What is the greatest misfortune?Do you know how many great misfortunes there are in life?

The world is bustling, all for profit" may be that we have understood since childhood that material things are very important, and we can live happily with a rich life. However, what the ancients did not tell us is. Even if the material conditions are not very abundant, as long as we have an optimistic and positive attitude, life will be very happy.

So even if a woman reaches middle age, she should not complain whenever she meets someone.

The family of origin can affect a person's personality and temper, and even happiness and security for a lifetime.

Some people have been in childhood all their lives, while some people have been in **childhood all their lives.

Some people are born in Rome, and some people never go to Rome in their lifetime.

We often see that parents are very harmonious, the family atmosphere is very warm, such children, growing up in love and care company, are easy to be satisfied and grateful, cheerful, generous, clear and correct three views.

Even if you are not rich, you can come home every day with laughter instead of accusations and complaints, which is a rare family atmosphere.

But there are also most families that are cold and violent, and parents complain to each other, accuse each other, and even transfer their hatred for each other to their children.

No matter how obedient you are and how good you are at studying, you are still the object of hatred in their eyes.

Such a child has lived in a family atmosphere of complaining and suppression since childhood, and his personality when he grows up is likely to be two extremes.

Either extremely strong or extremely cowardly, this is the grief that the original family brings to the child for a lifetime, and the painful memories that cannot be erased. Happiness is really the most important thing in life, and some people want to have happiness all their lives, but they can't help it.

You have to study hard, or I won't want you in a divorce. ”

You will be the first in the exam this time, and you won't copy someone else's. ”

Don't make trouble at school, our family's conditions can't be provoked, so bear with it if you have a problem. ”

Why are you so stupid, how did I give birth to something like you. ”

Why are you so ugly, so lazy, so not strong, who can want you in the future. "Some people spend their whole lives in the harm caused by the closure of the original home, but moral kidnapping, psychological repression and bondage, it is really difficult to spend a lifetime**.

A child from a bad background, a child with an unfortunate family of origin, he needs to spend his life exploring the clan and how to draw this happiness from real life.

The misfortune of the original family will make many people lose themselves, do not know how to love themselves, and even rely on others.

Such a person will fall into a dead cycle of self-blame and passivity for the rest of their lives, unable to get out.

The trauma of childhood has confused them and made them feel unhappy.

The most capable of defeating a person in a lifetime is not society, not others, but the home that belongs to oneself.

In many cases, home is not a safe haven that we think we think we are, but it can be the last straw that crushes us.

A great blessing in misfortune.

As soon as the wife came home, her husband said to her, "Today is a great blessing in misfortune." ”

The wife hurriedly asked, "What's the matter?"The husband said, "Our donkey is gone." The wife said, "How can you still be lucky?"The husband said, "Fortunately, I didn't ride on a donkey at that time, otherwise I would have lost it." ”

It's time for you to wake up, people up there!

Unfortunately, a lot of people died, so sad, fortunately, I wasn't in Sichuan, I didn't die"Say this and be careful of being struck by lightning!

The misfortunes in your life are (you have to face the reality), but the great luck is (you can choose your own life)!

There are three major misfortunes in life: the ambition of a young man, the flying windfall, and the birth of a wealthy family.

There is also a saying that the wheel belt stool lost his father (or mother) at an early age, his wife (or husband) in middle age, and his son (or daughter or son-in-law) in old age. But this is a natural disaster, and it cannot be controlled by man.

Juvenile ambition: There is nothing wrong with success as soon as possible, but juvenile ambition is often very dangerous, which means that it has not experienced the ups and downs of the world, it has not experienced social training, and it is easy to take things for granted, detached from reality, and juvenile and sought after, sycophancy, although you can get more resources and attention, but it is easier to develop bad habits such as youth and frivolity, no one in your eyes, etc., which will affect your future development. In the future, when faced with difficult circumstances, they will fall into a miserable situation.

Windfall: There is a statistic in the United States that 75% of lottery jackpot winners will go bankrupt. Flying windfall, will completely break the original order and rhythm of life, and it is easy to completely seduce the greed and material desires in human nature, squandering, once the windfall is gone, it is difficult for people to return to the original state of life, in order to have a squandered life again, it is easy to risk oneself and commit adultery.

And flying windfalls are easy to cause villains to covet them, and disasters will naturally come.

Born in a wealthy family: There are many grievances and grievances in wealthy families, and people from wealthy families have no economic concept since they were young, do not know firewood, rice, oil and salt, do not know the difficulties of life, and are easy to develop an arrogant character. Once defeated, it is completely useless, neither has long skills to make a living, but also does not know how to treat people with humility, naturally everywhere hit the wall, complaining about the sky.

Most of these people end up committing suicide or becoming a monk.

Coming from a wealthy family can give you a glamorous appearance, but it also blocks your way to truly understand life. People born in fairy tales have a hard time understanding the real society. The flowers in the greenhouse, which are not familiar with the world, are accustomed to being pampered, and they are easy to wither when they see wind and rain.

Heaven has given you a moment of beauty, but it has taken away the course of your life. Without a cold bone, where can the plum blossoms be fragrant.

Happiness in Misfortune Basic Explanation: Contains elements that can be comforting and rejoicing in the midst of calamity or misfortune.

Words are explained separately: unfortunate : sad, painful, disappointing: unfortunate news unfortunate ending. Sad and painful things: Misfortune Encountering someone is unladylike, it is already unfortunate.

Something that he didn't want to happen happened: unfortunately he fell off the list.

Daiko : 1A lot of luck.

1. Living a life of hunger and poverty.

2. Live an empty emotional life, such as no one to love, no one to love, not even sustenance materials, hobbies, and careers!

3. Not receiving a good enlightenment education, growing up without their own opinions, and having to be controlled by the most wrong thoughts.

4. A tormented life riddled with serious illness.

5. Fate is ruthless behind your back, constantly playing tricks, always making you struggle in inexplicable pain.

Life is not good.

And not hard.

One day to know lazy.

When people are alive, the money is gone, and when people die, the money is gone.