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When it comes to love, we all feel that love is the feeling of caring, feeling that two people are right, and if they love each other, they will naturally be together. But in reality, why do some people love clearly but don't get married in the end? In fact, there are a lot of practical factors.
That is, some people are suitable for a relationship, but not for marriage.
When a woman is looking for a husband, she often has certain standards. For example, look at the appearance, the appearance should be handsome, from the perspective of the family, the family conditions should be good, and from the perspective of character, the character should also be outstanding. When these conditions are not suitable, the woman will still marry him, probably because the man is good enough for him.
Because women tend to be more emotional when facing feelings.
In terms of finding a marriage partner, women are very rational in order to live in the future, men are also more rational, and men are relatively rational in finding wives, and often pay more attention to these important aspects: first, see if the exterior is beautiful, pay special attention to appearance, especially if a man says that he is not an appearance association, he must be lying. Because people pay attention to appearance, if a woman is too ugly, I don't believe that men can fall in love at first sight when they see it?
Second, look at family conditions. In fact, this is also a very real problem, when a woman is looking for a husband, she will first tend to the family situation. In fact, men are the same, and we also attach great importance to family conditions, but men don't say it directly.
Attaching importance to family conditions does not explain the person's materiality, but it is more realistic, a woman wants to find a partner with good conditions, and only hopes that her married life can get better. Men will feel that the pressure in the future is not so great, even if they don't look for good conditions, at least they don't want to find a wife who will pay for their mother's family after marriage. In fact, men are more rational than women when choosing wives, and as long as a woman meets these two conditions, a man can consider marriage.
If you can't be satisfied, a man will make a rational decision even if he has feelings, and he will not talk about marriage easily, and he may break up in the end.
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Most men are generally more rational when choosing a marriage partner, because they feel that if the woman is too powerful, it may limit their entertainment activities, so they must weigh the pros and cons and make a good choice.
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Boys will become very rational when choosing a marriage partner. Because they are very cautious, first of all, they like it, then they are kind and filial, and then they are simple to care for their family.
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Boys are indeed very rational when choosing a marriage partner, and there are many factors to consider, such as whether the personalities of both parties are suitable, whether they can accept each other's shortcomings, and the other party's family.
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Yes, because boys are inherently more rational and will think in a rational way, they will do the same when choosing a marriage partner.
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This is not necessarily, but boys will also be realistic, and they will also consider the future, such as whether the woman can help them in their career, or whether they are a good match with themselves.
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Yes, because everyone is the same, and they want to get it if they don't want to work hard, so in the blind date stage, it must all depend on the conditions.
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Yes, boys will be more realistic than girls, because boys will pay attention to the appearance of girls, pay attention to the looks of girls, pay attention to women's figures, and will also pay attention to women's families.
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Yes, boys are more realistic than girls, because boys think more about it, and if it is slightly inappropriate, they will definitely break up.
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Yes, when choosing a marriage partner, boys are particularly realistic, and they will choose girls with particularly good looks.
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Yes, because boys are more rational than girls, and when they get married, they weigh the pros and cons, and they always think more than girls.
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Yes, in real life, many boys think that girls are realistic, but I think boys are more realistic, and they will find a girl who suits them and has good family conditions.
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Yes. When getting married, especially when the wedding is going on, the part of the money is usually paid by the man, which will be considered more practically and take care of the feelings of many parties.
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Yes, and in the process of finding a partner, boys pay more attention to each other's family atmosphere, as well as the other party's family income, and they will not blindly start a relationship.
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Yes, and now both boys and girls are very realistic, and they will care about each other's conditions when looking for a partner.
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What are the most important considerations when getting married? First of all, it is necessary to be clear about what is the meaning of marriage? It is two people who love each other, from acquaintance, acquaintance, love, and then to each other, and they need a marriage ceremony to announce: I have found the other half of my life, married, please bless.
Give the relationship between husband and wife in the legal sense, take on the responsibility of birth, old age, sickness and death, and help each other. Marriage is not the grave of love, but a new journey for each other with the expectation of the future. In the future, no matter what kind of people or things we encounter, we will firmly choose to go on with each other.
Family background, personality, character, and three views may not only be a reason for marriage, but also one of the plus points for mutual appreciation and love? It is not against the need for a certain material basis for marriage, because no one can deny that "bread" is important, but it cannot be regarded as the whole thing.
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In fact, when most boys choose a partner, they will definitely choose a relatively simple girl to be with, and living with this kind of girl will make them feel a sense of existence.
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It depends on personal preference, if the man is more mature, he may choose the simpler, if the man is more simple, he may like to be more mature.
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They will choose the mature. Because mature people will think about things more realistically. And simple people, they don't deal with some life problems.
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They will choose simple, because mature women have more ideas, they are difficult to control, and it is more troublesome to get along with.
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Ripe. Because if the girl is more mature, there will be a lot less conflict between the two people. Family relationships will be more harmonious.
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So many boys can only bow to reality. And men are also a little more realistic than women, people say that women are realistic, in fact, many times money is beautiful clothes, gorgeous jewelry, and a good life for women, but for men, money is dignity and status, so it is no wonder that men will choose better conditions, maybe people want their sons to find a girl with bad conditions as a wife, and the son will not be angry in the future; Or people want their son to find a girl with better conditions, so that he can help his son in his career in the future.
<> even if the man's parents are opposed, the man himself will not give up and will try to convince his parents to agree. It still depends on how much the man likes you. Every parent wants their child to be happy.
It may be that the two of you will really not be happy together, so the man will give up after listening to his parents. If all aspects are suitable and loved, even if the parents oppose it, it is a point.
Generally speaking, parents in modern society, as long as their children are willing, will not interfere with their children's marriage, unless their son's girlfriend is very unpleasant, such as smoking and drinking, lazy and lazy, or unruly behavior, which is tolerable in the eyes of young people in love, and parents due to the influence of concepts, for the sake of their son's future, they will strongly oppose it, and long-term opposition will disturb and shake the boy's heart, causing a psychological shadow.
If the man is an only child and really loves the girl, as long as he dares to compete with his parents, who dares to oppose the momentum of the six relatives, the parents can only give in in the end. Why? Because smart people will know the mentality of their parents, the only pension insurance, who would dare not to?
Can't you get too old? This is also the main reason why most parents can't resist being an only child now, because their children have no parents anyway, and sooner or later they will go to work when they become adults, because they have to use their parents' money and are controlled by their parents, they can't find the girl they really like, and they can't protect their own women, let alone the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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No, when men get married, they generally don't weigh the pros and cons, because they just like the woman, so they marry each other.
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Of course, men will weigh the pros and cons when choosing to get married, and most of them will not choose the one they like the most, but choose the one that suits them best. That's where their rationality comes in.
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When you choose to get married, you will weigh the pros and cons, and if you find that marriage is not good for you, you will generally not get married.
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When choosing to get married, there should also be a trade-off of pros and cons, because everyone may think about their own interests.
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Well, as long as the girls are happy, nothing else matters!
I don't think that's the case, in fact, many girls don't care that they are a boy's first love, but like to find an experienced one, because they think that a boy with rich experience in love will be more attractive.
Men generally choose to love themselves, not to mention men or women, the heart is dead, get married, live, and choose a person who loves himself and loves himself knows how to be considerate of himself and will not let himself be so tired for a lifetime, if he chooses what he loves, he will be very tired for a lifetime, so he will choose to marry someone who loves him.
Yes, no matter who you marry, you will go through a run-in period, and I think the run-in period is a difficult time.