What should I do if I give up but can t give up ?

Before "parting" and "reluctantly", we must first consider a question, are those really necessary things? In fact, you only need to leave the "really necessary things" and throw away the things you don't need, so that there is enough storage space, and the storage and access of items is also easy and easy. Even throwing away something you never need can be confusing halfway through.

Divide things into "needed", "not needed", and "kept". Then take a good look at the "reserved" part. For people who are not used to throwing things, there will be a lot of "keep" things, and then you will have to filter the "keep" things again according to the following rules.

At this time, it can be simply classified according to the following conditions:

What you need: 1. Something that your family has used in the last year and will use in the future.

2. Although I haven't used it for more than a year, there is something that I am scheduled to use when I am scheduled to use it.

3. After careful consideration, I still feel that I can't throw away something.

Unwanted: 1. Anything that has not been used by the family in recent years and is not scheduled to be used.

2. Broken things, things that can't remove dirt.

3. Something that doesn't fit your hobby. Most things should be able to identify whether they are needed or not by this method. If you still "keep" some items that you can't choose, put them in a prominent place.

See if you will use it in 3 months. If it doesn't work, feel free to dispose of it as a "thing you don't need" and something you need.

Dispose of things you don't need, put things you need back in the storage room, and think about how to dispose of things you don't need. Disposal doesn't have to be discarded as garbage, and some things can be effectively recycled. New things, things that can be used, beautiful things can be given to those who need them.

It is recommended that you dispose of it through ** auctions, flea markets and thrift stores.

Those who pursue storage must have heard of the term "renunciation", which is to let us break what we never need and get more space, which is a new situation in modern life, but is this really suitable for our Chinese family? Basically, we live with children and the elderly in our country, and it is impossible to let go of them like that. So how to store the design appropriately?

Today we're going to talk about it.

A hallway. <>

Storage should also start at the door, but don't underestimate this space, it can burst out with magical effects that you can't imagine. By installing hooks on the wall, the hallway becomes a simple cloakroom, and with the addition of partitions, you can store a lot of small items.

Two living rooms. <>

In addition to hanging ** and decorative paintings on the wall, the decoration of the living room can also be equipped with partitions, or designed as built-in bookshelves, plus a variety of furniture with storage functions. You can even design a secret space of your own, so that the utilization rate of the whole space is much improved.

3 bedrooms. <>

Bedrooms are usually not very large, and there is really not much space left after a large bed is put down. Then we make full use of the big object of the bed and create a new world of storage under the bed. If you combine storage and bed, it is also a good experience.

Four kitchens. <>

There are a lot of things in the kitchen, and some bits and pieces such as pots and pans really need strong storage. Generally, we install cabinets, hooks, shelves, etc. in the kitchen. In fact, it can also be expanded and stored in places above and below the countertop.

Isn't it exciting to see these storages? If you are decorating it, you can try it, and you will find that this small space has such a powerful storage capacity.

"Giving up" is a kind of life attitude, which means to cut off and abandon all those things that are not necessary, inappropriate, and outdated, and cut off attachment to them, so that you can live a simple and refreshing life after "breaking away".

"Breaking Away" comes from the book "Breaking Away" written by Eiko Yamashita in Japan, which mainly tells the concept introduced by Eiko Yamashita, a Japanese sundries management consultant: Breaking is not buying and not collecting things that are not needed. Giving up is the same as disposing of useless things that are piled up at home.

Separation is equivalent to giving up the obsession with material things and allowing yourself to be in a spacious, comfortable, and free space.

"Breaking away" has been very popular in the past few years, and I often hear people around me talk about when they want to start breaking up. I don't know what it means.

Breaking away: By discarding and organizing things, the useless things in the heart are sorted out, and the method of making life happy. These three words** in yoga are "breaking the line", "giving up the line", and "leaving the line", in order to let people let go of the obsession in their hearts.

Breaking away is very much like what I said before about subtracting life and living a streamlined life. In our daily life, we are often obsessed with buying, buying, buying, and when we buy, we also think about cherishing and using them, but often we forget about them later and become waste that gets in the way. It leads to more and more things in our home, and then we face more and more annoyance in the face of tidying, and eventually leads to more and more chaos in the home, which is a vicious circle.

Now let's try to enter a new world. First of all, we need to figure out what is the essence of "renunciation"?

For example, if we want to clean up the room, where do we start? Tidy up? Receive? Or cleaning? You will definitely wonder, is there a difference between these three?

Storage refers to the act of "receiving items to a designated place".

Cleaning refers to the work of "sweeping, wiping, and polishing".

Sorting, on the other hand, refers to "processing". In other words, it is the act of judging that the item is no longer used and disposing of it appropriately.

Is it unexpected, and the organization in "disconnection" refers to the streamlining of needed items and removing the unwanted items from the living room. Therefore, moving unwanted items from the living room to the closet or wardrobe is nothing more than "moving things", which is a kind of cover-up.

Not long ago, I just transferred a book by the father of Japanese minimalism "I Decided to Live a Simple Life". Before the second-hand sale of Fu Chun, it was once our family's "holy scripture", and when we were idle, we had to look at it together, throw things, sell books, and make up for the Japanese drama "My Home is Empty".

After more than a year, I finally decided to give up on "parting".

The quotation marks are used to distinguish it from true minimalism, which is often few and far between, and this kind of self-disciplined, seemingly somewhat military-life-like, overly simple life is not a way of life that is acceptable to the general public. The reason why "breaking away" is so popular is that it has a solid relationship with the attractive and tidy room ** in related books, and at the same time, it is also widely popular because of the influence of the concept that "to avoid the flood of Xinheng and the dryness of the room, cleaning the room can also clean up the heart".

But in my humble opinion, the flood of information can not be cleaned up by throwing things, cleaning the room is not the same as cleaning the heart, only by really calming down to sort out your heart and thoughts, in order not to be affected by all kinds of mixed information. Breaking away may seem fun and easy to implement, but whether or not you can maintain the enthusiasm and self-discipline that you have been able to do over the years varies from person to person.

Buying a favorite item or developing a hobby is a matter of accomplishment by investing money, time, and related conservation measures. The more we invest, the greater the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment we get from it.

For example, to raise a potted plant, you need to buy the necessary breathable pots, you need to understand the habits of the plant, gardening tools and fertilizers are indispensable, so that when it grows strongly, the cultivator will feel the relief of "very hard, troublesome, but worth it". For example, buying a collectible, carefully maintaining it, buying a favorite collection of books, and then buying a book cover for it.

And the kind of misunderstood, only ** concise but gradually depressed "renunciation", has cleared the warm and enthusiastic side of life. If you just want to look good and be convenient, or if you seem to be "focused" on something, or even just to "save money", but in fact, you have basically given up or suppressed your enthusiasm for collecting interests...

Can it also be called a form of laziness?