In this society, it should be career or emotion first

I think it depends on the individual, and I know that this society is really realistic, just take me as a new college student. I can already feel the hypocrisy of people very deeply, of course, not everyone is like this. However, such a reality is felt in the first year of college, but what about the real society?

I think it's going to be even more brutal, so for me personally, career is much more important than feelings. I'm not saying that love isn't important. We know that there is still a lot of true love in the world, but not everyone will meet it.

I still remember my teacher told me that if you do a good job, even if you don't have love one day, you will have a career that makes you proud and you won't be lonely. However, if you don't have a good career, if one day you lose your so-called love, you will have nothing. At that time, you will feel that the world has abandoned you, and life will truly lose its meaning.

I think you're thinking too much. Although your statement is realistic, it is not absolute. Some of the people I know are like what you say, and some are not.

It's up to you to grasp the feelings. If you don't develop your career, you have to rely on yourself step by step. There is no such thing as a free lunch.

So I think you still have to be down-to-earth and take it one step at a time. Whether it's a career or a relationship!

Say: Grasp with both hands, and both hands should be hard.

On your own terms!

Relationship and career are very important, and the specific and important depends on your personal pursuit. But most people are not faced with the situation of having to choose one or the other.

More importantly, you need to coordinate the balance of family, feelings and career, rather than ignoring your career for the sake of your feelings and ignoring your family for your career, which is more irresponsible.

What I want to say is that only those who take care of both are successful people, and it is not advisable to have a good career, emotional failure, and emotional success, career failure. A person's happiness is at both material and spiritual levels, a good career can bring you considerable economic income, enhance your material satisfaction, good feelings can make you spiritually happy, enhance your spiritual satisfaction, in essence, a good marriage and a happy family.

It also has a huge impetus for the development of personal career.

We can make an abstract analogy of career and feelings, compare career to meat, and compare feelings to vegetables, meat is certainly more nutritious than vegetables, but a person who eats meat for a long time without eating vegetables will cause high blood pressure.

Problems such as obesity, heavy burden on body organs, and a person who only eats vegetables and does not eat meat can also lead to insufficient fat and malnutrition.

and so on. Of course, the above I said to take care of feelings means that two people have been together for a long time, each other knows each other well enough, if the relationship with the other party is not very good or the time together is too short, not enough understanding, it is recommended to give up the relationship decisively and work hard for their future.

If you have a stable relationship with your lover and the other party is willing to wait for you, it is recommended to make appropriate concessions in your career, so that within a few years, you can have a good harvest in your relationship and career, surpassing many people around you. Giving up a long-standing relationship and starting from scratch on this path is, in essence, very difficult and full of uncertainty. So Zeng is young, grasp everything you can grasp.

Which is more important, love or career? In fact, I already have the answer in my heart, and of course it is a career.

"I sincerely know that everyone has this hatred, and poor couples mourn everything. ”You are excellent, both parties look at you with appreciation, and the two of you grow together to gain freshness and strength. A person without ego is terrible, he throws all his heart and soul into the other person, worrying and worrying about the other person's worries.

Love is something that can be met but not sought, but I believe it exists. All I should do now is take care of myself and work well. Don't let yourself blindly be with another person because of age and loneliness in your heart.

Life is short for decades, and I don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. The most important thing is to make yourself happy. Waiting for the right person to accompany you to the end, then what I have to do now is to work my career and wait for him to come.

When you meet a good person, you will start a family, if you meet a noble person, you will be self-reliant if you don't meet a good person, and you will cultivate yourself before you meet a noble person.

There will always be people who choose love, and there will always be people who choose careers, no one is wrong, and there is no fixed answer to happiness.

But those who choose love, please remember never to lose yourself in a relationship, you must be yourself, you must have the ability to make money, because money is the confidence.

Fan Deng once said that the time of love is time-limited, and what really defeats many marriages and defeats many beautiful feelings is mismatch.

I have always firmly believed that no matter what the relationship, it is only by being evenly matched that it will come to the end, and if one person is attached to another person, looks up to another person, and wrongs himself to please another person, then the relationship will not last long.

Behind all feelings are the support of interests, and the so-called relationship breakdown is actually the lack of benefits you give.

