I think I m selfish and I don t know whether to love or not

Updated on society 2024-07-01
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Now to explain ruthlessly, even if there is harm, it is better than the harm caused by delaying it until much later.

    Starting a family requires a material foundation, and I don't think it's a big sacrifice to like it a little. But I've always thought that if two people like each other to a certain extent, even if they have to suffer a lot together, they will feel very sweet. So the key is how much you like him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What kind of society is it now, it's all a material society, do you say you can live a good life without money? ? Can I support my wife and children without money? If you are married and still worried about your child's milk powder money, will this life last long?

    Because you want to spend so little by little, buy a good handbag and clothes or something, want to go on a trip every three months, such a simple request says that you have no money, and quarrel because of such a small thing, will such a love be happy??

    So, you don't have to say what a painful choice you made! Choosing matter, definitely not choosing a demon!! Even the gods have to eat!! What's so embarrassing!!

    If you don't always reject him positively, he will always be kind to you like this, love you, and there will be endless pain ... If you don't want to talk to him directly, you can find a boy to pretend to be a drag first, and let him meet!

    If you don't be cruel to him now, he will become more and more affectionate towards you in the future, and you will only hurt him even more! Long pain is better than short pain!!

    If you want him to be good, you have to be cruel to him now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Are you 18 or not? Have you heard a lot of questions about social reality, haven't you? So you think it's better to be realistic, don't you?

    Actually, you weren't. Isn't it? But because you've heard a lot of these questions, you're trying to be realistic, aren't you?

    Isn't it???

    So I'm telling you, don't waste the age of 18 ... Be sincere about everything. Don't just listen to what people say about how realistic society is... At your age, there's nothing realistic about it.

    People who say that society is very realistic are people who have experienced it. I really feel the social reality.

    So I ask you? What have you experienced? Have you experienced a love affair that you will never forget? Do you think it's great?

    Isn't it always about how hurt you are, right?

    Don't think I'm talking badly... I was 18 too. Have such mercy on yourself ...

    Now that I think about it, it's stupid. What is that injury? It's a shame to say. It's a big deal.

    So don't talk about yourself in front of others about how memorable your experience was ...

    Are you tired??? Tired? Who is not more tired than in the survival society??

    I advise you to live a chic life. Don't worry most of the emotional headaches...

    You're only 18. You're still young. What else do you have to complain about? This young should be the age when the stones are bitten and eaten. Don't complain too much about society. You just have to adapt. Otherwise, you won't be able to do great things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    18 years old, you can still talk about playing for two years, do you think he is single-minded? One will be you, the other will be your ex-girlfriend, jumping back and forth. Is this single-mindedness?

    The pain he spoke of was said by his mouth, and he had seen him commit suicide by cutting his wrists? Or are you depressed and your eyes are red? What he said is single-minded, and what he says is also what he says, you really believe it.

    also needs him to say that in his buddy**, "These stupid girls, as long as they use rhetoric, they can be deceived, and they can soak whoever they want." "Men who don't have money can only use this trick to satisfy themselves.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You did something wrong in the first place. He's also wrong, he doesn't understand you. You gave him hope.

    After that, you'll push him to hell again. Don't blame me for saying that, if you understand what it feels like him to fall from heaven to hell. It's long gone, he'll definitely leave, and maybe you'll leave too.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The twisted melon is not sweet, you are still young, only eighteen years old, and you still have a wide range of choices. Harm? What is harm, if you don't hurt him, do you choose to hurt yourself?

    In fact, you know very well in your heart that it is inevitable to divide it, and it is better to have a long pain than a short pain. He chose his ex-girlfriend, I guess you and his ex-girlfriend were also jealous back then, why didn't you choose you, and now they choose you again? It's clear that it's the next best thing.

    Don't belittle yourself too much, this is not called reality, the material base determines the superstructure, can a person who can't even satisfy the material base be better? It's not good to be a poor couple!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you really know what you want?

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