Isn t the love that can t be married more cherished?

There is no marriage in love", often facing a kind of accusation and questioning:

Don't want to take responsibility? Is affection not enough? Can't you get married? Will they break up?

But today I would like to say that what is even more disturbing is the current situation faced by the vast majority of marriages

There is no love in my marriage. ”

Sad enough, realistic enough.

The last time I heard this comment was when entrepreneur Bill Gates divorced.

He and his wife, Melinda, have been married for 27 years and have been praised as "the most suitable couple" and "sensible and efficient".

Bill Gates himself has been proud more than once that "getting married is the smartest decision he has ever made".

With a seemingly harmonious married life, it cannot cover up the loopholes in the relationship.

Although it is often said that marriage requires impulse. But I feel that marriage is often seen as a "fast food" solution.

For example, it is used to end suffering.

Writer Alain de Botton soberly poked:

We hope that marriage will put an end to the painful domination of love in our lives. ”

Maintaining a relationship requires energy and mental strength. Get married, once and for all.

For example, it is used to end loneliness.

I've heard too much about the fear of living alone and growing old alone, and it seems like the expectation of marriage as well:

No matter how difficult it is to match life, there will be someone to accompany you in a double row.

There's nothing more lonely than living with the wrong people. ”

The love of not getting married does not mean that it is more cherished, but that it is easier to get along with each other.

It is too difficult to find true love, and I feel that most of the people who enter marriage are just more suitable conditions, or simply live to live, and there is not enough emotional foundation, which will inevitably lead to a decrease in the tolerance between two people for each other. I was born in the countryside....

The love that can't get married is likely to be cherished more, because the love that doesn't get married is because he can't get the other party, so he will cherish the relationship between two people more. Because in the minds of some people, what you can't get is the best.

Of course not, if you can't get married, there's no need to cherish it, because it's useless to cherish it! Since two people can't get married, there is no need to talk about it anymore.

Two people who love each other should choose to get married, because marriage is the protection of two people, and it is protected by the law.

I don't think this should be messy, because if it's a real relationship, then you definitely want to get married, think that marriage is the ultimate goal, if you don't get married, this love doesn't have much meaning.

It's true, sometimes two people can get married, but love is passing by your side. It feels like two people feel very sorry for each other, so they will cherish it very much.

It can't be said that the love that can't get married will cherish each other more, it can only show that their love can't stand the test, plus they don't know how to cherish each other, so they can't marry each other.

If they can't get married, whether they cherish each other more depends on whether they really love each other, if they really love each other, I believe they will cherish each other more.

Love is for marriage, is love that does not achieve positive results a failure?

If both parties have worked hard in the process of falling in love, and the concepts and attitudes of both parties are correct, both parties have enjoyed the beauty and sweetness in the process, leaving unforgettable memories and growing up.

Then such a love should not be called a failure.

I cannot get married. I don't think it's something that should be cherished. Rice is innocent and cherished love. Then you should get married. Therefore, when you get married, you also love and it is sincere love, as the basis of marriage. Such a marriage is a happy marriage.

This is true, if you can't get married, for some people, you must cherish this kind of love even more. After all, if you can't get married, it means that you can't be together. But if two people want to love each other, they can only cherish each other more.

Love that cannot be married should be given up, not cherished.

Marriage is the greatest guarantee of love, no matter what reason you can't get married, such an unsecured love is meaningless and should be given up.

What is the situation of love that cannot be married, if both parties are single, it is a pity not to be able to get married for other reasons, but if both parties have families. Because of unruly love, this is not worth cherishing

The love that can't get married doesn't mean that it's worth cherishing each family, since there is no result of love, I often persuade others to let go earlier, because I should choose my own right love, worthy love So don't always feel that what you can't get is beautiful.

The love that can't be married is not worth cherishing, because what people should cherish is everything they have around them, and their lover is the most cherished person, because the only person who can accompany him for sixty or seventy years in this life is him.

There is an old saying that what you can't get is the best, so the love that can't be married can only be hidden in the heart. Then he will cherish this feeling even more.

Hello, love that can't get married, it is recommended not to be together, because falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, maybe the other party never wants to step into the palace of marriage with you.

can't get married, why should you cherish it, many people may just have a playful mentality, and you can only cherish it if you go to get married, after all, falling in love is a lot of costs.

