When do you think your parents are domineering?

When I was almost misguided every day, my mother begged someone to send me to work in a first-tier city. Listen to me ** and her every day complain about how hard the work is, how much the boss cheats, and after many years, I thank her for giving up and sharpening my will. My mother supported me when I was not high or low, and I went to Shanghai and learned lifelong knowledge.

When I was exiled back to Northeast China by the Shanghai company, I worked during the day and went to another company to learn night trading at night, but nothing came of it.

When I questioned myself, my mother said, "I didn't expect my son to be able to endure this hardship, and my mother supports you." "When I wanted to invest in a small business, my mother emptied seven or eight of her credit cards for me to use for turnover, and then I asked her what to do if she lost money, and my mother said, "Sell the house" When I opened a company with my buddies, I was cheated for one million, and the trader couldn't pay my salary, my mother really said, "If my son's house can be sold, sell it as soon as possible, and it's okay to be cheaper than 20,000." "My mom doesn't know much about education, and she doesn't have much ability, she's just an ordinary single mother, but I think my mom is cool!

Mom, I shouldn't have disappointed you.

When I was a child, I was playing in the neighborhood once, and a classmate's cousin came to play and got into a fight with my friend. I went up to pull the rack, but the cousin of the classmate took a wicker brush and brushed it twice, and my arm was red. At that time, I was young, so I got on my head all of a sudden, and picked up a wooden stick on the side and took it to my head.

At that time, I was very scared, and I saw blood in the first fight when I was so old. Originally, there were faults on both sides of this matter, so it would be good to take a step back. The family lost money at the first time, but the other party's parents asked for medical expenses and travel expenses, and mental damage expenses for the completion of the road expenses, and finally the other party's family came to the door, and his mother threatened to let their children see me and beat me once in the future if they did not meet their requirements.

As a result, my mother, who usually hates me fighting, stood up and said: If your children can beat my son, do you still need to ask for money here? Son!

In the future, I will see him cut him once, and I will pay for the medical expenses for you.

It's my parents who didn't have a high level of education, and they got their high school diploma and undergraduate diploma by self-study, and they won their graduate diploma last year, which is too domineering, the key is that they just want to take the exam and play.

The first thing: the second grade of elementary school, the day before the start of school, the winter vacation paradise was not finished, my parents asked me to go to sleep, and the two of them joined forces to help me finish the rest of the winter vacation park. The second piece:

In the fourth grade, I had a fight with a male classmate, I was a girl, and I never hit a boy. Then I went home crying and pulled my dad and asked him to help me get revenge. However, my dad rejected me and told me that you can't bully others at school, but you can't be bullied by others either, if you fight, your courage is magnified, don't be cowardly, I'd rather you hit someone else, and then we should apologize and apologize.

Later, my parents took me to sign up for taekwondo. The consequences of learning taekwondo, fourth grade, came home from school and saw the senior boys bullying the lower grades, when I was in elementary school, there was extortion at the gate of our school, I was heroic, I didn't know the self-confidence of **, and I went up to fight. As a result, I was beaten badly, but I was happy to do good deeds.

Hee-hee-ha-ha, dirty home. The influence of my father's words on me is not to be cowardly, to be above board, to have a family behind you, don't be afraid.

During the recess of elementary school, my classmates and I went to the office in the opposite building, and met a classmate at the exit of the crowd. The classmate and I were terrified ......Later, my classmate's teacher asked him to find me, and we went into the teacher's office, and the teacher asked us to call my parents, and my tears fell ......When the parents heard about it, they took the injured boy to the hospital, bandaged it, and promised the other parents that he would be cured and that they would bear all the medical expenses. My parents drove me up from school and they picked me up at different places because they were afraid that I wouldn't find them.

I saw that they were panicked at first. Until I walked to the front of the car. The first thing my parents said was, "You're not scared, are you?"

Then my heart went back to my stomach at once.

Another time I went shopping, and when I saw a young man bullying an old man, my father went up very domineeringly to stop the young man's approach. instantly made me feel that my father also had a very domineering time.

There are really many moments when my parents feel very domineering, for example, when they are discussing how to do things for me, they have always shown that aggressive posture, always hoping that I can achieve something.

My dad is really the kind of person who doesn't cause trouble, and then once a boy hit me, my dad was really angry, but my dad didn't beat the child, and directly found the boy's parents, and the boy's parents were quite fierce, and finally had a fight with my dad, and I felt that my dad was very powerful at that time.

When I was in junior high school, I was bullied by a girl in the class, and when I got home, my father found out and said that if someone bullied you, just bully me back, don't be afraid of what happens, if there is anything, I will bear it for you.

One year I was bullied by a boy, and my mom told me to beat me back, and then said to give me medical bills. Later, my mother also helped me scold the other party's parents, and I felt that my mother was too domineering at that time.

The niece is a more naughty guy, once, she slapped the person next to her once, and then she apologized, who knew that the person was so unqualified, and came to the sentence "I want to die!" "Mom and Dad immediately quarreled with the adult uncle, it's really domineering, and this kind of person should be taught a lesson.

Once I had a fight with my classmates at school, the teacher called my dad to go, and told me how I was in front of my dad, and my dad said, my child, I believe, it is absolutely impossible to cause trouble first, at that moment, I felt that my dad was my superhero, and I was so moved.

When you are wronged outside, your parents are the most domineering when they are angry with you. Parents always love their children.

It is when parents are called at school, no matter what others say, parents always believe in their children and defend their children.

Once I met a mixed society outside, he scolded him when he touched him, and then my dad became angry all of a sudden, and I felt very domineering at that moment.

My father has been a village cadre for most of his life, and he has a lot of prestige in the village, and at that time, when there were conflicts in the village, I found my father to solve them, and I felt that my father was very domineering.

