How to maintain a relationship, how to keep a relationship for a long time

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you want to be in love with a person for a long time, it is to keep it all the way, go all the way, if you develop faster than him spiritually, wait for him, pull him, this is called to love him physically, isn't it, don't let him stay away from you, too far away spiritually, don't let him stay away from you, too far away spiritually, love is the union of the heart, if the heart goes away, the love will be scattered, and it will fade.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Give it up! You've just started, I suggest you give up, I'm in a long-distance relationship, it's been two years, I'm very tired and tired, and I have to keep calculating how to save the fare in order to meet once, because I miss wanting to play ** but I have to keep worrying about whether I have made too much contribution to the movement. If you can change the reality, if one of you can change your work and be together, then it is not too difficult to continue to estimate, but if you can't change the reality, then the long-distance relationship, it is recommended that you give up!

    When the time comes, we have been together for a long time, the relationship is deep, and it will be very difficult to let go, just like my situation now, I really want to divide and reluctant, and I want to continue and it is difficult.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Only by doing these three things can we maintain the long-term concentration of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, don't take the separation too seriously, and secondly, communicate often, you can also go over to see her, of course, it's also a good way to surprise from time to time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Long-distance relationships are indeed hard, but when they are together, they are very happy, give her more care, and trust is the most important, if your girlfriend loves you very much, it is very good, but one party will be very tired to pay, really. I wish you all happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Caring for each other, greeting each other, and trusting each other is the most important thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Chat online, and then look for opportunities to meet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Change to a job closer to her, rent a house, and live together with two people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Long-distance relationships are indeed hard, but there are still many successful examples, and when you encounter problems, you should be calm and wait patiently for happiness to come.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How do you keep it going? I'm just afraid that such a good feeling will soon be gone!! There are many kinds of feelings, and if you can't say that it's fast, it's not good, and you can't say that if it's slow, it can last a long time. Love is the fastest.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the beginning, because of the attraction, we want to be together, but after we are really together, we need to communicate with each other, and we will often do something together, and when we interact with each other, we will get to know each other better, and the other person will get to know us better. At this time, as we get to know each other better, we may feel that each other is very good and compatible with ourselves, but it is also possible that in the dialogue, in some behavioral patterns, we will feel more and more that each other is not the same way. However, if two people do not get along at all, their views are completely different, and their views on the same thing are always completely opposite, two people will only be very awkward when they are together, and the good feelings they had at the beginning will only be quickly exhausted.

    Only when we get in touch with each other more and more find that we can always talk to each other, our thoughts are always at the same level, our cognitions are always very similar, and we all feel more comfortable, and we feel that each other is a person in the same way, and this relationship can continue forever. In the beginning, because of the attraction, we want to be together, but after we are really together, we need to communicate with each other, and we will often do something together, and when we interact with each other, we will get to know each other better, and the other person will get to know us better. At this time, as we get to know each other better, we may feel that each other is very good and compatible with ourselves, but it is also possible that in the dialogue, in some behavioral patterns, we will feel more and more that each other is not the same way.

    However, if two people do not get along at all, their views are completely different, and their views on the same thing are always completely opposite, two people will only be very awkward when they are together, and the good feelings they had at the beginning will only be quickly exhausted. Only when we get in touch with each other more and more find that we can always talk to each other, our thoughts are always at the same level, our cognitions are always very similar, and we all feel more comfortable, and we feel that each other is a person in the same way, and this relationship can continue forever.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The maintenance of long-term relationships has always been a problem, and many people's love is always not maintained for a long time, this is because they do not know how to maintain, and the maintenance of long-term relationships is skillful.

    Have personal hobbies.

    Both parties have their own interests and hobbies, and it is best not to interfere with each other, for example, if a boy likes to play games, you can accompany him, or even play with him, try to understand and integrate each other's hobbies, which is a good point to improve the emotional concentration of the two. Don't interfere too much with each other's hobbies, or even block each other, and don't blindly compromise to find a moderate balance.

    Know how to improve yourself.

    Many women think that 18-25 pairs are their own ** period, and the market value of a woman's marriage will decrease after the age of 25, but in fact, I want to tell women that valuable women have always known how to progress and improve. A woman who has her own life, knows how to enrich her life, learns more and makes more progress, and has her own charm will not lack suitors.

    He also knows how to control his emotions when arguing.

    It's normal to have a fight, but it's also important to avoid saying nasty things when arguing. For example, boys like to tease girls and say, "You're so ugly, no one wants you but me, and then make girls angry, and then say why can't you joke so much?"

    Some girls will also say that their boyfriends: Why are you not motivated to play games every day, but when the boy works seriously, he says: You don't have time to spend with me, it is important for me or for work, which is very contradictory.

    There is no absolutely safe marriage relationship in the world, and feelings need to be maintained.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are many kinds of love in the world, and love does not necessarily have to have you, and gazing is also a kind of love....When you are deeply in love with someone.

    Regardless of the form of love, their essence is the same....I'm standing not far from you, silently.

    Sincerely and melancholy looking at you, through this life...

    When my love unfortunately becomes a burden to you, please tell me, and I will leave quietly as well....Because your happiness is the basis of my happiness, and if it is only because of my existence that causes your suffering, then for your sake I must disappear from your life....

    I won't be sad, even when I remember your smile at night, I can't help but laugh happily.

    Because loving you is a truly precious treasure in life, a wealth that will never be too little and not too much....I keep my love for you because I know that it is the most beautiful possession of my life...

    Maybe. Doomed in this life.

    I can't get the kind of infatuated love you have, so please let me love you quietly, and that's enough.

    Meeting you has made me have no regrets in my life.

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