How to break through the reluctance to throw things, what are the things that are reluctant to throw

I like a saying: "People who want to get everything will end up with nothing." This sentence is too suitable in life.

The end result is: the space is smaller, the house is messed up, and the mood is terrible.

Pay for one's whistle. Many people will equate housekeeping with reluctance, but is this really the case?

If you are reluctant to throw anything, does it prove that you are very housekeeper?

Things are for you, not for them.

We use all kinds of things, the most important purpose is to enjoy ourselves, or to provide convenience for life, which is called "things for your use".

If you don't need something and don't like it, no matter how much it costs, it's a useless burden to you.

If you still have to reluctantly adapt to it, you will become "tired of things" because of it.

To be the master of life is to learn to select, to learn to arrange, and to learn to give up.

Take a look at whether you have these things around you, which seem to be needed, but in fact they are rarely used, and they take up a lot of space, and take them out and clean them up!

You have to be willing to throw it, throw it boldly, throw it regularly, don't hold the skirt I bought this year and didn't wear it, and I will definitely wear it next year, such thoughts.

In fact, your subconscious already thinks that this dress will not be worn, and the style you have disliked this year will not be even longer next year?

There are also products purchased at a discount during the shopping festival, and the products ordered when I hear ** are actually not used.

When you want to buy something late at night, you might as well wait until the next day to see if there is still a need to buy.

and so on, which seem to be useful, seem to be reluctant to run a family, but in fact, they only bring you a messy and unorganized life.

It is necessary to make things useful to you, not to be burdened by them, and only what you really get used is valuable.

The cleaner it is, the more blessed it is.

When the space where you live and work is clean and bright, your whole temperament will be different, whether it is a company or a family, no one wants to be born in a cluttered place to work or live.

When a company is clean, even if it is only at a glance, you will feel that the company is reliable and will be attracted to the company.

Needless to say, if you talk about work and cooperation, it will also be a harmonious atmosphere, and it will also leave a good impression on the other party.

When cleaning, it will also make our emotions more delicate and gentle, and we can find the little beauty in life and get along with people, who doesn't like to get along with people who pay attention to details and have love in their hearts?

Therefore, whether it is a business or a family, whether it is a family or a small family, the cleaner it is, the more blessed it is!

Because sooner or later, such things have to be thrown away, and they should not always be reluctant.

I am reluctant to throw away anything, one possibility is thrift, and the other is nostalgia.

After using some things for a long time, he may have this feeling for this thing, especially the things that he often uses, he is more familiar with them, so if he throws them away, he feels like a thing around him has suddenly been lost, and he will have this feeling.

So some people are very thrifty in life, he feels that this thing is old over there, and there will be other uses in the future, since childhood, he is used to living a thrifty life, and he naturally develops a habit in life.

This is a very complex psychology, sometimes there are some things that are not used, it is really reluctant to throw it, but do not throw, put it there and sometimes feel blocked, really this psychological state does make people feel entangled, but most of the time, this psychology is still affected by the living habits of the elderly, after all, the elderly have come from difficult times, experienced hard days, their parents are like this, they are reluctant to throw anything, I can also understand very well, over time, Their thrifty housekeeping behavior has also infected me unconsciously, this is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, I don't think this is a price drop behavior, I will be like this, don't throw anything, reluctant to throw, maybe when you don't need it, some things are indeed a kind of thought, throw it away and feel a pity, if you don't throw it, you can also look at it and find memories, maybe it's these mentality, have always let me be like this, this doesn't throw that doesn't throw it, and it has been kept until now, I think it's also very good.

It's a very extreme and pathological mentality. I don't talk to my husband for half a yearIt's because he won't throw anything, not even a pile of old newspapers. , leftover soup, now the family demolition life is very good, he still always lives in the past.

When people are young, they are very direct about cleaning things up, and throw away what they don't use or what they use. When I get older, I think about it, if this thing is thrown away, there is really nowhere to find it, or keep it in case of emergency. This is related to experience and experience, not nostalgia, let alone picking.

For me, it's a nostalgia. I am 30 years old Chinese New Year's Eve. I still have my clothes when I was a child.

In fact, when I was about 20 years old, I wondered why my parents kept my little clothes. My parents said it was a kind of nostalgia. After I got married, my parents moved to a new house and took all my clothes with them, and I also felt my parents' reluctance to me.

Now my parents are not in good health, I take care of them in the market, clean up for them, and when I see the clothes in the kitchen, I won't ask anymore, I will just fold them and put them away, because that is not as simple as my childhood memory for me, and it still carries the love of my parents, so I will be sincere and will never throw it away.

There should always be nostalgia in the heart, and there is also a collector's habit. For example, I'm more collectible. I have collected a lot of MMS paper, postcards since I was young.

There will also be a collection of many small objects, and the home is quite full. Sometimes I don't know why I was so fanatical and collecting at the time, but I have become a treasure in my heart, so I am reluctant to throw it away. That's why I kept it.

Not being willing to throw anything away is a personal habit, not only for the elderly, but also for some young and middle-aged people around. As the saying goes, the habit of not being willing to throw away anything is like a human character, and it is difficult to change it by persuasion of others, because it will make him very uncomfortable, as if he is forced to do something that he can't figure out and doesn't want to do. For some old people, a broken brush, an old rice shovel, if the children are forced to steal and replace it with a new one, it is likely to make the old man sad for a few days, and good things will become bad things, because the dilapidated household is likely to be used to it, so don't simply change the old man's living habits with a rough heart.