When I was a child, I was bullied, crying and going home to find my parents, and the two of them didn't say a word, and took me directly to the person who bullied me.

When I was in junior high school, there was a boy in my class who kept harassing me, and when my dad found out, he went straight to the boy and warned him to stay away from me.

When my parents call me by my full name, it's the most domineering time. The tone was very heavy, the voice was very loud, and I was very scared. When I do something wrong, my parents will call me by my full name, which is very domineering at that time.

When I was subjected to school violence at school, I went back and told my parents that my parents were very angry on the spot, and the next day they went to the school to seek justice for me.

Every time my dad was in the limelight.

Maybe it was that time I was riding a bicycle, I was deliberately pushed to the ground by my classmates, and I told my dad when I got home. After he finished his evening self-study in the evening, he saw us enter the class after class at the door of my class, saying that who was Jiang Moumou was the name of the classmate who pushed me down, and then pulled that classmate out to educate him.

And then that, my classmate cried and came to apologize to me, although it was because my dad was drinking at the time, of course, I still felt very much love for him. Another time I accidentally bumped into a classmate when I was in elementary school, and it happened that the family had cheated on me, and I couldn't change a few hospitals, so I did a full body examination, and the doctor said it was no problem.

Then my dad said that I came out with the money, but you still have to toss, just go yourself, and bring me the inspection report if you have the ability. The angry teacher and the other parent's parents all wanted to mess with me at school. My dad said, my child has made a big mistake, I can do it, which of you dares to touch her.

When I was young, I felt that my parents were very domineering, and my parents were the sky, and he could resist everything for himself. After growing up and becoming sensible, I felt a little sad, because my parents were not omnipotent. We have to learn to face everything in life on our own, because there are times when the protective umbrella of our parents disappears.

In fact, for parents, children are their only ones. Protecting their children is the inner expectation of every parent, and if their children make mistakes, they can do it themselves, and they can fight it. But if someone else hits their own child, it will definitely not work.

Communication can be the first in everything.

Once when I came back from shopping, I found out that I had been deceived, and my parents took me to find the person who lied to me to theorize.

When I said I needed a car, they immediately said to me, "We'll go buy a new one tomorrow."

When my parents were touched and framed on the road, they were very domineering to find evidence and solve the problem.

Dad is steady and gentle, and Mom is gentle and kind. But it's not covered.

One evening a long time ago, our family sat around the table, talking and laughing and eating dinner. Suddenly heard outside"Woo-woo-woo-wah"There was a shouting and scolding, and after a while, the sound came closer and closer, and then it seemed to stop at my doorstep.

At this time, Dad stood up and strode out the door. My mother followed, and I ran out with it. I saw three big men outside, scolding and scolding, still holding shovels, hoes, iron rakes and other tools in their hands, showing their teeth and claws at the door of my house, scolding, looking like they were not good at coming, and wanted to fight to the end.

Dad walked up to them with his bare hands, but without fear, and shouted"What do you want, bunnies? Who do you scold? It's crooked!

The three guys who were still yelling just now were frightened by their father's momentum. Suddenly changed his words"Uncle, we're not scolding your family, we're not scolding your family!

Then he put away his farming tools and walked away.

Those three guys turned out to be the three sons of a neighborhood who usually had a good relationship with their parents. The reason why I came to find trouble was because a relative of my family was bullied by this family, and then he was lying on the street and messing with his son. Mom felt sorry for this relative, and when she persuaded her, she said:

Go home quickly, others are bullying you, don't you make trouble with others, is it useful to mess with your own children? "Unfortunately, it was heard by the family. So the opening scene appeared.

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When I was a child, I always felt that my parents didn't love me enough, they were busy with work and left me in the care of my grandmother, and I didn't feel much love from my parents. What I don't understand the most is that my parents always taught me to obey the rules, not to quarrel with others, to know how to be humble, and I have always played the image of a good girl.

In my third year of junior high school, I let go of all my distractions and devoted myself to my studies. But there are always boys who come to me and interfere with my studies. I wanted to talk to my parents, but I was afraid that they would say that I couldn't even solve this problem.

If I had told my teacher, she would have thought I was making a big fuss, so I decided to wronged myself and endure it again and again.

I panicked, I was afraid that my parents would indiscriminately think it was all my fault and ask me to admit it. Unexpectedly, when my parents came to the office, the first thing they asked me was if I was hurt, which flattered me. The parents of the other party were very angry and demanded compensation from our family without clarifying the facts.

My dad has always been the kind of person who has no temper, but I didn't expect him to slap the table that day and reply: "You don't look at your son either!" "For that moment, I felt like my dad was superhuman.

Later, my dad asked me to tell the truth about what happened, and my dad felt that I was not wrong! The other party insisted that our family compensate, and my parents said that there was no reason for compensation, and if they had to do this, they would accompany them to the court. Later, under the persuasion of the school leaders, the parents of the other party retreated.

I went home with my parents that day, and my parents said that if someone bullied me in the future, they would definitely help me beat him! It turns out that honest parents can be so domineering, my heart is very warm, and there is a strong force behind me to protect me.

When I was in the first grade of elementary school, my handwriting was not very good, and then the teacher kept saying that my handwriting was not good-looking and needed to be rewritten, so I always wanted to write good, but I was relatively young, and the handwriting did not mean that I could practice very well in a day or two. I was particularly impressed by the fact that one day the teacher called my parents to the office, tore up my notebook on the spot, and said to my parents Look at what your daughter wrote, can you read this word, take it back and rewrite it, and bring it tomorrow.

At that moment, I found that my parents were the most domineering, and when I grew up, I found that true politeness is not condescending to spur, but tactfully understanding and upholding the dignity of others.