My boyfriend, who has been in love for 6 years, has changed his heart and hurts

If the breakup is because the man has changed his mind and is tempted by other girls, then I don't think it's worth waiting for this man, waiting and consuming it will only make you more heartbroken, learn to stand up well, let him see that you will be very happy without him!

From your words, between the lines, I don't see how your heart hurts.

Judging by this, I think you should have happily agreed to his proposed breakup conditions.

Then I think it's only a matter of time before the two of you are separated, or let's end it. A person who is so easy to empathize with and don't fall in love is really not worthy of your care and love him anymore.

He is simply a flower Tai Sui, he is attracted to everyone of the opposite sex, and his heart must be moved hundreds of millions of times. In fact, you know these truths in your own heart, but you don't want to come out. Such a man is not worth your effort!

Falling out of love is the only way to mature emotionally, almost everyone will experience it, think about the good things, your world will be more exciting than the original without him, and time will dilute everything!

Men are the most cheap animals, when will they be able to speak!! We demand independence.

Since he said to break up, there is no recovery.

That's what men are.

There is no need to redeem it, I have been in love for 6 years, and I should have a deep relationship, but I have changed my mind at this time, which means that this man is not worth entrusting for life.

There is no need to redeem it.

Because he has been in love for 6 years, he can suddenly change his mind, which means that he doesn't want to be with you for a long time, he hasn't married you for 6 years, and he has changed his mind, which means that he has never thought about marrying you in his heart.

There is no need to redeem it, a man who has changed his mind cannot be recovered, and after 6 years of getting along, the other party has changed his mind, which means that he no longer cares about the existence of this relationship, if you still go to redeem the other party, the other party will only play Tai Chi with you.

There is no need to redeem. 6 years of youth, 6 years of time were given to him, and he actually changed his mind. Such a man has no sense of responsibility. For the sake of your future life, it is more appropriate to leave as soon as possible.

Six years is too long and it's a pity not to get married, you can try to redeem him, Kenneng is just a momentary ghost, you can give it a try, after all, such a long relationship is in, it is impossible to let go easily.

There's no need, 6 years of relationship can change his mind, he may really be able to put it together for so long, and his feelings are very deep, so there is no need to redeem it at all.

Hello, you have been in love for 6 years, your emotional foundation should be very good, and there must be a reason for the sudden change of heart, of course, it is necessary to redeem it.

There is no need to redeem it, although you have been in love for 6 years, your boyfriend has changed her mind, and her heart is not in you, no matter how much you keep it, it is useless.

It is necessary, because it has been 6 years of relationship, and it is not that you can give up if you give up.

I think it is necessary to redeem it, otherwise those 6 years of youth will be wasted.

I have been in love with my boyfriend for 5 years, and now my boyfriend has changed his mind, it is recommended to communicate about what this matter should be, and then decide what I should do, don't pretend not to know, otherwise I will be hurt in the end, but don't break up decisively, because I will regret it after the breakup. <>

1. Communicate first.

After all, two people have been in love for 5 years, if you know that your boyfriend has changed her mind, don't decisively choose to break up, otherwise you will only fall into suspicion after that, thinking that you have been in love with each other for so long, and the other party is still distracted, which is not fair to the next relationship. It is recommended to take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend and listen to the other person's thoughts, but don't blindly believe the other party, it is very likely that the other party is just lying to yourself, so stay rational. If the other party just feels that the two people are not suitable for being together, or the relationship between the two people is not as good as before, then it is recommended that you take the initiative to break up, so that you can also leave the last face for yourself, and you will not regret it when you think about it later.

Don't pretend not to know, because your boyfriend has changed his mind for the first time and for the second time, so when you get married, only you will be hurt, not the other party. <>

2. Relax your mind and choose to break up.

If the other party does not change his mind for the first time, but finds out for the first time, then he can only say that he relaxes his mind and chooses to break up. Don't let yourself be hurt because you are reluctant to have this relationship, after all, there is only deception after being with this kind of man. Don't feel that you are not good enough, the other party will choose to change your mind, you must not think so, this will only make you more and more frustrated.

thinks that this man is not worthy of you, so you can break up in time and let this relationship end completely, and it is not worth it to be sad for such a person. <>

In the end, most boys can't get it back after they change their minds, so they can communicate in order not to leave regrets for themselves, but after communication, it is still recommended to break up, so that they will not regret it.

I think we should break up decisively, the long pain is better than the short, since the pain has found that the other party has changed their minds, they should break up decisively before they get married, because each other's hearts are no longer together, and they will not be happy after marriage.

should break up decisively, since you have changed your mind, there is no need to persist any longer, otherwise it will only be yourself who will be hurt.

should break up with him in time, every relationship should be a two-way street, if he doesn't care about this relationship anymore, he should separate in time, so that he is good for him, don't try to move him with his sincerity, change his mind.

You should break up decisively, after all, the two of you have been together for a long time, and if you continue to be together, you are just wasting your time.

Judging from your description, your boyfriend has changed his mind, and the reason why he said he would marry you is probably because he can't completely forget about his 7-year relationship, people are emotional animals, but now he has very little feelings for you, as for whether you can save him, let's talk to him. If your 7-year relationship can't make him forget "that she", then even after you get married, you will experience a lot of variables.

Alas, once a man changes his mind, it is wrong for a woman to cry, it is wrong to be quiet, it is wrong to breathe, and it is wrong to die.

He's a man who doesn't let go of the bowl and the pot, so you'd better share it with him.

In the future, such things will emerge endlessly.

