Are boys more rational when they choose to enter the palace of marriage?

When it comes to falling in love, we may all think that being in love is feeling. Two people feel right and fall in love, so they will naturally be together.

But in reality, why do some people obviously love each other, but in the end they don't get married? In fact, there are many practical factors in the world, in other words, although some people are suitable for falling in love, they are not suitable for marriage.

When a woman is looking for a husband, she often has certain standards, such as looking at her appearance and being handsome. Look at the family, the family conditions are better. Look at the character, the character should be outstanding.

Of course, when these conditions are not met, women will also get married, probably because men are good enough to themselves, and women tend to be more sensitive to feelings.

It may not be his personal idea, but it must be his parents' idea. First of all, if you find the wrong woman to marry, you will face some unnecessary troubles after marriage. In some TV series, we have also seen the story of "The Prince and Cinderella".

Most often, the Cinderellas will squeeze money out of the "prince" "at all costs".

Of course, Gao Pan, not to mention being richer than their family, estimates that they also have this idea, so they naturally don't look down on him.

When looking for a marriage partner, women will plan for their future days, whether they are doing well or not, men tend to be more rational, while men looking for a wife, feelings are one thing, but relatively speaking, they are more rational and often care more about these aspects:

Let's look at the appearance first.

People pay special attention to appearance, especially men. If a man says that he is not from the appearance association, he must be cheating, because people pay a lot of attention to sight. If a woman is ugly, I don't believe that a man will be tempted at first sight.

Of course, this does not mean that a woman must be beautiful for someone to like her. However, the criterion for a man to find a wife is to be a beautiful woman. At the very least, she should look pleasing to the eye and make people feel comfortable.

Therefore, women must pay more attention to their appearance, maintain more, pay attention to their figure, and don't let themselves be too obese.

I don't think so, they are not necessarily very rational, and some will make such a choice on impulse, so you have to distinguish clearly before deciding to get married.

A boy has always been more rational in the face of feelings, because his consideration of marriage is not only feelings, but also many external factors, and the responsibility of the man itself is heavier

Yes, most marital relationships are due to fit together, and marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families.

I think most of them are more rational, in fact, compared to reality, sometimes boys are more realistic and rational than girls. Because once they get married, boys have to take on the responsibilities and financial strength of the family, so there are a lot to consider. If the marriage partner can help his career, or help the family to go longer, in fact, the boy is still very willing to choose to enter the marriage in the case of himself, who may not like it very much, but is very suitable.

I think it should be, because just like you, you still have to think about other things, such as your family background, such as your education, such as your job, everything.

A man who is about to enter the marriage hall should have a certain sense of responsibility, self-motivated, and the sense of responsibility is that the man must have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and he must be responsible for the family when he gets married, love his wife, honor his parents, and be a good father if he has children in the future. Of course, self-motivation is because of the career prospects, men can be poor but not unmotivated, only self-motivated can continue to move forward, so that the career is getting better and better, in order to make life better and better.

Choose people with good character and a sense of responsibility.

Choosing marriage, you should not just see the other party's external conditions, or hardware conditions, such as how handsome the other party is, or the other party is richer, and has a few suites.

When choosing marriage, we should consider the other party's character more to see whether the other party has a sense of responsibility, whether they can sympathize with their wives, and whether they can be self-reliant, which is the most important thing. Break the old and pedantic concepts, as long as you are self-reliant, such a marriage is unbreakable.

If you just want a simple marriage, then as long as the legal conditions of both men and women allow, you can register the marriage and establish a marriage and family.

But if you want a happy marriage, then you need to be ready to start a family. When entering marriage, then you must abide by the promise of marriage, be sincere to each other, support each other, and be prepared to share weal and woe.

Since two people have met each other, fallen in love, and finally come together, they need the love and understanding that each other needs, and of course, tolerance. That is, knowing how to love someone, he can control his emotions, be able to **, and bear the consequences of his emotions.

He knows how to be self-disciplined, he will not infringe on your interests because of his superiority in one aspect, he has expectations for the future, the future is feasible, and you are in it. He is currently working for your future, and most importantly he can bring you happiness.

If two people are one high and one low, then one party will inevitably not feel respect, and this balanced relationship will be broken. The first person who shares the same goals and beliefs with himself, and is on the road to further progress, the happiness of entering marriage is within reach.

Because in a relationship, if there are always some common goals that you want to achieve in the future, people will have more ideological sustenance, no matter how hard and difficult life is, there is still enough motivation. Because of the companionship and reliance of the other party, such a marriage can develop harmoniously for a long time.

Most of us know that marriage is sacred, it cannot be mixed with any other impurities, and if a marriage has other problems, then such a marriage will not be happy.

I will choose a boy who truly loves me to enter the palace of marriage. I don't want him to be handsome, nor do I want him to be wealthy, because I believe that as long as two people love each other, they will be very happy after marriage.

