Why do people keep saying they are suffering?

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

I grew up in a poor family, and I naturally suffered a lot as I grew up, so it stands to reason that I should be a very hard-working person now. But on the contrary, I don't want to suffer at all, such as when my shoes and socks are wet from the heavy rain in winter, and the clammy cold on my feet makes me miserable, or when I walk on the hot earth on a hot summer day, the heat makes me angry. Every now and then, this thought pops into my head:

Why do people suffer, and it has been coiled in the mind for a long time.

Now that I think about it, maybe it's because I've tasted bitterness, it's not a good experience, and if I taste too much, I'm naturally afraid, such as bitter medicine, how can anyone like to eat bitter medicine. People finally come to this world for the purpose of feeling warmth, beauty, happiness, and joy, but they inevitably have to endure cruelty, loss, pain, and sadness at the same time.

However, "willing to endure hardships" and "will endure hardships" are indeed words of praise for people, and words for praising this person for having a good quality. Does that mean that suffering has its positive meaning? Perhaps the meaning of suffering is to suffer for the sake of suffering itself, in order to be able to endure the next suffering.

From the word "suffering", we can feel that people are passive in suffering, for example, we will say: "Disaster flying from the sky", this sentence also shows the unpredictability of suffering. If a person, from birth to death, has the ability and opportunity to avoid any suffering, then suffering is completely meaningless to him.

But can we be such a person? The answer is a resounding yes, no!

Every time we suffer, it is for the time when we suffer the next suffering, so that we will not be crushed. We can now bear the current suffering, and it is also because the original calamity has made us stronger. I can't think of any other positive meaning of suffering, the doom that we have experienced before and that we are experiencing now, is actually a preparation for the next doom.

So I don't like people to praise me with "willing to endure hardship" and "able to endure hardship", I hope that I will not have so much suffering for the rest of my life, just do it.

Suffering in life is a complex topic that involves multiple fields such as philosophy, religion, and psychology. There are various explanations and perspectives on why people suffer. Here are some of the main takeaways:

1.Learning and Growth: Many people believe that suffering can help us grow and learn. Experiencing setbacks and difficulties can make us stronger, more resilient, and also teach us how to deal with life's problems.

2.Balancing our lives: In some cultures and religions, suffering is seen as a necessary part of life to balance our lives. These beliefs believe that suffering is a punishment for the wrongdoings we have made in the past, and for the sake of better rewards for us in the future.

3.Psychological needs: Psychologists believe that suffering allows us to experience a sense of existence and meaning.

When we face challenges and difficulties, we may pay more attention to our needs, values, and goals. This focus helps us build self-awareness and a sense of accomplishment.

4.Purpose of evolution: From an evolutionary point of view, suffering is the result of natural selection. Those who are able to overcome the odds and survive in harsh environments are more likely to pass on their genes to the next generation.

5.Voluntary suffering: In life, we may actively choose to suffer, such as for the sake of ideals, beliefs, or family. In this case, we suffer because we believe that these efforts are worth it and are an important part of our lives.

It is important to note that the above view is not an absolute truth, but an explanation of why people suffer from different perspectives. In fact, the origin of suffering can vary from person to person, depending on each person's life experiences, values, and beliefs.

Why people are suffering is a relatively complex issue, involving many factors such as human society, psychology, and physiology.

Here are some of the main reasons that can cause a person to suffer:

Physiological factors: People may encounter some physiological problems in their lives, such as illness, physical pain, hunger, etc., which can cause people to feel tired and uncomfortable physically and emotionally.

Psychological factors: People may encounter setbacks, losses, difficulties, etc. in their lives, which will have an impact on people's psychology and lead to the generation of negative emotions, such as anxiety, depression, depression, etc.

Social factors: People may experience unfair treatment, discrimination, bullying, etc. in society, which can have a negative impact on people's psyche and cause people to feel lost and helpless.