Unless you can stand sharing a husband with other people.

It's easy to leave, but it's not easy to do. If you really love him very, very much, if you were me, you would definitely not give up and marry him. Since the 7-year relationship between you and him can be forgotten by him, then I don't think the relationship between him and another her will last for 7 years at most.

Of course, having said that, I'm a very realistic person, even if I catch him desperately, it depends on whether it's valuable, and the value I say definitely doesn't mean feelings, feelings have been given up, isn't it, hehe. Another thing to look at is the character ability, if he is perfect in other aspects, then you don't give up so easily, love is a very illusory thing, and reality is the most cruel. If he doesn't have any other merits that he can afford to take, then it's better for such a man to stay away as soon as possible.

Measure it yourself.

In addition, since he also said that he would marry you, it means that his feelings for that woman are not deep, which is for your reference.

Who is the most often deceived by people? It's yourself. Who is the most difficult person to deceive and succeed?

It's yourself. How can a person continue to stay in a painful relationship? The way is to make it "reasonable", the man changes his mind, and you have nothing to do, comfort yourself and say that as long as he is still with you, it will be OK.

But how long can it be ok? How long can you fool yourself?

Just imagine, is such a man who has no responsibility for feelings still worthy of your love? What else can you expect him to take on in a relationship in the future? Ask yourself, how can a relationship that even you are not optimistic about be good?

I know that you are very painful, and your "not easy" is that you are unwilling to admit defeat, in fact, your heart has never forgiven him. I don't like to say how it should be, the only thing I think is the worst thing is to be reluctant to be together.

Is your affection for him now in love or dependence? Do you still have the power to sustain your relationship? What else is there that binds you to him securely?

A sweet past alone? Relying solely on the panic of "losing the one in front of you, who knows if there is a better one"? What kind of responsibility does it depend on, morality?

If you want to live a happy life, you must be responsible for yourself and have responsibility, that is, you must choose for yourself. Knowing that he is not the right person and is wrong, he still doesn't dare to make a choice, which is irresponsible to himself.

Whether the relationship is good or not, the key is to have similar values. Your differences are that you can't communicate spiritually, have different values, and have completely different ideas about life, can such a person have a harmonious and happy marriage with you? Stop kidding yourself.

The result of 7 years of love, one is to get married, and the other is to break up. Both are common.

I just wanted to ask you.

Even if he marries you, you get married.

Do you think you'll be happy?

If the answer is no, it's better to let it go sooner rather than later.

Girls, sometimes you have to behave chicly.

No matter how many grievances there are, I am reluctant to give up.

You can't show your weakness in front of someone who no longer loves you, and you can leave some dignity for yourself to the end.

Maybe this result isn't what you want.

However, bystander Qing, I think his love for you is so pitiful that it seems that he is still dating you and saying that he wants to marry you.

But there is still a connection with others.

And that's not fair to you.

I wish you happiness.

Since he has no feelings, he only marries you with the so-called responsibility, how long can this sense of responsibility be maintained? How long can a sense of responsibility without feelings last. Face it strongly, don't let him think that you are a burden, so that his heart is more biased towards the other.

If you can't be together, it won't end well if you drag it out. If you can't do without him, then you can only accept his results.

Could this be the legendary seven-year itch?

It's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, so let him go.

The second floor is right, men have changed their minds, women can't be entangled, so that men feel that you are very annoying, why not let go easily, you will meet better, no one is inseparable from whom, the sun still rises.

Let her go, if a woman is passive from the beginning of her marriage, then how will you control your life in the future, and the fruits of victory will not necessarily be yours after your man becomes famous, rather than wasting her youth on a person who doesn't love you, it is better to move forward bravely. All we can say is that he's not the right guy yet.

What is yours is yours, and it is useless to force it if it is not yours. Let him go, the next one will be better ......

Left, of course, and silently.

What's bad is your current situation, your distress, but fortunately you are not married and have no children.

There is still a seven-year itch when you are married, not to mention that you are not married, you have not had an easy life in the past seven years, but there is one thing I don't understand, why didn't you get married before you were 26 years old? You're old enough to get married, aren't you?

You didn't say anything about your situation, it seems that he has a good job, is it that you have not been working? Shall he feed you two on his own? If yes, I guess your lack of a job would be one of the reasons for the breakup. Women also need to be independent on their own, and they can't rely solely on men.

There must be a reason for his change of heart, there are his own reasons, have you thought about your reasons for this? Why did other women attract him away? By what?

Young and beautiful or family conditions? Or can it play a decisive role in his promotion? Didn't you notice any signs before?

After all, we have been together for seven years, and you can communicate frankly about what caused this result. You can make a final effort to see if there is a chance of recovery, and if not, just let it go.

The consequences of a breakup should not be borne by one person, but the damage suffered is certainly different. I understand your reluctance and your unbearable pain, but you should not feel pressured by his betrayal, on the contrary, this is what he proposed, you should be the most deserving of support, and the last thing you should be able to punish yourself for his mistakes.

People are born, old, sick and die, and even their dearest parents will eventually leave them. You're not married, you're not related by blood, and although you've been together for seven years, you've been with your parents for 26 years, and you're not going to be able to leave him, if it's not possible between you.

You may say, I'm not you, I can't understand your feelings, yes, all other people's opinions and suggestions are floating clouds, the final decision is still up to you, all the pain needs to be borne by yourself, what we are saying is to be able to make you understand that you can live without anyone, there is no need to die for an ungrateful person.

The sun will rise tomorrow as usual.