What types of families do boys grow up to have a hard time finding a daughter in law?

There are four types of families that find it difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the future: families where parents interfere too much in the marriage of their children, families with poor family conditions or major hidden dangers, families where children lack a sense of responsibility, and families with conservative or discriminatory family values.

1. Parents interfere too much in the marriage of their children.

In traditional Chinese concepts, parents have a great say and influence on their children's marriage. They tend to choose or evaluate their children's partners according to their own preferences and criteria, and even forcibly arrange or oppose their children's love or marriage. Although this practice is motivated by parents' concern and expectation for their children's well-being, it ignores the children's own feelings and wishes.

2. Families with poor family conditions or major hidden dangers.

In modern society, although love is the foundation of marriage, material conditions are also a factor that cannot be ignored. A family's financial situation, housing conditions, health status, etc., will affect the stability and happiness of the marriage. If a family's conditions are poor, or there are some major hidden dangers, then it will be difficult for them to attract high-quality daughters-in-law.

3. Families where children lack a sense of responsibility.

In traditional Chinese culture, children have the obligation of filial piety and respect to their parents, and they must also have a sense of responsibility and responsibility for themselves and their families. But in modern society, some children lack these qualities, they do not respect their parents, they do not care about the family, and even have some bad behaviors.

4. Families with conservative or discriminatory family values.

In modern society, people's values and lifestyles have changed a lot, especially in some large cities and developed areas. Many young people are no longer stuck to traditional marriage patterns and family forms, but pursue their own individuality and diversity.

The impact of family conditions on marriage:

1. Economic pressure: If there is a large gap in family conditions, it may lead to economic imbalance and burden. If one family's economic situation is better and the other's financial situation is poor, then it may cause dissatisfaction and stress on one party and may even lead to marital crisis.

2. Social circle: If there is a large gap in family conditions, it may lead to different social circles. A person's social circle can affect how well a couple gets along and communicates with each other.

If one person's social circle is more elite and the other's social circle is relatively simple, it can lead to communication barriers between couples.

3. Educational background: Differences in family conditions may lead to differences in educational backgrounds. If a person has a better family situation, then they may have a better education and a wider range of knowledge, while another person may not have such an opportunity.

This can lead to linguistic and cultural barriers.

Boys born in single-parent families or families that are spoiled by their elders may have a hard time finding a daughter-in-law when they grow up, because many of these boys will have no sense of responsibility.

Born in a bad family atmosphere, parents often quarrel, more patriarchal boys in these families, it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law when they grow up.

Born in a family with more brothers, a stronger mother, and a family with a discordant relationship between parents, it is difficult for children who grow up in these families to find their other half.

The family is relatively poor, there is no sense of responsibility and no sense of responsibility, the child is not independent at all, and he is a mother's boy.

1. The child is withdrawn; Withdrawn children are very fragile in their hearts, they are afraid of being hurt by others and afraid that others will ignore them.

2. Children are selfish; Some boys, since childhood, have been selfish, always want to keep everything for themselves, always think about themselves, once they have interests with their friends, they can immediately turn their faces and deny people, only care about their own food and clothing, it is really difficult to find a girlfriend when they grow up.

Very withdrawn, very selfish children, children who like to swear, children who are short-tempered, these people will grow up to be very incompatible with other people.

Personality is more withdrawn; selfishness in many things; Bad temper.

I always don't like to talk to others, I'm shy, and then I don't like to play with girls.

I have a relative who is almost 30 years old, and he has been on a blind date for several years but has not married a daughter-in-law. At first, I felt very strange, because this relative was good-looking, his family background was not bad, and his job was stable. Later, I learned that his inability to marry a daughter-in-law had something to do with his personality.

He is a big man, and when he sees his blind date, he is like a stuffy gourd, and he doesn't say a word. Therefore, other girls suspected that he didn't look down on themselves, so they stopped contacting him.

