Tell us about something you ve been misunderstood? What have you experienced that have been misunder

I had such an experience, I was really distressed, I was obviously well-intentioned but did bad things, others thought that I didn't have a good heart, and as a result, I misunderstood me, and I was very sad at the time.

I'm currently learning figure skating and often beat novices at the rink. Because I am familiar with the staff, I often help to tie the child's shoelaces or something. I once helped a little boy tie his shoes, and he said thank you, uncle, I'm a 16-year-old girl!

There was a period of time when I was extremely addicted to overeating, and posted a dynamic caption "I accidentally ate and became a pregnant woman." "It's a description of really eating hard. I've posted it a few times, and I don't know if I only like it or comment on it for my friends, and I smiled meaningfully.

A friend couldn't stand it anymore and came to me in a private message, and the content could only be understood but not spoken.

Of course there were, but I'll explain it once, he loves to believe it or not, and I can't help it if he really doesn't believe it.

Yes, I have explained it, but no one understands it, and I have to bear it silently, which is really uncomfortable.

I've met some of these people as well. Some of the terrible situations that may be dark in her own heart will put you different from others.

Some people are trying to attack you, magnifying and exaggerating your differences to create a situation where you are weird and to attack or exclude you.

I have a hobby, which is to add various groups and find out what the status of certain groups is. For example, I don't have dogs, but I add a stray cat and dog rescue group or something. For example, I don't fan celebrities, but I have added several celebrities' fan bases.

For example, I didn't want to practice, but I joined the group of Hengdian group performances. Probably like this, until one day, someone happened to come to me in the office and saw that I had just opened a group: Rainbow Flag***.

I didn't explain, and he didn't ask much.

Lawyers eat by opening their mouths; Your lawyer profession is very dark; Lawyers are looking forward to lawsuits; Lawyers can make money, and they can earn xx million yuan by saying a few words; You can't argue with a lawyer ......emmm, wait a minute, it seems that this one is not a misunderstanding.

Before I went to university, I felt that judges were admirable characters, and I also had a yearning for judges, until I met our homeroom teacher when I went to college, a judge who had been a judge for nearly ten years and then was admitted to our school as a teacher, she told us that she felt that being a judge was exposed to too many social dark sides every day, too many negative emotions, low salary and tiredness, and worked overtime every day, so she gave up this job and chose to be a law teacher.

Before I studied law, even I thought that law was nothing more than a teacher who took you to read the law or talk about a case, and some ...... or notBut after studying, I found that this is not the case at all, the law is only the basis and the basis will not even be obvious in the exam (referring to the end of the term), but about the misunderstanding, my classmates in other majors still think that we are just memorizing the law.

Your endorsement must be very powerful, can you memorize all the laws when you prepare for the judicial exam, what is the full name of the law major, do you major in French, many lawyers are really bad, they specialize in defending bad people, just to collect money and show off their legal studies, why don't you go to the law firm for internships, and so on. I'm so tired!

It's been half a year, and once a college classmate said, "I think you're a cold person", a little aggrieved, but I don't know what to explain, and I prevaricated with a smile. I want to fight back, "It might just be that we're not close." ”

Language is a tool to communicate the heart, but many times, other people's inadvertent words may bring great spiritual damage to themselves, have you ever been hurt by a sentence for a long time?

Here's what I've come across to share with you:

1. When I was in elementary school, I didn't like to talk, I rarely talked, and the more noisy the classroom, the quieter I became.

One day I was walking around the playground and a beautiful girl in my class looked at me and said, "What is he doing here, it's disgusting." "Thought I was the ...... who came to her

2. When I entered junior high school, I always felt that I couldn't eat enough, and every morning I drank a bowl of soup and sold a tea egg and a white Ji pretended to be a bridge bun, and I was hungry before noon, so I liked to go to the commissary to buy snacks to eat.

At noon, because no one in my family cooked for me, I continued to buy and eat, a ** fried noodles, and ate clean. In the evening, after school, I bought some fried skewers and fried chicken fillets, and went home to continue eating. In this way, I am only 96 pounds, puberty is too fast, my face is relatively fat, I was 161cm at the time, and now I have grown 2cm.

