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It doesn't matter if a man spends all day drinking, what matters is his heart, as long as he has you in his heart, everything is OK, think more about his husband, in fact, he doesn't want to be like that, for the sake of the family, for a better life, he is easy! In fact, socializing is really tiring, don't think it's a kind of entertainment, I hope you have more communication, a little more understanding, tolerance, and understanding, so that the family will be harmonious.
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There's no way to spend time on work. If I change jobs, will my salary be lowered? All things considered, there are some things that are actually a dilemma.
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Nowadays, China's social pressure is no less than that of Japan, which is the world's first, and it is normal for a man to spend a lot of time drinking, but there are two aspects to everything, and the time has changed from a derogatory term to a positive word, I am also doing business myself, I know that some things can only be carried out underground in the sky wine, I hope you will observe for a while, after all, it is normal for a man to drink and vent, and a gentleman has something to do and I believe that your husband also knows how to measure.
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This kind of thing depends on the man, you can't restrain him too much, otherwise your marriage is not far away. You can't indulge him too much, or it will get worse. Talk in moderation.
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It is said that it is for work, so you have to be patient and understand
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It's really impatient to work, so let's change jobs.
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It depends on whether you can afford to hurt or not、、、 think about it calmly、、、 decision is up to you.
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Try to investigate clearly and then make a conclusion.
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Sometimes men are also very helpless, so let's talk about it.
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Improve yourself and live life to the fullest.
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Have a good talk with your husband and talk about your thoughts.
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I think it's good that he has a family in his heart.
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If your husband often spends drinking outside, I think it must be intolerable, why should you go to guard a family while the other party spends all day drinking.
And such a person who spends all day drinking outside doesn't care about the family at all, and if he goes on like this, he will actually make himself very tired, because two people in this family have a share, and it is impossible for you to bear it alone.
No, is it that your husband thinks that he works outside to earn money, and you should worry about housework at home, I think the most important thing is to make yourself financially independent, and then don't pay silently for this person, it's not worth it.
If you are a person who takes care of your family and a person who feels sorry for you, I don't think it is possible to spend all day drinking outside.
After two people get married, they must have plans for their small family, spending all day long outside, which is a kind of consumption, of course, if it is an extra party, it must be normal, if it is often spent outside drinking, then I think this is no different from being single, it is better to find such a husband alone.
And your tolerance can't be exchanged for his prodigal son turning back, so I think sometimes you should stop it and have your own bottom line, there should be this problem, you two should sit down and talk about it, if he really has you in his heart, I think he will also take care of it.
In fact, many women feel that they should be laissez-faire and generous, but women's tolerance in exchange for the other party's infinite rampant.
It must be two people working together, not one person unilaterally, and I don't think there is any need for someone like this who plays outside all day.
Working hard at home to have children and take care of housework, but the partner I found didn't feel sorry for myself at all and didn't care about the family at all, this kind of marriage was too tiring.
So women should be sober.
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Of course you shouldn't tolerate your husband, this kind of behavior is betraying the feelings between the two of you, I don't think you need to wronged yourself, you should separate from this kind of person as soon as possible.
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He should not be tolerated, at this time, the man must be irresponsible for his feelings, and he does not take into account the family, he should be allowed to correct it.
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No, you should have a good talk with your husband, his behavior will make you feel insecure.
Listening to you say this, things are a bit troublesome, is it that your husband usually offends them and they don't know, or your husband is too bad at interpersonal relationships, otherwise why do they squeeze out your husband together, you should first recruit the reason from your husband, if not, you should find a way to tie up his colleagues, as long as there is a good impression of you and become friends with you, you will take the initiative and can speak from a friend.
It's a tough problem to solve.
First of all, I think you should have a family meeting with your husband and tell him about the current situation in the family, and then ask him to see how to change the current situation (but please don't ask the prisoner about it). Let's see if he has any plans. >>>More
This husband either lacks social experience and appears tender, or his quality is not high and he goes to school less. >>>More
In the past, I saw such a news on TV: My husband made a jar of wine, which was full of medicinal herbs and the like, and my husband drank it every day, and his wife wanted him to quit drinking, but he tried many methods and couldn't ......In the end, the wife put a few guinea pigs in the jar ......When the husband scooped wine from the jar every day until one day he scooped out the guinea pig, the result was ......He was disgusted when he saw wine, and even when others mentioned it, it was ......It's not for you to put mice in the jar, first, you have to consider your husband's ability to bear it, and secondly, after all, it's a mouse, even if it's an experimental mouse, it's still not very clean ......It can be replaced with some kind of insect, isn't it common to use insects in many places nowadays, and it should be safer ......On the premise of ensuring safety, it is better to succeed the first time, otherwise it will not be easy to do......(Knowing that he doesn't have a wine jar, just get a bottle of wine that is not a transparent glass bottle) Explain that the couple on the news on TV is an old husband and wife, you are still young, don't affect the relationship ...... husband and wifeI haven't graduated yet, and I hate drinking, but I can't push it off on many occasions, and you can't push it off on the most ordinary classmates' birthdays, I really don't know what the situation will be when I graduate in the future, and China's sick wine culture ......Good luck ......
It shows that he inserted his ex-wife's small again.