The love that can't be married is a love that has no results, and this kind of love can only be said to be a process.

It is impossible to be cherished, because the ultimate purpose of love is not that. Do you look good?

I think that as long as two people love each other enough, it is the same whether they get married or not, as long as they are two people, their lives will be cherished very much, and two people will supervise each other and make progress with each other.

If you can't get married, hey, of course, you have to cherish it more, because you can't give each other anything, you can only treat him with true love by yourself, and make yourself better.

Without the comfort of marriage, the freshness of love will always remain like this, which is not good for two people, and two people who love each other have to finally go to the palace of marriage and have the crystallization of their own love.

I don't think so, and I don't think that love that can't get married will not necessarily be happy, in my opinion, I think as long as two people really like it, so it should be cherished.

Why can't you get it, but you should cherish it? That is a kind of feeling or a kind of thought that many people who have extramarital affairs will have for their lovers. It can also be said that two people who love each other are embarrassed to get married, however, it refers to two people who have extramarital affairs.

If you know that you can't marry him in the future, then both parties should cherish it, cherish the time they spend together, and leave a good impression on each other.

The love that cannot be married needs to be cherished more, because our love is fruitless. So be doubly cherished.

If you are an unmarried, the love that cannot be married really needs to be cherished more, after all, it is more difficult to meet someone who is not married like you.

Yes, because I know that the love you can't get married is generally very short-lived, so you will know how to cherish it more.

In marriage, many men will also change. From an emotional professional point of view, men's thinking is result-oriented, they regard pursuing you as the starting point of their love journey, and think that once they are married, love will come to an end.

Therefore, many men are very invested in their partners before they get married, they are willing to spend money and effort for their other half, and they are willing to go to great lengths to be good to her. But getting married means the end of love for him, he will think that "you belong to me", treat you as his own, and ignore the management of feelings.

This sense of disparity will disappoint women.

Because women have a feeling-oriented way of thinking, they value the company and care of their husbands.

If she was so good to herself before she got married, but neglected herself after she got married, she won't feel love. I feel both aggrieved and painful, obviously married to each other, thinking that my partner will be good to me for the rest of my life, and I have planned the happiness of my feelings for a long, long time, and I never thought that my partner's attitude would change drastically not long after marriage.

I think marriage is a solemn thing, and we can't be sloppy, let alone compromised. If you marry someone you don't like, you may not be happy in this life, let alone happy.

1. In fact, love has an expiration date, so it doesn't matter if you marry someone you like, because even if you marry someone you like, you may not be in love for three or five years.

Although free love is now advocated, in such a seductive society, it is important to find a good man with three attitudes and a sense of responsibility, even if you like each other when you get married, but he may go off the rails.

Second, we often say that love is the foundation of marriage, no matter what, we still have to get married because of love, which is a beautiful vision, but in real life, not so many people are fortunate enough to meet love.

Everyone's view of love is different, and when they are old, they will compromise on marriage, they are married, but there may not be love in marriage.

In fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Fourth, there is no heartbeat in the relationship, there is no appreciation of each other's advantages, and there is no emotional foundation, so you will not pay for each other unconditionally, because the purpose of this marriage is to live together from the beginning.

You will have very little tolerance for each other's shortcomings, and the relationship will soon fall into a situation of quarrels and cold wars, and you will not admit defeat to each other, and gradually the only little love you have will be worn away.

The deeper the love, the higher your expectations will be, and you hope that he (holding her) will develop in the direction of your imagination, everyone has their own thoughts, so there will be contradictions in repeatedly asking for and asking for them, so there will be contrasts, how much you love and how much you hate each other, just represent my personal view of Bi Shuqing.

Loving deeply doesn't mean it's a good fit, it's just some of our own thoughts, sometimes we have different ideas, and it's understandable not to be together.

No one will feel that the person they love is not suitable for marriage, and this is not absolute.

In an era when there is no love, what kind of love is there to talk about?

It's nothing more than a change of interests and bodily fluids, finding the other half who suits your own high size, and living a simple and plain life.

Those who have never been in love, those who have never been married, all want love, if they are really married, they have seen through human nature, and they don't know what love is.