It s very painful to get along with a second married woman, what should I do?

After a divorce, most people choose to remarry. Remarriage is relatively easy for men, but it is difficult for women. Divorced women are always labeled with many labels.

There will be many bumps in the road to remarriage, and it is not easy to remarry happily.

Paranoid personality, small heart, vanity, this is the nature of local women, and it is not only a second-married woman, especially a woman in a sensitive period. Second-married women have experienced the pain of a sea of life, and have a deeper understanding of life. Therefore, at this time, as a man, you should treat her well, love her well, and have some patience, so as to change the painful and torturous scene today.

Divorced women have many needs, because they are more ideal, they need a man who is sincere to her, but they can't be casually trusted, because they have been injured once, they need material security, because they believe that as long as they have enough material talents, they will ensure that the validity of love will be longer. If one of the parties does not take marriage seriously, the contradictions and grievances accumulated in the family will only become clearer and clearer under the precipitation of time.

In fact, whether a man or a woman, after having the experience of a failed marriage, they must learn to summarize and not hurt each other as unscrupulously as they did when they were young. In the second marriage, we must learn to accommodate and appreciate, because we are already middle-aged, we must know how to cherish and run our own home, and life will become more and more wonderful and harmonious. In marriage, there are no restrictions on age and status, as long as they are suitable for each other.

In short, if a married woman is still as ordinary as if she was not married, or even worse, then the woman is not growing and is not worth dating. Only an excellent second-married woman who has grown up is worth dating!

Reason with her, if she doesn't listen, then you divorce her, after all, it is very difficult for a very unreasonable person to live in peace with you.

I think that for such a situation, you should first reflect on yourself, and if you can't change the status quo, then you should stop the loss in time.

You should communicate with each other so that you can understand each other's thoughts and try to discover the good in each other.

Although I want to sincerely pay for you, I believe that as long as it takes a long time, she will naturally be moved, but, unfortunately, you have encountered an emotional valve in the closed state of your second marriage, although you do not abandon her second marriage and have children, however, she regards your indifference as your charity and derogation to her. On the contrary, she breaks up with you at every turn, compares you to her ex-husband, and is reluctant to reveal your relationship to the public. Such a second-married woman is reluctant to talk about feelings anymore, and always feels that others owe her, and she has the capital of pride.

<> after the divorce, in my opinion, after a long time, the ex-husband will not recognize the status quo in the second marriage, whether it is her own reason or the ex-husband's reason, praising her in front of the current husband is a sentimental and hurtful behavior, which will not only seriously affect the relationship between you, but also arouse the suspicion of the current husband, which also shows that the second-married woman has not learned from the previous failed marriage, which is a way to show off to the current husband.

It also reflects from the side that the second-married woman is not satisfied with you, and marrying you can only agree, once your diet and the other party's mentality are proud, and you are divided and combined, it is also a second-married woman who does not want to combine the careers of the two of you, make the news public, and even want to threaten divorce, I will not talk about such a woman.

During a visit to the countryside last weekend, an old lady said:"Now there is no such thing as a bad mother-in-law. It was the mother-in-law who held her daughter-in-law and couldn't keep it.

A woman's biggest fear in marriage is that the grass on the other side is greener. The old lady told about a girl in the village. When I got married for the first time, I married into a neighboring village and asked for a lot of dowries.

The boy was nice and honest. After they were together for a year, the woman was reluctant to divorce.

The reason for the divorce is that the man feels a little weak and cannot conform to himself in everything. What's more, it is now difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in rural areas, and divorced women are also very popular. Even if you are divorced and have no children, you can marry a man who is married for the first time and get a large amount of bride money.

There is a woman's younger sister who married a man after the divorce, the family conditions are better than her ex-husband, the house is newly built, the car is newly bought, and she has a bride price.

If someone else's second marriage can marry so well, why can't they marry better in their second marriage. Why should the man who follows the first marriage continue to be weak and continue to suffer. In short, after a divorce, a man has no money to remarry, but it is much easier for a woman to remarry.

For women with this mentality. Marriage is not a game, and if you don't take it seriously, it won't take you seriously.

When Sakura Pai Ran should choose to end, since he already feels very painful, the days after holding Song Jin are still very long, and the two of them will feel even more painful if they are deadlocked with each other like this.

I think this situation should be ended, and if a marriage feels like you can't get along for two months, it's actually very painful.

