I know I like him, and he wants to be good friends with me

Updated on psychology 2024-07-01
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, it's good to be friends, and my advice is not to even be friends. If you have been a friend, you will not be able to deal with some problems related to him in the future, and if you are a stranger, then you and him may just know each other. Now he may find you when he feels empty in his heart, because you are the medicine in his heart, and your concern for him will make him feel that at least he is still loved and good to him, but it is not a good thing for you, it is very painful, I don't know how to be good, I can't understand whether he likes you, or only thinks of you when he is hurt and lonely.

    His connection with you is intermittent, which means that you are just a friend in his heart. If you still insist on dealing with him like this, then it is best for you to be prepared, his favorite is not you, even if you get together with him, what he does is a matter of superficial responsibility, and there will always be only one person in his heart.

    However, the final decision is to persuade you to continue like this with him, then you have to be mentally prepared for ordinary friends; If you let it go now, you might find your new favorite!

    It's hard to figure out people's hearts, and I feel that he wants to step on two boats, one and the other, but only one in his heart is his favorite!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I just want to say don't think of men with the mind of a woman.

    I've also liked one person, two cities, and haven't even met yet. (Don't call me stupid, because I know I'm stupid, in terms of love). Because of the gradual text messages, or online chats, there is a little ambiguity.

    I don't like to be ambiguous myself, but I allow him to be ambiguous with me because I think I like him, and he has revealed that he thinks he might like me. But according to my opinion, if two people like each other, they should meet each other and see how they feel about each other after meeting, and then they can talk about the next step. But I once asked him what he would do if he liked him, and he said it couldn't be, and said I had never seen him and teased him.

    Later, he said that he felt that he might like me a little bit as well. Then I asked him once, and I said why did you say it was impossible, did you have a girlfriend or someone you liked, and he said, "You just have me." And then said that he wanted to live alone, and this idea has been going on for a long time.

    And then it ended.

    You see that my thing is more broken than yours, both of them have a good impression of each other, and as a result, this guy said that he wanted to live alone, and he didn't even see each other, so he can be sure that he won't want to live with me.

    I don't dare to understand men's thinking.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You think he's probably getting used to it, so let's forget about it slowly.

    He may not have the intention of hurting you, or he may think that he should not avoid people who like him, and he may just talk about you later, as a joke.

    Maybe he's just because he's selfish, as the third floor said, wants to keep people who like him, so that there will be a replacement at that time.

    No matter what he thinks, the fact that he has a girlfriend is a fact that you should not remain addicted to fantasies.

    Go out for a walk more, go to some places that interest you, slowly forget that feeling, turn the past into memories, and leave that feeling in your memory.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems that he is somewhat fond of you.

    But because not in a city.

    People are very realistic right now.

    Since it's hard for you to come together, since he doesn't want to do that.

    I must have chosen to give up on you.

    You liked him before you liked him before he didn't have a girlfriend.

    And do you tell him in person, and by the time you say that, he's already got a girlfriend.

    There are too many people passing by in this body.

    Don't be so sad since he doesn't belong to you.

    You're sure you'll meet someone who belongs to you in the future.

    Live well Don't think about the past.

    I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He is selfish and wants to keep the people who like him, so that there will be a candidate at that time, and he is very selfish.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Esteem... Don't go on with each other ... When it is broken, it is broken...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Cut, greedy and hypocritical man.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, dear, friend, what emotional or psychological problems have you encountered? Please talk to the teacher, the teacher will help you analyze and provide you with the best help.

    Hello, dear, friend, what emotional or psychological problems have you encountered? Please talk to the teacher, the teacher will help you analyze and provide you with the best help.

    The friend you like, he said that he only treats you as a friend, that is to say, he treats you as an ordinary friend, and does not treat you as a lover, like this case, you better let it go, don't take him so seriously anymore, because he has never liked you, he has never treated you sincerely, he only treats you as an ordinary good friend.

    Love is mutual, if he doesn't love you and doesn't like you, why should you embarrass yourself and waste your time and energy to love him.

    Love yourself well, I believe that a sincere person like you will definitely find a love that truly belongs to you.

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