Why are second married women getting more and more tired?

<> say that second marriage is difficult to manage, and many women who have experienced second marriage and failure have a deep understanding. In the second marriage, there are too many practical problems, the most important ones are the trust of both parties, economic problems, as well as the problems of the children of both parties, and the relationship between the two parties and their ex, and so on. There are various problems in the marriage itself, coupled with some problems determined by the special status quo of the second marriage, it seems that the second marriage is difficult to operate.

Therefore, many people, after experiencing the sigh of second marriage, are saying that they are getting more and more tired. Sometimes it's physical tiredness, sometimes it's mental tiredness.

There is a middle-aged woman named Alain, who has been married for ten years, and the feelings or troubles of these ten years may represent the voices of many second-married women, listen to what she said......

When Alain was 32 years old, he had been divorced for 3 years. It was in this year that she was introduced to her current husband. The two of them have had a failed marriage with each other, so they have a common language, and they got married after half a year of acquaintance.

However, both men have children, both girls. After marriage, the four of them formed a combined family in this way. Since both of them have children, and there are already two children in the family, they do not belong to the two-child policy and have not been able to have any more children.

The first few years of marriage were okay, and both parties tried their best to maintain the relationship, and slowly contradictions came out. Her husband said that she treated her children differently, and she felt that her husband suddenly valued money too much. Always scheming with her.

During the New Year's holidays, she went to her mother's house to visit relatives, but her husband was reluctant to pay.

Alain said that her husband has been out dancing a lot lately and comes home late. For this reason, she felt that he had someone outside of marriage, and they had several quarrels, but he did not restrain himself. I talked about it a few times, but after a few days, it was back to the old way, and it was still how it should be.

Alan said that he was tired, very tired, and felt that the second marriage was too unsatisfactory, but it has been ten years since the second marriage, and she is 42 years old, as a woman, she is not young. I don't dare to face the changes in my marriage anymore. She is married for the second time or far away, and she has no relatives around her, so she doesn't know what to do?

Second-marriage marriage is indeed not easy to manage, and it requires mutual trust and joint efforts of both parties. If one party does not trust enough, becomes suspicious, or does not handle the child's problem well, it is easy to exacerbate the conflict. If you don't understand each other enough and complain about each other, you can only make the problem worse.

Therefore, what second-married couples are most afraid of is the change of feelings in their hearts, and they cannot work together to maintain a good family, and such a second-married life will definitely stumble.

Therefore, many second-married women are becoming more and more tired, which is often caused by not managing their remarried life well. Many times, it is based on one's own inner feelings and self-interests, and if you fail to stand in the other person's position and understand others, you will often be very tired. In fact, it is not difficult to live in a second marriage, as long as you love each other, work hard for each other, and go towards a happy life, all problems will be simple.

It is mainly due to the social atmosphere. The divorce caused by both parties is the fault of the woman in the eyes of the people around her, which leads to some rumors that affect your new life.

Because it is difficult for a second-married woman to find a suitable partner, her love life is not smooth, and her heart is very tormented and painful.

Second-married women do not have the innocence they once had, nor do they have the yearning for love, and they will pay more attention to the requirements of the material level, so they will live more tired.

Because these women will pay more attention to the second marriage after experiencing one marriage, they will have a lot of ideas, so they are more tired to live.

Our lives are always full of unknowns, we don't know what will happen next, but although we can't decide the future, we can do every step in the present. Love is always difficult**, because we may miss a lot of people around us, and we always have to go through a few unreliable love experiences, we don't want to make our lives full of regrets at the same time, but we have to accept this cruel reality. Especially women who have been hurt before, in terms of feelings, they are always very tempted, and always think that the current love is what they need, but the result is indeed the opposite.