Some people may say that a man like a relative can't marry a wife who deserves it, and he has problems communicating with himself, and women are not stupid and are in a hurry to get married. Actually, what I want to say is that many times whether men marry or not have a daughter-in-law has a lot to do with their parents. Most of the boys who grow up and can't marry a daughter-in-law have such parents.

Habitually demanding that children be submissive to themselves and placing too much emphasis on parental authority.

This relative of mine lives in a family where both parents are very strong and domineering. Parents say one, he can't say two. It is said that when he was young, he was strictly supervised by his parents as much as he ate each meal.

As long as his parents let him eat the amount of food, he didn't finish it, and his parents wouldn't let him go out, even if he was about to be late for school. Of course, the domineering of relatives and parents is also reflected in all aspects of life. Because his relatives and parents have asked him to be sensible, obedient, and obedient since he was a child, he cannot challenge the authority of his parents.

Therefore, when relatives grow up, they always give people a feeling of reticency. In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, he is also not likable, so he has never been able to marry a daughter-in-law.

Patriarchal and discriminatory against women.

For many years, this relative of mine has not been able to marry a wife, and it is estimated that his parents are making "contributions". I heard that this relative of mine, in the process of blind date, actually met two promising partners. However, the parents of the relatives clearly told the woman that after marrying their son, they must have a boy.

He also said that for every boy born, how much money would be given to her. In the end, as you can imagine, the woman was scared away. Think about it, what woman would want to marry a man whose parents are patriarchal and discriminate against women.

Unless you're stupid, jump into the fire pit yourself. Therefore, the marriage of relatives is delayed for longer and longer, and it is very difficult to find a partner again.

He likes to interfere in his children's lives.

The parents of relatives, in order for their relatives to get married early, actually bought a wedding house for their relatives a long time ago. At the beginning, there were also girls who felt that their family conditions were good, and they had an independent marriage room after marriage, and their days after marriage should not be bad. However, the parents of relatives said that as long as their son gets married, they will buy another apartment in their son's community and be neighbors with their son, and they will also take care of the big and small affairs of their son's family in the future.

As a result, the woman was not happy when she heard it. Marrying into a family that likes to interfere in the lives of its children has no freedom at all after marriage. Therefore, a good marriage is also yellow.

Such a family environment is that parents dote on their children very much, obey their children in everything, and such children have no opinions, like a mother's boy, and they are not very successful in their careers, and such boys are destined not to marry a wife.

The family environment is more powerful, everything obeys the mother's opinion, and the "mother" man is more "mother-in-law", this kind of boy is not popular with girls, so it is likely that he will not be able to marry a daughter-in-law when he grows up.

Being pampered from an early age, never doing a little housework, having a strict family education, and not having a free growth environment will cause boys to have no independence and autonomy, and it will be difficult for them to marry a wife.

The parents have a bad reputation, and they are all famous people in ten miles and eight towns, and no girl is willing to marry a man with such family conditions.

Most of them are single-parent families, and whether they are boys or girls from such families, their own personalities will have certain flaws and they will be more selfish.

The second is family disharmony, and families with a lot of quarrels have a great impact on their children.

Finally, there are relatively poor families, and boys will be busy making money to support their families, and they will not think about marrying a daughter-in-law.

went to Fangfang to talk about things, and when I saw her children, they looked so cute and knew how to be polite. Seeing that I praised a few words, Fangfang said: "It's the same at home, it's the same at school, it's not cute at all, the opposite sex is not good at all, it's hard to find a wife when you grow up!"

I don't know this brain circuit a little, and the child is still so young, so I began to worry that my son can't find a daughter-in-law. I told Fangfang, don't think about it, boys with bad relationships with the opposite sex have these characteristics, and it will not be easy to marry a daughter-in-law in the future.

Boys who don't seem to get along well.

