Why care so much about his past? What to do?

Don't be too careful.

Divorced men have several advantages: the habit of not liking cleanliness has been completely corrected by the previous wife, and the housework can be done to some extent, and he can understand what kind of home his wife needs.

Men are a little 10 years older than women: men are mature, and young boys should be worn out by society and ex-wives, and they feel more sorry for their wives.

Don't pay too much attention to what other people think and say. You know? It's tiring to live like this! Don't deliberately explain, why bother, it's meaningless, the good or bad of your life is the most real.

Being angry is just being too concerned about the foul smell that comes out of someone else's mouth.

Painful, painful.

Understand you. How to live your life in the future...

Excuse me, are you not old enough to get married? How did you get married?

Your choice is a bit irrational. But if you're married, you shouldn't worry too much about that, unless you don't plan to continue the marriage.

If the other party is very good to you, then why can't you think about it, the road will be more difficult to turn back.

If you like him, tolerate his past, then he will also tolerate your past, don't care about the other party's past, people will change, and the mistakes of the past do not mean anything.

Don't care about gossip, I'll give you a famous quote: Judge whether a man loves you or not, don't look at what he says, look at what he does.

If you like him, you don't care what others say.

You like him, not anyone else.

I don't like him to break up.

Because this is the premise of knowing each other.

Because you love him, you will care about his past.

I want to learn about his past.

Maybe it's too much love, or maybe it's just a possessiveness.

Love him. Since you love him, you have to give up the past, you and he met in this second, everything before is not important, the important thing is the present and the future, focus on these two points! Don't let the past affect the future!!

Everyone has a past, but if the other person has a past in their hearts, they care. As long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is over, and I have a past, will the other party also care?

When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with it and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future. I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively. If I love him very much, I won't care about his past, because his past has nothing to do with me, I care about his present and future, as long as he truly loves me.

If one day, I know that he is still in close contact with his ex-girlfriend, it will be difficult for me to leave without looking back, because I don't want to be with a person who betrays love slowly and has no bottom line, which is the biggest insult to me.

What I want is his person, his character, and his future! People are not saints and sages, especially when they are young, they are full of enthusiasm, sometimes they can't grasp themselves, they make mistakes, they recognize it, they have changed, and they are still good comrades! Since it comes to this issue, the other party has this person in his heart, and at this time he must be optimistic about this person's character, which is the key.

It's easy to say, but there's not much that can really be done. When the two of them are sweet, they can't feel it, but once there is a conflict, they just wait to turn over the old accounts. Love is selfish and domineering, because love is more than in the past because it cares, which is normal, just don't be endless, the other party thinks once or twice that you are still very happy because you care, but there are too many times to tease, and when you are tired, you don't want to explain anymore.

I don't think this is what everyone wants to see, because it is a lifelong regret to lose the people who should be cherished in the past.

Therefore, I personally feel that the past of the other party is not important, but the present and the future are important.

When you are with someone and you just hear the past from the other person's mouth, and find that everything is not what you imagined, and it is not within the scope of what you can accept calmly, you will be surprised, and you will be a little disappointed and mind for a while, that is very normal.

The people you love, even if you have some past, of course you will hope that those pasts will not be too crossed.

But when everything has become a reality, for example, the other party has more exes, has had an improper relationship with other people, and has already lived with whom, instead of always feeling that the other party is not good, you should ask yourself if you can make the past a thing of the past.

If, after thinking about it for a while, you find that your love for that person is far greater than anything, and in your relationship, you find that you can still continue to treat each other well, and you just want to be together, then of course you can continue to be good with each other.

A person's past cannot be changed, and no one will inevitably have some unbearable years.

Since those past are gone, that person is really good now, you really like it, and the other party is sincere enough, give the other party a chance to start over, and give yourself a chance to be happy, which will of course be particularly worthwhile.

In this life, everyone is the same, and they can't always live in the past, let alone live in the past of others.

Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart. When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness. And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So for this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this:

If you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore. If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness.

A: I don't care about my partner's past, I only care about him being able to get along better with me in the future.

First of all, each of us will meet our other half, but this process is not very straightforward, meet your own half, but after a period of chasing, after a period of consideration, you can better find your other half, and in this process, many people have experienced a lot of twists and turns, but also experienced many unimaginable processes, but in the end it is not easy for two people to come together, so what we should care more about is what the future will be? It's about not caring about her past.

Secondly, no matter how good the past is, it is the past after all, and he will not come back, we still need to grasp the present and focus on the future, which is the most important thing, because what we care more about is this person and how to spend it with him in the future? This is what we should always remember, not that we should think about his past, and what kind of impact his past will bring to us, so we should not care about their past.

It is true that we can't all ignore his past, a person's past can also see his character, or the way he behaves for Qin Songren, so we can refer to his bright and past, and see what happened to his past, what kind of impact it will have on her character, what kind of understanding we can get along with her, so we can't not pay attention to his past at all, but there are some things that we don't have to pay special attention to.