Then some men will always fall in love with a woman with a history of feelings, and the confusion they have to accept is much more difficult than that of a man who is in normal love, on the one hand, they have to take care of the woman's family situation, and they have to care enough about the woman's hurt emotions now, often at this time, the man has to take on more than before. So it's really not too easy to love someone, and it's even harder to fall in love with a divorced woman, so men have to go through a lot of consideration at this time. What should they do when they fall in love with a woman who is in a relationship?

Let's listen to the truth from the following three people.

Life is only once, so we have to grasp the time of our life, spend time on the right things, love is always difficult to guess, but what kind of life you want to live, you still need to get through your own efforts, as long as you work hard, nothing is impossible. In fact, what we have to overcome is not others, but ourselves, only from all aspects to improve ourselves, the results will be better and better.

In fact, no matter whether a man is in love with a woman who has experienced several relationships, the most important thing is to learn to tolerate, continue this love, and show your truest feelings.

Women should also be strong, don't always think about what a man can bring you, but the most important thing is to follow the thoughts in your heart, if you know that there is no good result for two people, you must boldly let go, always tortured by these things, it is better to let yourself live a little happier, life is really short, only let yourself be happy, this may be the greatest comfort to yourself. It doesn't matter how many failures you have experienced, as long as you are still there, you can overcome any hardship.

Since love should be happy, how can you be tired, the first thing two people need to be together is mutual trust, mutual appreciation, mutual respect and love, and share responsibility. Communicate with your her well, and communicate in time to dispel all bad things from happening. Finally, I wish you a happy life.

I think two people together should not be tired, but happy and happy. Since you're so tired now, you'll be even more tired in the future, so let's stop in moderation.

Since you're so tired, don't continue, why make yourself so tired.

The simplest thing is to separate, and if it is not suitable, it must be forced

If the two are very tired together, the state is not right, and the married life will be even more tiring, and it is not recommended to continue this life.

This question is for yourself, and if you really love him, then don't care about other external factors.

It's not right, some second marriages are happy, the first marriage did not meet their true love, maybe the second marriage met true love, will go through the second half of the happy life, in fact, there will be difficult things in marriage, women will be independent will be better.

It's hard to be emotionally the same as before, wholeheartedly.

It is indeed more difficult for a woman to marry a second time with a child, especially for a woman with a little boy for a second marriage, and a woman's life after the second marriage may not be as good as the first marriage.

There must be difficulties. But whether you say that it is particularly difficult or not, it probably has something to do with personal conditions. Some people have a good image, a good job, and no children, so it may be better.

Some people are old and the conditions are not good, so it must be very difficult. There are also people who have a heavy burden, which has become a factor for others to consider when they marry each other.

In general, a second marriage is definitely more difficult than a first marriage. Divorce is generally discouraged for no particular reason.

In these years, it is not difficult for a woman to get married for the second time, on the contrary, it is very easy, and some women in the second marriage can find a man with better conditions than the first marriage, or even a first marriage. Because in today's context of fewer women and more men, women who are married for the second time are more popular.

It is not particularly difficult for a woman to marry for the second time, but it is more difficult than the first marriage. Also take into account the family of children, the reason for divorce. But if you find the right one, you are also very happy.

I think it's more difficult for a woman to get married for the second time. Because it's hard to meet the right person again, or it's hard to get out of the last marriage.

If a woman gets married for the second time, it should be very difficult, and she will have some life in terms of feelings. There's a lot to get used to.

It is really difficult for a woman who has been married for a second time, and she must consider whether the man's character is good or not, and if she chooses the right one, she will be happy.

It should be difficult for people to get married for the second time, for example, in terms of children, and in terms of life, they have to slowly get in touch with and experience it themselves.

And then it's really not easy, it's going to be more difficult to mix, if you can't meet a man who is sincere to you, I think you still don't want to get married blindly.

Depending on the specific situation, some may be more chic than when they remarry.

The main reason is that you are not ready at all, and you start a new marriage, which may be because of your children or the reasons of both families, and you are very tired now.

Because after their first failed marriage, they will become very sensitive and always afraid that they will not do well, so they will feel tired.