In general, people like to get along with people who are kinder, and such people will make people feel comfortable with them. Therefore, boys with bad relationships with the opposite sex, sometimes, give people a feeling of rejection thousands of miles away, and their faces seem to say "Don't come near me". In a group, he has difficulty fitting in, is always serious and likes to be alone.

Of course, such a boy just said that it looked difficult to get along, but what it actually was like would not be known until they got along. However, for such boys, many girls are reluctant to take the initiative to approach, so there are few opposite-sex relationships. If the child at home always gives people a bad feeling, parents may wish to take him out more, let him communicate with people more, and make some friends, which is very beneficial to his growth.

Boys who don't look good.

People have the pursuit of beauty, and to know a person, you must start with your appearance. Average-looking boys, if they pay attention to taking care of themselves, they will look more temperamental and more liked by the opposite sex. If you look average and are very sloppy, it is generally difficult to attract the opposite sex, and the relationship between the opposite sex will be worse.

Good looks are naturally an advantage, but judging a person's quality can't just be judged by their appearance. However, appearance is also a business card, and if you don't pay attention to image management, it is difficult to attract the opposite sex. Parents can pay attention to the cultivation of image management when the boy is young, and usually let him read some magazines with clothing or usually go out with him to buy clothes, wear clothes, and pay a little attention to appearance.

Boys who don't respect women.

At the end of the day, if a boy doesn't respect women, it's hard for them to like them, and they won't be favored by them. And such boys always feel that they are very good, thousands of times stronger than girls, and like to show off and boast, which will make women reject from the bottom of their hearts, and they will not be willing to approach, and the relationship between the opposite sex will not be good. If you don't want your child to grow up to be such a boy, parents should let him learn to respect from an early age, especially to respect different women, take care of women, and boys who know how to respect women when they grow up will be more popular, and the opposite sex will be good.

Parents who have boys in the family should pay more attention, and if there are these characteristics, they must be educated in time, and don't regret it when the child grows up.

People who don't like to communicate with others very much, can't speak, are more angry, and are very lonely and withdrawn. That is, it is not easy for more extreme people to find a wife. Because there is no way for such people to get along for a long time.

I only listen to my mother's words, and I never care about my girlfriend's feelings anymore, I have no opinions and my emotions are too irritable.

I think that first of all, there are boys who don't look good, then boys who don't look good, and finally boys who don't respect women.

Don't worry, because the birth rate is only one aspect, and having a boy or a girl is by no means up to the parents, so there is no need to worry. Theoretically, after a successful conception, the probability that the fetus will be male or female is half the time. However, in real life, some parents deliberately choose the sex of the fetus, which creates an imbalance in the sex ratio between men and women.

From the point of view of human evolution, it is reasonable to maintain the sex ratio of the population (based on 100 females) between 103 and 105. That is, it is normal for the male population to be 3 5 more than the female population, because the accidental mortality rate is higher for males than for females.

There is a saying that there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. There are many things that cannot be changed by just one or two people, and there are also the benefits of having a boy. Judging from public information, the sex ratio of men and women in China in 2017 has risen to more than 30 million more than the male population than the female population in 2018), this increase is indeed a bit too fast, so it is likely to have a certain relationship with the liberalization of the two-child policy.

Even when the boy reaches the age of talking about marriage, in fact, there is no need for parents to be too anxious, and it is no problem to find another way. Our country has a relatively large population base, and if the sex ratio of the population is not corrected in time, the male population will increase, and then transnational marriages will become more common. In the long run, this will benefit the evolution of the human race.

Because in this way, there will be more probability of giving birth to a mixed-race child. And now the concept of young people has changed, but they like girls more, many people are not born with their first daughter, and boys try their luck to give birth to one.

Although the current situation is indeed more men and fewer women, it is indeed unfounded to worry about the future of the child who will not find a daughter-in-law. In general, the current high birth rate of boys is related to our traditional consciousness. The idea of "patriarchy" is true, but not all.

It is believed that in the future, the ratio of men and women will gradually balance science.