I think if getting along is very painful, then end it immediately, marriage is for happiness, if you are not happy, why torture yourself.

I will be the first to choose Liang to break up, because the special pain of getting along proves that there is no fate between two people, and there is a certain problem with the way the two people get along, and if they continue, it will cause very serious harm to each other.

You should choose to break up, if two people have serious problems with each other and there is no way to solve them, the best thing to do is to break up.

You should choose to break up, because love is a sweet and happy thing, and if the two of you are miserable together, you should break up.

Liking is an uncontrollable thing, and there is nothing wrong with liking someone, after all, feelings are such a thing, it can't be predicted that it will emerge quietly. However, there is such a situation, it will make people in a dilemma, very uncomfortable, that is, like a person who should not be liked, this situation will make the person concerned suffer in the heart. So, what do you do if you fall in love with a girl, but at this time she is already married and buryed?

In any case, feelings are a matter of two people, and only consensual thinking is the most perfect ending, and unrequited love is a very bad thing. Of course, I'm not saying that you can't express your love to girls, I think you can, you can choose the appropriate opportunity to explain to them, but you must pay attention to the ways and means to avoid unnecessary trouble for the other party, and you must not act excessively. Of course, you can also choose to bury this like in the depths of your heart, seal him in the dust, and silently protect her, I personally think it's better to choose the latter, after all, once the truth emerges, it will inevitably bring different results, and destroying other people's families is a very bad thing.

If the girl's family environment is not good, she has not given birth to children, and the girl herself has reached the point of divorce, then you can wait, wait for the day of the divorce of the person you like, and then accompany her, accompany her out of the haze, shoulder to shoulder with her, and then fall in love with her.

Sometimes, we like someone, we love someone, and we don't necessarily have to have her. On the contrary, sometimes, we get, but it may not necessarily have a good result, maybe we will love each other, and then hurt each other, and finally become the most familiar stranger, it is better to bury this love at the beginning, love, sometimes not to get, but to see the other party can rise to happiness.

If you are particularly concerned about this, then don't touch it, don't hurt it if you don't love it, if you don't have any ideas, then go to the run-in. Ask for a letter to accompany you.

1. Create a good family atmosphere: A good family atmosphere is conducive to the physical and mental health of the children of the remarried family, and is conducive to the harmonious relationship between the husband and wife. Take a little more time to communicate with your children every day, take them for walks, parties, travel, visit relatives, etc.

From time to time, there is a small family evening party on the weekend, and the husband and wife perform some programs that are beneficial to the children, and also let the children tell jokes, tell stories, read poems, sing and dance, and so on. A good family atmosphere for remarried families is beneficial but harmless.

2. Treat children equally: Children from remarried families are generally sensitive and suspicious when they come to a new family and new environment. Husband and wife should treat each other's children equally, don't only care about their own children, prefer their own children, and ignore each other's children, don't care less about them, and even often judge and scold, which will not only affect the child's opinion of you, but will also seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run, and the consequences are unimaginable.

3. Let the children become good friends: Let the children study, play, and walk together, and share delicious and fun with each other, so that the children can become good friends who talk about everything. Even if the children don't live together, let them see each other often, get together and become friends.

Don't let them develop a withdrawn, selfish personality.

4. Take care of your own children: Maybe you will care more for your children from the bottom of your heart, but for the sake of family peace and harmony, please take care of your children first and cultivate their caring, generous, optimistic and tolerant character. When necessary, you should give more love to each other's children, smile more, care more, and the feelings will be deeper.

Remarriage has to adjust the mentality.

If it is a second marriage, you must think about it before you decide to date him, whether you love him or not, love can tolerate everything.

The child is the crystallization of their previous love, and no matter what the circumstances, the child is innocent and should not be a burden and a victim of marriage. Children are the hearts of their parents, the pearl of their palms, once divorced, no matter which side the child is, the soul will be hurt, and they will definitely not accept the remarriage of their parents, and they will hear too much about their stepmother and stepfather, and they are afraid that they will be abused.

If I am married for the second time, I will accept their children as my own, because I hope that my children will be like his children in the future, and people's hearts are made of meat, and I really don't know what those people's hearts that abuse children are made of, so cruel. Whenever I see these reports, I am heartbroken, the tiger poison does not eat children, and some of them are actually biological parents who attack their own children, and these people are not worthy of being parents.

If you are married for the second time, if you really love him, you must love his children with your heart, and good people will be rewarded. May all children in the world enjoy love.