She doesn t seem to have much enthusiasm, should I change my ways?

She's not enthusiastic, so don't be too enthusiastic.

The relationship is basically the pleasure of the two loves, and the more unbalanced it is, the more difficult it is to last for a long time. If she likes you, when you cool down, she will respond herself, and if she doesn't respond, it means that people only treat you as an ordinary friend. You will not have the name of self-knowledge.

It's hard to hear, but I hope you can listen to it.

Hurry up and chase after a woman, the average woman is like this to treat you as a backup, but it's dispensable. So don't waste your time.

Don't go to her too often, give her some space to herself, if you keep going to her, she will find you annoying, and you will lose all your efforts! Ask her to dinner and entertainment every week, but don't invite her too many times, if there are too many, she will be disgusted! As long as you are sincere and work hard, she will definitely be with you and bless you to cheer.

I want to ask you if your girlfriend is a Scorpio?

Don't slow down! She'll think you're giving up on her! Since you've been doing it for 2 months, let's keep trying, if she's good at chasing you, you won't like her, will you? Then come on

That is, your methods have not been used yet, maybe she is more cautious!

It's normal for beautiful girls to be hard to chase, this rhythm can actually be fast or slow, especially before getting married or confirming a relationship, or the other party will have ideas again.

There's no good way to do it, it's just that you need to think about what she thinks, whether it's Neixiu, or if she doesn't like the way you date, or if she's the same for everyone.

Confess to her, everyone will be happy if you accept it, and turn the gun around if you refuse.

Women are different from men, most girls will enjoy the process of being pursued, especially beautiful girls, maybe there are more people chasing her, and you haven't particularly impressed her. In short, first determine whether you really like her, and if so, try to understand what kind of relationship process she likes. I wish you success!

Girls also need time.

She recognizes that it's not easy for you.

Reserved or slow heat If you really like it, then approve of her, pursue it rain or shine, and persist Although there will be someone else in the middle But you have to stick to your own ideas.

We only show enthusiasm for things that interest us. So, if you want to change your apathy, you can try to participate in various activities or make yourself like certain things.

Go to more lively, young places where people work, indifference sometimes gives people a very mature feeling, don't bother too much.

Then first become your rational appearance, and only after trying it will you know whether you like the changed self or not. Take action.

Well, this one! It's not that you're not assertive, you're just more casual.

Take your time, take your own initiative, do something, deliberately, have a first time, have a second time, and that's how I did.

What are you: There is no answer. The kind of person you think you are, who you are, and others will see you that way.

This is a major discovery in psychology in the last world--- self-intention. -You can't be beautiful if you think you're not pretty enough. If you don't think you're brave enough, you can't be brave.

You think you're stupid, you can't be smart. The spirit of intelligent and confident people is open, and conversely, the spirit of people with low self-esteem is relatively closed. In fact, there is very little real distinction between being smart and not being smart.

As long as a normal person is open to experience, then he must be smart. Eliminate inferiority complex--- regain self-confidence 1, positive identification with oneself You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect.

A person with a strong inferiority complex does not have this awareness: he is also human. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses.

Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths. 2. Build self-confidence To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: no!.

Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness. The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression.

Psychologists believe that if you think you are stupid, then you are stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ...

Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome. But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself. Successology says:

God help those who are self-reliant! 3. Positive Autosuggestion Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too!

You might as well ask yourself: they are all the same people, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I.

4. Actively interact with others A healthy mind is not something that comes up with it. Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself.

The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes. It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open.

The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.

Try to get back to different ages.

The stage of the opposite sex contact system. Maybe you're like me, and you're more repulsive to your peers.

Moreover, you have to distinguish between not having to be intimate with anyone of the opposite sex, and don't care too much about what others think and your own state. Take it easy, express yourself freely, and don't live in a box. Only the real you can attract your true destiny.

If you are a quiet, quiet girl, you must contact one.

Some cheerful and enthusiastic boys, this is a complementary personality, which is good for both parties!

It can open up your thinking space! Let you discover another piece of sky!

Don't worry about being overwhelmed, there's nothing you need to parry, just be a listener.

They talk endlessly, which can broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge and insight!

It's better than watching TV, which is talking to yourself and doesn't take into account your feelings at all.

They can interact with you!

They are actors and need an audience! Be a devout spectator and cheer them on!

Oh, my gosh, no, if there were only girls in the world, humanity would die.

It is highly recommended that you see a psychiatrist!