.

Some people may want to use their single status to pursue self-growth and stocking. They may want to focus on studying, traveling, pursuing their dreams, or becoming a better person. In this case, they may not want to be in a relationship because it can interfere with their goals.

5. Previous trauma and pain.

Trauma or pain experienced in past relationships or marriages can cause people to not want to be in a relationship again. For example, they may have been betrayed, cheated on, or disappointed and therefore afraid to fall in love for fear of being hurt again.

6. Excessive inferiority or pride will also make people feel powerless in love.

People with excessive inferiority do not dare to express their love to others, while people with excessive self-esteem always find fault with each other with harsh eyes, resulting in no one looking down on them, or thinking that the other party is coming for their own wealth, status, and power, so they always look at each other with suspicion. If you fall in love with such a mentality, you naturally don't dare to give love.

To sum up: In fact, the most fundamental reason is because of the experience of failure, it is precisely because of the hurt of love that I have made myself more cautious about love, and at the same time, I have let myself slowly get right"Love"This thing creates a bias.

There are thousands of reasons why I don't want to fall in love, but the core one is that I don't want to fall in love at all.

But I still believe that if we meet the right person, we will all be the ones who laugh the most.

So, before that person appeared, I really didn't want to fall in love.