Why do China s elderly refuse to enjoy happiness?

Because the generation of Chinese seniors has lived a hard life. Going back 50 or 60 years, New China had just been founded, and the country was under construction, and it was not very rich in all aspects, so the people's lives were not very rich. Especially in the rural areas, the rural area was still relatively large at that time, and the cities did not carry out too much construction.

Therefore, many people live a relatively difficult life, and in the long-term hardship, they form this extremely frugal habit.

At the same time, this generation is also the main predecessors of national construction and witnesses of national development, they have deeply experienced that happiness is not easy to come by, because they understand, so cherish.

The old people in China are influenced by the ancient traditional thoughts, and they almost have a risk spirit of dedication and paranoia, and they feel that as long as they can still move, they will worry about their sons and grandchildren, because they feel that the children need the help of the elderly, they have not thought that your son is an adult, he can have independent ability, and you don't need to worry about your grandson, have your son, take care of your grandson, and take care of your grandson and your son, so you don't need to worry so much, He didn't think about this problem, this is influenced by ancient Chinese traditional culture, and it can't be changed in a while.

Most of the elderly in China are not idle, can not enjoy the kind of blessings, they have been busy all their lives, suddenly let them enjoy the happiness of purity, it is really a little unaccustomed, there is also a possibility that because they do not want to increase the burden on the children, now the social pressure is already great, their children also have their own families to support, so they choose to reduce the burden of the children as much as possible when they still have the ability to work, pity the hearts of parents in the world!

The reason why the elderly in China refuse to enjoy happiness is because they have been busy all their lives, so they are used to a busy life, especially the previous living conditions were relatively poor, so they have developed a habit of hard work since childhood, and the quiet life of retirement makes them uncomfortable.

In fact, it is not that the elderly in China refuse to enjoy happiness, but that the elderly have become accustomed to thrift, most of their lives were more difficult when they were young, and they have suffered a lot since they were young.

Because the elderly in China like to grow up in a period of suffering, they always want to do something on their own, and they feel that they have to do something to reflect their value, so they don't like to sit back and enjoy what their children bring to them.

What is happiness, this question is in all ages, different answers, young people to eat, drink and have fun, feel happy, but the elderly do not think so, they think that a healthy body and harmonious family, this is a blessing, for this blessing, they often need to sacrifice their own interests, willing to be a son of a cow, until the spring silkworm to the end of the silkworm.

In their time, there were very few people who enjoyed Qingfu, and most of them worked hard for half their lives. When you get old, you will get used to the days when you don't have idleness. So, if they are allowed to enjoy their old age, they will feel that they are being deprived of a right.

Therefore, children should respect the opinions of the elderly and try to let them do what they like.

I'm used to it, I'm used to being thrifty, and I can't rest! But you have to do what you can, there are some things that the elderly have to do, such as carrying feces and water that hurt the spine and waist; He who chops wood and hurts his eyes, and he who sells rai on a snowy day, and he who falls and breaks his bones.

These people above do not have backache when they stand and talk, and the elderly in the countryside can enjoy blessings, and their pensions are 100 yuan a month. The two old men may not have 200 yuan. Sons, daughters-in-law work outside, how much money they have, everyone knows, and they have to help bring their grandchildren, is it blessed? ?

It is not the rejection of happiness, but the lack of space and system for enjoyment.

Hello! Glad to answer your questions, enjoy the happiness of old age? It is the welfare of the elderly, which refers to the policies and measures and facilities and services provided by the state and society for the purpose of carrying forward the virtues of respecting and loving the elderly, stabilizing the lives of the elderly, maintaining the health of the elderly, and enriching the spiritual and cultural life of the elderly.

The welfare of the elderly is the continuation and improvement of old-age insurance, and on the basis of ensuring the basic material needs of the elderly and solving the problem of "support", we will further meet the needs of the spiritual and cultural life of the elderly, and strive to realize that the elderly have support, medical care, accomplishments, and happiness. Welfare for the Elderly is a social welfare program for the elderly. Its main content package includes:

Welfare allowance for the elderly; The society raises lead and inspects the elderly; geriatric care; Re-employment of the elderly. Thank you for your inquiry, I hope my answer is helpful to you.

The sunset is infinitely better, just near dusk. Life has survived those difficult years, gone through those wind, frost, rain and snow, only the vicissitudes of life, white hair full of head, let you sigh the ruthlessness of time, the shortness of life, when you sigh that you are really old, those beautiful years are hidden in the memory of yesterday, those old things of yesterday are scattered in the wind, and become the dust of memory. In your old age, you must understand that you are no longer the protagonist of this era, and it is the right choice to make way for young people; We must learn to "stand by and watch" many things, learn to let go of money, fame and fortune, know how to enjoy "pure blessings", do not "worry blindly", watch the sunset, take a walk, plant flowers, raise fish, fight boxing, and keep fit, so many good.

When life reaches old age, the heart is pure and nothing to do, and only then will you be at ease and happy, and you will have health and happiness. If you live with your children, you must "pretend to be deaf and dumb", don't worry about your children's housework, don't mix blindly, don't blame your children for being right or wrong, don't look down on your children's way of life, for your children's family conflicts and quarrels between husband and wife, you must learn to "shut up", you must know how to "escape", so that you can have "clean ears", if you have the conditions and can live independently, it is best to separate from your children, it is the best policy, don't turn your face with your children, let alone "sulk", learn to be safe with your children, It will be less annoying and less annoying, and the heart will be quiet and worry-free. When people reach old age, health is the most important; If you are sick, sick in bed, or in a wheelchair, lying in the hospital, you have to trouble others in everything, and the troubles and pains of life will come.

Therefore, when people reach their old age, they must know how to take care of their bodies, do not be reluctant to eat, are reluctant to use, and want to leave everything to their children; When you are troublesome to your children, they will not think of your good.

Have good physical health. Poor health is the biggest leakage of the elderly, and it is the greatest blessing.