Nostalgia. When many people buy something, they are very fond of the item in their hearts, and they cherish it after buying it back, no matter how long time has passed, no matter how old the thing is, they are reluctant to throw it away. In fact, there is a virtue of advocating frugality, as long as things can be used, continue to use them.

Nostalgia is also engraved with the imprint of special experiences, such as when I was a soldier, and the military bottles, raincoats, satchels, and clothes issued by the army were preserved one by one. For example, something given by a friend, which is a symbol of friendship, is reluctant to throw it away and has always been kept.

For example, if you have a lot of clothes when you buy them, you will find that this dress is difficult to match, and it may be that you will put it there and gradually stop moving it, or sometimes the clothes you buy back are a little smaller, but many girls will put it there in order to motivate themselves, and later found that this dress can never be worn, but it was not thrown away, and there are many clothes that you like to wear, but as you grow older, it is no longer suitable to wear the sedan head, but you are still reluctant to throw it awayI think every girl should have several of these clothes in her wardrobe.

There are also a lot of tableware, lunch boxes, fitness equipment, etc., such as I searched for a lot of lunch boxes at home, and often want to take good care of myself on a whim, or want to take care of my boyfriend, I want to bring food to work every day, and I will buy lunch boxes every time, and the functions are different, but I found that I used it a few times and put it on the shelf, and I will buy it again next time I have this idea. There are most people who will go to ** in stages, every time they will buy a lot of exercise equipment with confidence before **, and finally find that the number of times they are used is a slap can be counted, and finally they are put there and can't be put there, but most people are reluctant to throw it away, and feel that they always have a day to use.

In fact, not only these kinds of many other items are like this, many things after you buy it back you will find that you use it the number of times is not high, I think in recent years the more popular renunciation is particularly not to make a mistake, throw away the excess things, give yourself a simple living environment, you will find that the more things you throw away, the higher your happiness index, it seems that this is indeed the case, all the things that can not be used in the future are thrown away, leaving more space for us to live, so that our lives become simpler.

As a finishing consultant, the most frequently asked question during the consultation process is - what should I do if I am always reluctant to throw things away?

Many people will say, our family just has a tradition of not throwing things, I can't do it at all, what should I do? I'm afraid that I will throw things away, and the old people in the family will blame me, what should I do?

When you encounter such a problem, first of all, I suggest that you can start organizing with your own belongings .

Because you have the ability to control your own belongings, you don't need to ask your family, and the psychological burden of throwing such items is not so heavy.

The second point is to determine which items to throw away, and then dispose of them once.

First of all, the first category of things that are broken and completely unusable can be thrown away with confidence. Most people have no barriers to discarding these items, unless the older generation wants to keep them and sell them for money.

The second category is items that you don't need now, and you don't know when you can use them. You might as well imagine that if you had to use it and you didn't have this item, would it really be serious? Is there an alternative?

In fact, there are very few things that a person really can't live without, and in most cases, we can live well without one or two things.

What's more, the ** of most sundries is actually not high. Throw away these things that are not needed, in exchange for a clean environment at home, we can calculate this account by ourselves. We tend to overestimate the monetary value of objects and underestimate the value of a good life and spiritual enjoyment.

There is a very interesting and thought-provoking sentence about abandonment.

I would say that there is still a difference, that is, it will still occupy the place in your home. You can think about the value of a sundry, and the ** of the square meter house occupied by this sundry, which is higher or lower.

Instead of throwing away one thing a day, find a whole period of time to thoroughly organize your belongings, and throw away what should be thrown away.

The good thing about this is that you will immediately see a huge change in the room, and the impact of that feeling of relaxation is very great. And the change of your room will affect your own mental outlook, and when your mental outlook changes, your life status will change, and it will naturally be able to affect your loved ones, and eventually bring about the overall change of the whole house.

Why don't you start sorting out the clothes you are most familiar with today!

There are a few steps you can take to dispose of items that you can't take with you during graduation season:

1.Categorization: Categorize items into different categories, such as clothing, books, stationery, household items, etc. This will give you a better idea of what you have to dispose of.

2.Keep important and careful items: Determine which items have special meaning or value to you, and you can choose to keep them. These items could be your souvenirs,**, important documents, etc., or items that you think will be useful in the future.

3.Donate or**: For those items you no longer need or don't want to take with you, consider donating to charity, schools, libraries, or others who need them.

4.Share or give: If there are items you don't want to keep but think they're valuable to others, you can choose to share or give them away with friends, classmates, or roommates. This not only reduces the waste of items, but also helps others get what they need.

5.Garbage disposal: Items that cannot be donated, ** or gifted, as well as items that are damaged or cannot be repaired, can be properly sorted and disposed of. Ensure that waste is disposed of in accordance with local regulations to protect the environment and public health.

When disposing of items that cannot be taken away, consider the actual value of the item, its significance to others, and the principle of environmental protection. At the same time, it is also necessary to plan the time and start to organize the state in advance, so as not to rush to dispose of the items in the end.