Do not abandon conscience on the way to make a living, and do not give up dignity on the road to love. Whether it is to make a living or to seek love, a woman must let herself have the ability to earn money, and live without being dependent on anyone, in order to live out the life she wants! Whether it is spring and white snow, green vegetables and tofu, we all have the ability to treat it as a kind of enjoyment and live out our own value.

The most beautiful love, I think it isTolerate each other, understand each other, and chase each other, because they are equal, so no matter how fast they run, they will not leave each other behind, not the attachment of the weak to the strong, but two evenly matched people come together, and they usher in a bigger world.

May everyone be treated gently by this world, and may your eyes and hearts be full of love. May you have weakness and armor, may you bloom like a flower, may you always bloom undefeated!

Career and feelings are important, if you have to choose one, then choose a career, because only what you have is the most reliable, although love is intoxicating but not necessarily reliable, but it is your own no one can take it away, but the lover may say that it is gone.

In this way, if there is someone you like, and the other party also likes you and plans to marry her, it must be emotionally important, otherwise it is better to develop your career first, after all, your career is still very important.

Of course, the career is the most important, the career is the foundation of everything, the career has, the wealth will also have, then it is not bad for a happy feeling.

It's all important, don't have to give up one or the other, balance the relationship between life and work, you can grasp both.

In this fast-paced society, many people put all kinds of emotional needs last, career first, and be ready to work at any time. So are you that kind of person? In the future, will you regret this kind of business-oriented dedication?

First of all, what is the purpose of our work? The most obvious answer is definitely the practical question of making money, raising a family, living, etc., so what is the second meaning of a career? It is the realization of self, the embodiment of self-worth, and the search for the value of self-existence in the society, which is spiritual satisfaction.

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve. Similarly, if you're happy with the job now and have a good future prospects, focus on your work. The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time.

Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless. You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

Some people's whole life is for work, some people, work for a better life, to improve the so-called happiness, the work itself is not so important, what is more important is what can be brought to you behind the work. Marx put forward an important theory in sociology: the economic base determines the superstructure, although Lao Ma does not recognize the principle of sociology that natural selection and survival of the fittest.

We always hope that our future can become better, but we are not willing to invest a lot of time in the career we like, then in the end it will become the same as others.

Life and work always appear together, the two are inseparable, life is interspersed with work, work without losing the career is the winner of life, and we are pursuing this state and wealth all our lives. Do you have any other comments or suggestions on this topic? Or do you have any other experiences worth sharing?

Welcome to discuss.

Is career or relationship important?

I think the two go hand in hand. No career, no money to support love, for men career is the first, and for women the emotional foundation is the most important, but in my opinion or career is more important, career is the foundation of love, no career, no material security, no matter how beautiful, no matter how pure love will be problematic, because in this world, in addition to their parents will be 100% good to themselves, the rest of the people will change, will change because of the material, please believe, career is more important, Of course, love is also important, but there is no foundation for a career, love is realistic, love that is not full will not last long, love is not marriage, marriage can not be done, let alone love,

This depends on whether your career is important or your relationship is important in your heart, and you should choose what you should choose, you can't have both, whether you pursue your career dream or cherish your current emotions.

Relatively speaking, this thing is not difficult, career and emotion are very important to life, emotion will affect the life of a lifetime, career is the material basis for a happy life in the future, in fact, working in Xi'an does not affect emotion, what is the job of your girlfriend, she can also work with you, see the intention to stick to their own decisions, let the girlfriend live in Xi'an together, this is also for the happiness of the future life, so this does not affect the family, think about the transfer of enterprises and institutions is very common, between prefectures or across provinces is the same reason.

Life can not be tacitly followed, to find a breakthrough in ordinary life, it is not a wise choice to choose to break up for the sake of the career, if the emotion is chosen to separate for the sake of the career, whether the emotion will still be tested.

For life, for the cause and for love, there is nothing wrong with working hard for the cause, as a lover, you should support the people who work hard, no matter in **, because of the career and separation is just an excuse, a happy life must be hard work to have, for love can give up the short existing life and pursue better living conditions together.

Both are equally important, but learn to balance them!