Economic factors: Economic hardship and poverty are one of the main reasons for many people's suffering, such as employment difficulties, low income, high housing prices, etc., which will lead to people's quality of life declining, feeling depressed and helpless.

In short, the reason why people are suffering is because of human social, psychological, physiological and other factors.

We need to find solutions to problems through positive attitudes and actions to improve our quality of life and well-being.

There is bitterness, there is sweetness, all sweetness is wrong, the month can't be full, and it's troublesome if it's full! There is suffering to make us more and more powerful in Zhonghe Yuanfu, and we have resistance and immunity to the bitter selling faction, as if we have been vaccinated, don't you think?

Because thinking more and doing less.

I've read a passage and I'll give it to you, the world is the nineteenth layer of hell.

Buddha Shakyamuni said that people have eight sufferings, which are birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love and separation, five yin and blazing, and unwanted. Birth, old age, sickness, and death are natural physiological sufferings; Resentment, love and parting, five yin blazing and unbelievable, are mental pain. Resentment will be with people or things that are resentful and hated, and it is impossible to get rid of it, which is a kind of pain; It is a pain to love to part, to be separated from one's dear ones; The five yin are blazing and bitter.

The five yin is the color of the desire to know. 'Fiery', fiery also. Sheng, many also.

Shade, obscuration, too. It means that these five dharmas can obscure our people's original enlightenment and sincerity, so that they cannot be revealed. I can't ask for it, but I can't get what I want, and it's a pain.

To live, to have to live (not to live or to die); old, can't ask for youth; sickness, not seeking health; Death, not eternal life; Love parting, begging for reunion; Resentment will be, and there will be no liberation; The five aggregates are blazing, and they can't be clear. Seeking is desire. If you can't ask for it, you will be distressed.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable in the world, but the suffering of "not being able to ask for it" should be exempted by subjective will. The strange thing is that throughout the ages, from high-ranking officials and dignitaries to ordinary people, most of them have tortured themselves on this "unbelievable". or tried their best, or tried their tricks, or exhausted the organs, or fought openly and secretly, and in the end it was "against Qingqing's life".

The things that I originally longed for can only be seen from afar, and cannot be approached, or even observed, but can only be put in the bottom of my heart. I can't stop, I can't ask for it. Emotions are inevitably sad, anxious and remorseful.

Why do people have bitterness, this is of course, there is bitterness to experience sweetness.

<> "Why Are People Suffering? 1.Suffering from ignorance of the impermanence of all things, allowing greed, hatred, and naivety to drive emotions, thoughts, and behaviors.

2.Greed, hatred, and ignorance make people trapped in the cycle of suffering and happiness to face desires one by one, and the more the better; If you get great joy, if you don't get it, you will be angry and depressed; If you get it, you will be very obsessed, persistent, and don't want to lose happiness.

3.If people are driven by greed, hatred, and ignorance, they will fall into a cycle of suffering and happiness, and happiness at this time is also suffering.

4.Since the pursuit of happiness is also suffering, why is it so obsessed with the pursuit of happiness with sensitive hands?Are you happy if you pursue happiness with scum?It's just that every time you rush to the top of the mountain, you are always afraid of slipping to the bottom of the mountain.

Why do people "suffer"? Listen to what Yi Zhongtian has to say.

Haha, that's what you said, then if you take it as a hard thing, it will only get more and more bitter.

Is it to make the fool suffer or to make the sharp person suffer.

People are not bitter, what is bitter is life, it is life, and our life allows me to slow down and not disturb the base posture without suffering. Even so, only when we are bitter, we will remember every minute we have spent and cherish every next minute.

People go to fight hard for the sake of life, it is not easy to make money in the current society, too honest, will not slip around and shoot horses, will only do some heavy physical work, those who can talk can make a lot of money with their mouths, and the body is not affected and the heart is not balanced, can you not be tired.

Life is bitter and sweet, whether you encounter something unpleasant, as long as you have an upward heart, you will become beautiful in a bitter life.