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In fact, the money between husband and wife can be distributed very reasonably, his money does not belong to you personally, daily expenses, and how much pocket money you said he would give you before, you must want this money, and you can save the extra part, as for the husband's pocket money, it depends on his usual expenses, take an approximate number. If he spends more, then you can ask him what he is spending, and he has the right to report to you where the extra part goes! This is the respect that couples should have before!
As for the New Year's red envelope this time, you don't have to worry about him, after all, it is the fruit of his one-year labor, so let him be a big man. His love for you isn't manifested through this time, isn't it? You should reward him, don't you!
Sometimes we women also have to be generous, so that life will be happier!
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The salary is handed over to you, most of the money is with you, and you still need that little money, and your husband also needs some pocket money. He has little hands and no pocket money, how can he buy you a gift.
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If a loving couple shouldn't care, after all, his salary is given to you?
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You take money too seriously, and he doesn't have room for himself. Don't be too selfish! A good family is built by two people.
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He looks shabby on the outside, do you have face?
If your request is unreasonable, or the way you ask is not right, don't blame others for speaking badly.
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Set the rules and give him the right space.
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It is recommended to follow the following principles:
1. Money for the couplePut it together,After marriage, the husband and wife are not separated from each other, and the two people should put the money together to make each other's feelings more solid;
2. Husband and wife use moneyTell each otherIf you need to use money in life, you should first tell your lover and ask for your lover's consent before using it;
3. Husband and wife notAble to hide your own little vault,In life, you should keep all your money together, and you can't hide your own small coffers, otherwise the other party will not trust you;
4. Money for husband and wifeIt cannot be fortified, you can't hide your money, you should tell your lover how much money you earn, this behavior can make husband and wife trust each other;
5. Husband and wifeYou can't restrict the other party from using moneyIn life, if your lover needs money, you must not restrict it, otherwise it will hurt the feelings of the husband and wife;
Precautions for handling money between husband and wife
A couple is the most intimate relationship from the moment they receive their marriage certificate, and both people should treat each other as their dearest people, and then find ways to make each other grow old. In such a process, couples should have a reasonable way to deal with money problems, and only in this way can they achieve happiness.
Only by handling the problem of money well can husband and wife avoid principled conflicts in marriage, and can also make husband and wife trust each other, and finally have a happy ending.
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Hello! In fact, the couple's money management must be done properly, and improper management will cause many family disputes and even family accidents.
Money management between husband and wife can be roughly divided into three situations:
1. The woman manages the money and earns money for the family, and the man obeys the woman and is responsible for the main economic income of the family.
This is the most common situation in today's society. The woman in the family is the eldest. Men toil in the management of women's property.
Pros: 1The economy is well managed.
2.The family atmosphere is harmonious.
3.The vanity of a woman is satisfied, and the grandeur of a man is sublimated.
4.Parents and in-laws can rest assured that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be relatively harmonious.
5.Women are more careful, and when they spend money, they can roughly recall themselves where the money was spent.
6.If there are children at home, it should be the mother who buys some daily snacks for the child, so it will be more convenient for the woman to manage the money.
Cons: Women are more likely to spend money, spend money indiscriminately, spend money quickly, and spend money to show off.
2. The man manages the money, and the woman is less involved or not involved in financial management.
Pros: Men spend money through their brains, and they spend more rationally.
Disadvantages: Caring for children is relatively small.
There are not many people who try this in today's society.
3. Men and women manage their finances together.
Pros: 1Fair.
2.Disputes are rare, and families are in harmony.
3.It is conducive to cultivating the spirit of cooperation and harmony between husband and wife, and is a way for family couples to get along with each other, which is very much needed in society today.
Cons: 1It's too bad, it hurts feelings.
2.Create a sense of distance from each other.
Of course, my views are not representative of everyone, and I hope you will weigh them carefully.
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