A boy who has responsibilities and responsibilities, after marriage, life will be easier, don't worry a lot about yourself, he will help you solve many things.

I think that boys who can enter marriage should have three positive views, no problems with their character, have their own skills, take care of their families, and not pay too much attention to their appearance.

I will choose a person who loves me very much, the economic conditions are okay, the character must be good, our three views must be compatible, and there will be no particularly big differences in people to get married.

Self-motivated, good-tempered, three views consistent with themselves, as for the appearance, you don't need to be too handsome, the height can't be too short, you can look pleasing to the eye.

I'll choose a guy who is at least not too ugly, but must be nice to me, and I hope it's best that the two of us don't have too much difference in our circles, otherwise we may not have a lot of common topics.

If you want to choose an upright and kind, upright, and self-motivated person to enter into marriage together, if he can still have a little money, it will be the most perfect.

For the person to marry, I think that first of all, you must have a good character, not a bad temper, a degree comparable to me, financial ability, and of course, a healthy body.

The three views should be correct, self-motivated, down-to-earth, and it is best to love to learn new things. As for whether you have money or not, whether you are handsome or not, it doesn't matter so much.

Down-to-earth and hardworking, attentive to me, not allowing me to be hurt a little, not needing to obey my words, you must have your own opinions, and then be able to conquer me.

I will choose a boy with a sense of responsibility who has no disparity in status, who can share the financial pressure.

1. The comprehensive value is equal, and the status gap is not huge.

The last long-term partner should be someone who is similar to yourself, and you may be lucky enough to find someone one or two levels higher than you, but if your comprehensive value is too different, then the long-term relationship is often unstable. Because the union of marriage leads to a common life, a shared decision-making, and even a series of questions about the offspring.

People at different levels hold different ideas, if you have a big gap and can't communicate well, then there will be countless disputes waiting for you in the future, and the relationship itself is easy to be consumed in marriage, not to mention a small conflict in three days, a big conflict in five days.

Therefore, the value of men and women in a long-term relationship must be generally balanced, and the difference is not large, if the difference is large, the party with high value must properly know how to maintain each other's emotions and communicate patiently with each other.

2. Within the foreseeable scope of the future, the cost of living together can be borne together.

The ancients said: Poor couples mourn everything. For marriage, even if you don't expect to work hard for 20 years after getting married, you have to make sure that the two of you can at least do it together within the predictable range of the future, and the cost of living can be borne together.

It's not utilitarianism or money worship, I think it's just an attitude that is particularly responsible for the two of you and for this relationship.

Therefore, the value of men and women in a long-term relationship must be generally balanced, and the difference is not large, if the difference is large, the party with high value must properly know how to maintain each other's emotions and communicate patiently with each other.

3. This person has a sense of responsibility and the spirit of contract.

In fact, what is the so-called single-mindedness, caring for the family, loving the wife and other qualities, the most essential quality is a sense of responsibility and the spirit of contract. This person has a sense of responsibility, so that he will take on the responsibilities of the family and the other half, and will consciously fulfill the obligations that he should bear as a husband. This person has the spirit of contract, so he will be single-minded, not betrayal, and maintain this marriage with all his heart.

I will choose the one who loves me so much to marry.

1. At least there is one aspect of a man's body that you like.

Nowadays, there are many older women who have to find a man they don't like because of their age and pressure from their elders and society, which is actually very wrong.

If you want to marry a boy, then he must have at least one characteristic that you like, so that the marriage will have a base point, and through this base point, the relationship between two people in the future marriage can also gradually take root and become more solid. If you find a man you don't like at all because of your age and get married, then this kind of marriage will definitely be unfortunate.

2. This man has the ability to make money himself.

The society is getting better and better, people's ideas are becoming more and more open, and now women's independence should be said to be a very common word. So if a woman really wants to get married, she must also have this ability to meet the requirements of the man.

This ability not only reflects that the man has money, but can also show his sense of responsibility for his family and career, which can allow him to take better care of his wife, take care of future children, and take on the responsibilities that a man should have, rather than the kind of person who has no responsibility at all, so it is also very important to have the ability to make money, because there are many things that can be seen from this ability.

3. Be able to ask for your opinion and respect your men.

After marriage, many men do not discuss family matters with their wives, but only make decisions on their own. Even if the wife expressed her opinion, it was of little use. For example, problems in educating children, or problems in buying a house.

It is not uncommon for many men to ask women to give up their careers for the sake of their children.

Therefore, when choosing, when getting married, you should choose a man who can understand and respect yourself, so that you can have your own independent space even after marriage.

Choose a boy who has financial conditions and is very good to me, so as to ensure my future life.

I will choose someone who is good to me, has a good temperament, and at the same time has the ambition to work upwards and has certain economic conditions to marry.