My girlfriend has become my sister in law, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-24
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it has become a fact, then you have to think about it and face it calmly, because in the future, we will all be a family, and we will not look up and look down. Only in this way will we be able to live in harmony in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's really no other way. Let it be. Bury your feelings. Find someone you like the most all over again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's an established fact, you can only accept it, and if you can't face it, it's a few times rare.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's already become your sister-in-law, you admit it, do you still have an idea?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Live in harmony and cherish each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you will marry her mother! You'll definitely be able to take advantage of it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since your girlfriend has become your sister-in-law, then you should keep your duty and treat her as a sister-in-law. Don't think about it too much, the wood is already in the boat, and there is no way to get it back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your girlfriend has now become your sister-in-law, so you accept the reality. After all, feelings are the joint efforts of both parties to achieve happiness. The fact that she chose your brother on her own proves that she doesn't have deep feelings for you enough.

    You have to adjust your mindset and emotions to accept this reality. Don't allow yourself to live in disappointment and pain. Start your new life again, and your other half will appear when the fate arrives.

    Every day after working hard is to truly free yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay to be awkward with your eldest brother and sister-in-law, because it's your brother and sister-in-law. , you take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and they will forgive you. Everyone will make mistakes, so we must face them bravely, bear them bravely, and admit them bravely.

    Sincerely admit your mistakes, communicate well with your eldest brother and sister-in-law, it's okay, I believe they love you. Your girlfriend doesn't want you, so don't be too upset. There is no grass in the world.

    The most important thing is to adjust your mentality, adjust your goals and goals, and always have a direction and goals in life, so that you can have a head. Girlfriends will naturally have too. Therefore, it is not necessarily a good thing to suffer a little more setbacks when you are young, if you look at it correctly.

    Good luck, friend. Adopt it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is no longer the source of all goodness. Regard people as not, the root of all evil. You look for problems from yourself! Solve the problem, don't wait until the problem solves you. Train the concentration that a man should have to solve the problems you think!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Have a good talk with him, as I say about my friend's wife, don't bully, it's all bullied to you, make it clear to my brother, it can only depend on which of you is more powerful! ~!Good luck.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At first, for the sake of face, you may think that friends are more important. But actually I think both are equally important, a friend is someone who has helped and comforted you throughout your life, and a girlfriend is your significant other. Don't abandon one or the other.

    If you really want to; If I had to choose between the two, I would rather give up on myself than let either of them grieve.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Two choices, either quit or separate them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to find a way to resolve their conflicts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Listen to the analysis of the two sides, but your sister-in-law's words are not very easy to talk about her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You won't have a better relationship with your sister-in-law than you have with your cousin, so it is only natural that you should tell your cousin about this incident, for the sake of his lifelong happiness. I don't believe that there is anything pure about extramarital affairs, of course, if you are afraid of hurting your cousin, you can pay attention to strategy, and disclose this matter to him tactfully, you can think for yourself, I don't have a girlfriend yet, and I can't handle this relationship matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let's tell your cousin, but show evidence, don't let your cousin misunderstand, if you don't get divorced, let your cousin decide.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    But also think about it, if you talk to your cousin, you're more likely to get divorced.

    But it doesn't work if you don't say it. Let's talk to your sister-in-law again and learn more about her and the man.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe your brother knows, don't be bored

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, personal advice to call your girlfriend out first.

    Then you go in and apologize to your sister-in-law and tell your sister-in-law not to be like your girlfriend.

    For your girlfriend, you have to coax more. Thank you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Whose fault is it? Both sides are to go and coax...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can try to say: agree to her moving in, this is for your girlfriend's sake, but life is inconvenient, and you have to find another place to live, such as a colleague's house, a relative's house, or rent another room for yourself. See how your girlfriend will react this way.

    If you can't understand her, explain your feelings to her, reason with her, and educate him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Go out to work, and move out when you earn money.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You proposed to get married, and you agreed to be a family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As long as you have a good time.

    My sister-in-law will never be in your house for the rest of her life, and when people are in trouble, she can help them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I can do this!

    I feel like you should talk to your wife.

    It's not a big deal, after all, but it's not a small thing either.

    Now you, if that's the case, it's really inconvenient, and if your wife comes, it's much more convenient.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Just say it directly, if you really don't want to come, there will still be a problem then!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find a job for her sister-in-law to stay in someone's room

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