I can t afford the life my girlfriend wants, what should I do?

There is no way. You're her ATM. If you can afford it, you can give it. If you can't afford it, just bye-bye, love is more realistic.

You can't afford the life your girlfriend wants, I think it's your girlfriend's problem, after all, it's not about falling in love, it's all about boys.

When your economic level can't support it.

If your girlfriend wants to ask for it, it means that it is the other party's problem, why don't she buy what she wants.

As you meet her requirements one by one, she will demand more and more from you to the point where you will not be able to bear it.

So it may be that there is a problem with your three views, and you must protect your money in your relationship.

For such a woman, you should have broken up a long time ago, she is a particularly materialistic person, and she never thought about going to the end with you at all, she is only with you because of your money, and when she can't get what she wants from you, she will leave you without hesitation, rather than this, it is better to let go early and stop losses in time.

If you can't afford it, then make it clear to him directly that you don't have that much financial strength. Let him make his own decisions, if he accepts you now, then he will be good with you, don't ask for excessive money, if he doesn't accept it, then he can only break up.

Member consultation: Brother Black, my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year, and there is no conflict, she suddenly told me that she wanted to leave me, saying that this is not the life she wanted, I didn't refuse at the time, so I agreed directly. Later, I made an appointment to meet again, although it was still the same as before, Qingqing and me, but she was very firm and said that I couldn't give her what she wanted, what do you say I should do?

The black cloth replied: Brother, let me tell you this, you shouldn't ask her out again, understand?

This is consuming your feelings for this rolling year, and it will be very bad for the future, understand?

You said that there was no contradiction, but you could only say that you didn't find it, and she didn't tell you directly, there must be a contradiction. She can suddenly offer to leave you, it's not a whim, the quick collapse must be well thought out, understand?

But there is no doubt that there is still a relationship, otherwise she would not have been asked out by you to continue to be intimate. Right?

In short, there must be something wrong with your relationship, and it's useless for you to run away, you have to face it. lest it develop to the end and it will definitely be cool.

You can tell her this, I know, since you have decided to leave, it means that you are definitely not happy now, and this life is definitely not what you want.

I can only apologize, for a year, I didn't realize it and thought that we were all right, that I was wrong.

I also understand that you must have thought about it for a long time before you made up your mind.

Although, I would love to go down with you, I will still respect your choice.

I'm scared, one day I can't help but come to you again, I need some time now, we don't want to contact during this time, I want to be alone.

Note: When you talk to her, you should send it sentence by sentence, not a whole paragraph.

Then, you have to calm down and officially cut off contact with her.

I'm sure she'll come to you soon, you know?