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Anonymous users2024-02-121. It is recommended to read more books to enrich the mind and increase the organization of thinking; Participate in sports to make yourself optimistic and confident; Stay calm and think rationally. Over time, a person's temperament will naturally change. Let your mind calm down first, relax and slowly improve yourself.
2. Do you find fault with each other? When you meet such a person, you have to deliberately find fault with him, target him everywhere, suppress him, and let him know that you are a tough guy. In front of the leader, as long as you feel that you are right, you should defend it, neither humble nor arrogant, and not condescending.
As long as people are not lazy, they can get a job anywhere. You can't hold your breath while you're alive. It's not worth being mad at yourself.
If someone makes you uncomfortable, you should make him unhappy too! It's called dealing with a man, just like he deals with you! People who live in this world are not easy to get into trouble, but they must not be afraid of things.
It is recommended that you make friends with domineering and kind people. Maybe they can give you some advice. I hope you can be brave, positive and optimistic under their influence!
3. Enhance strength and dare to face conflicts. It is impossible for people not to have contradictions. How to face conflict, how to resolve conflict, how to handle interpersonal relationships correctly.
It is something that can be learned, and it needs to be learned. Because when you were a child, your parents most likely gave you complete control and suppressed your reactions, so you only know to face conflict through this pattern. If you know, the experience of childhood, the control of your parents over you is also a lack of love for yourself, and some of their psychological needs are not met, thus passing on to you.
You'll know that they don't love you, it's not that you're not good enough, it's that they're also miserable and don't know what to do. Understanding the pain of others can make you feel safer and increase your inner strength. When everyone is impulsive and calm, when you experience more kindness, you will feel safer, and your inner strength will come back little by little.
It is to affirm yourself more and realize that after the conflict, it can be resolved, and there are many ways. Now, you've got it!
4. Insist on review. We always blame ourselves afterwards for why we can't think of an effective way to deal with it. In fact, this is a very good case of the opposite.
Think about it, look back, think about why you can't think of a good countermeasure, and what to do if you encounter a similar situation again. Keep reviewing and accumulate slowly, and your brain won't lose money.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11You can take the initiative to tell the other party what the other party has done, and then tell the other party that it is particularly incorrect, so that the other party will understand. You can directly reply to the other party. You should also reason with the other party directly, so that the other party will know that you are not a good bully.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10You should look for your good friends, you can ask your good friends to help you solve these things, or you can directly reply to the other person, don't be afraid.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09You can improve your social skills, you can communicate with others more, talk to others more, so that you can better respond to other people's problems.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You should strengthen your self-confidence, learn to reject and rebel against others, and improve your language skills.
Move him with your sincerity, let him know that you love him, let him know that you are guilty of cutting off contact with that person, and delete him in Q, I believe that if she really loves you, she will forgive you, and it is best not to step on two boats in the future.
If you like her, you boldly chase it, just like you said some of her logs or something, she also likes you, why can't the two people you like be together? It's better to work hard now than to regret it later, I suggest that if you like it, you can fight for it, even if you don't get forgiven in the end, at least you have worked hard, you don't like him to be too much contact with other members of the opposite sex, you can talk to her face-to-face, don't accumulate yourself, and finally erupted, of course, it is a volcanic eruption, the most important thing for two people together is communication, communication can avoid some unnecessary misunderstandings.
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Happiness is to strive for it by going through a lot of hardships on my own It's not that no one likes me But the people who like me are right in front of me But I set my eyes on -- the distant unknown horizon I have to look for and discover again And discovery is a difficult process I can only reach the other side of happiness if I keep moving forward and don't give up easily. Don't complain or even lose your temper with the people you love The people you love, including your lovers, children, parents, relatives and friends You are not immune to them Hurt a little bit They hurt, you hurt even more Exercising a little bit every day is good for your body Smiling a little bit every day is helpful for your mind It's responsible for yourself and the people you love Don't deliberately manage relationships Don't expect to get benefits from others Help people in need as much as you can Don't expect anything in return In this way, you will get closer and closer to the happiness you want Don't complain about the study or work you are engaged in Even if you make a little progress every day, it is a rare wealth The present is greater than the future The process is more important than the result Because being alive is more important than anything else A happy life doesn't care how long it lasts Even if it's a pulse stare between two seconds The old plane tree that can't speak will shake off the unhappy heart like a dead leaf Know how to control bad emotions Don't allow it to take root and sprout at will In the depths of your heart, or cold cheeks When you grow old quietly one day If you can still smile and laugh and talk about the past You will definitely look up and find - In fact, the glory of the meteor is only a moment.
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