But my mother thought I was fat, and often pointed at me and said: "Fat is the same as pig essence, I don't study well, I know how to eat every day", and at the family banquet, I counted how much I ate, and I ate fat. I didn't study well, I was garbage in my mother's eyes, and I was fat because I didn't study well.

3. You look like this, you will scare the mental illness away, right? Do you still need to be afraid?

One night, there was a sudden frenzied knocking and kicking sound in the hallway of the company's dormitory.

In fact, it's very scary, I'm actually very timid, and it's easy to make up some bad situations in my brain. Then the next day, I posted this incident to a circle of friends, and I received a comment: You look like this will scare the psychosis away, right? Do you still need to be afraid?

I was really speechless and angry, and I blamed myself for not being able to quarrel with him, so I silently deleted this circle of friends, and then blocked this person.

4. In the past, a female colleague said that I had bad breath, mainly because she always talked about it for a long time, and her eyes were weird, and finally looked at me and teased: "No one around you said that you have bad breath?" How did they endure it? ”

Because I have a bad stomach, I will have a little taste for a day or two after eating spicy things, she gives me the feeling that I have eaten durian, I feel that I am autistic, and I have been mindful of chewing gum for two days.

Hurtful words are like a sharp knife, the person who speaks can be calm, but the person who listens has been cut all over the body. Therefore, we need to be vigilant and stop hurting others.

One day at noon in August this year, I took the subway, arrived at Xiaozhai Station, bustling, there were more people, just out of the turnstile, a little boy with a backpack blocked my way and asked: "My grandma is in **?" "At that time, I was puzzled to know that the child was only a year old, and there was no one around, and I realized that he might have been separated from his grandmother.

What to do? Although I still have urgent matters, I can't ignore this matter in front of me, there are a lot of people in Xiaozhai Station. I asked the little boy, do you know grandma**?

The little boy shook his head, then do you know Mom and Dad**? The boy still shook his head. I asked him where he came from?

The child only said that he went swimming with his grandmother, and the rest was not clear. I couldn't help it, so I stood there with the child, ready to wait for his grandmother to come, and after waiting for a long time, I didn't see anyone. I was in a hurry to get to work, so I led the little boy to the service desk and prepared to hand it over to the subway staff.

I thought to myself, the little boy has already been handed over to the subway staff, I still have to go to work, it is too late, and I am about to leave, but the subway staff said that I should wait a little longer. I don't know why, I was a little uncomfortable at the time, did people suspect me of something? Maybe it's a misunderstanding, but the good thing is that the subway station is full of cameras.

Forget it, just wait. During this time, the little boy also stood with me all the time, and I comforted him if he did not leave me. About 10 minutes later, the subway staff said that there was news that the little boy's grandmother was rushing here.

After a few minutes, an old lady who was also carrying a bag and holding a swimming ring came, accompanied by a subway staff member, the old lady was obviously very angry, and walked directly to the little boy. The subway staff and I were also stunned and puzzled. But he still stepped forward and asked the little boy, this is your grandmother, and the little boy nodded.

The ferocious old lady took the little boy and hurried away, ignoring us. I looked at each other with a few subway staff and smiled awkwardly. Then I asked the subway staff, can I go?

They were embarrassed to say, yes! Although I didn't get a word of thanks, although I was still misunderstood, and although I was late for work, I was still relieved!

Yes. A true friend will understand you.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: easy ways to be misunderstood steps If you are misunderstood, you will inevitably feel aggrieved and even angry, if you don't control your emotions well, you may do stupid things, so if you are misunderstood, don't panic first, calm yourself down. Ordinary people are misunderstood and will argue with each other, but sometimes the more they are described, the more they are darkened, don't quarrel with others first.

If you are misunderstood, you must figure out the reason, why you will be misunderstood, and think about what you have said and done, which can easily lead to misunderstanding. If you are misunderstood, when both parties are calm, ask the other party why they misunderstood you, and then explain them one by one, don't get angry. If the explanation is useless, then go to find the truth, find insiders, find evidence and clues, and there will always be a day when the truth will be revealed.

If the misunderstanding is solved and the other party apologizes to you, then don't dwell on it anymore, let go of the mustard and make peace with the other party, and the person with a generous heart will live a happier life.