Why am I so good, but no boy likes me?

Maybe it's not that no one likes you, it's that you don't notice the people who like you.

Generally, people who think they are very good, what they see in their eyes and think of psychologically are people who are better than themselves, and they ignore those who you think are not very good. Among them, there may be people who like you very much.

Another point is that excellence must also communicate with others, let others know that you are excellent, let others see your excellence, show yourself more, and communicate with others.

Child: You're only in junior high school, and you want someone to chase you and someone to write you love letters.

Hey, I really don't know what to say, today's children, you are in adolescence now, and it is normal to have such a psychological phenomenon.

But you have to control yourself now

You're only in junior high school, and now is a good time to read.

You have to make good use of the time you can study

Otherwise, I thought you would regret it!

As for why no one is chasing you, I guess you're thinking too much.

Maybe the people who want to chase you belong to the kind of people who are silent

Are they people who are not good at expressing their feelings?

Hey, you'd better read a good book now! Don't overthink it!

There are some people like this around me.

Moreover, it may also be because you have a more cheerful personality, the opposite sex regards you as a pure good friend, if it is a girl, sometimes you can be a little weaker, but the boy has a feeling of pity. If you are a boy in a weak country, it is very important to be gentlemanly.

Communicate a lot, chat online or something will be a good tool. You also have to learn to be brave and not too reserved

That's it, huh.

Good luck.

Maybe you're too good to put the boy under pressure.

Wrong, it's a lot of boys like you. But I don't dare to love you.

It's gold that always shines.

The information shows that you are a man, are you gay?

<>. I. I'm busy with work and don't have time to fall in love.

The excellent boys we are talking about, most of them refer to their own superior conditions, rather than relying on their parents in exchange for a sense of superiority, such boys don't have much time to think about personal problems, always busy, working overtime, hoping to make their work better, such boys know that they can only get everything they want by working hard to earn money, I know a handsome guy, he is good-looking, just like some people say, obviously you can rely on appearance, but he has been showing his ability, His family background is not good, however, when he was in his 20s, he started a company that he set up, which can be said to be self-employed, and now has dozens of employees and an annual income of millions, but he usually has no time to find a partner, and he is dedicated to his career, he said that he has to work hard, he doesn't want to do anything else, he is excellent, and there will be more and better girls waiting for him. Even if his family is anxious and introduces him to a partner, he rarely goes to see him, his career is in its infancy, and he feels that he can't have time to go on a blind date.

Second, excellent boys have higher requirements for the opposite sex, and it can also be said that they are more picky, so many will have no object.

Another reason is that often excellent boys, all aspects of the conditions are very good, in the choice of the other half will also be picky, this is also human nature, such boys have capital, many girls hope to be a partner with such a person, excellent boys also have a higher vision, there will be a little requirement in terms of body appearance, and more importantly, to talk to themselves, have a common language, will not casually find someone to fall in love and marry, they hope to find a person who is really suitable for themselves, Talk about a vigorous love, but often pick and choose, and in the end it's more than 30, and there is still no result, is there such a boy around everyone?

Because these boys may be more demanding, no one can meet their requirements, so there is no object.

It may be that these boys are very demanding, or it may be that the conditions of these boys are particularly good, and many girls feel that they are not worthy, or that these boys do not want to get married.

It's because they're very good, and then they feel like they're not close to anyone, plus they have high requirements for their other half, and they haven't met a particularly suitable person.

If you like a very good guy, but the other party doesn't like you, what to do, let's talk about your opinion.

First of all, we have to know whether the other party likes you or not, you like a very good boy, what if people don't like you, first of all, this sentence can reflect that you are a little unconfident, how do you know that people don't like you? According to psychology, when a person likes someone, the other person can feel that you like it. You feel the same way you feel about the other person, and the other person feels the same way you do.

It's like a blank sheet of paper, and no one has pierced it.

Falling in love with a guy who is better than you seems to me to be a normal thing, and anyone likes someone with good conditions. But if you are troubled by this, then try to be yourself, only if you also fall in love with yourself who is so desperate and confident, then he will have a chance to find you in the sea of people.

But if the other person doesn't like you, you won't get any emotional response, even if you put in more love and effort. The other party can only sympathize with you, and you have lost your dignity and pride in front of him. Love is two people's heart-to-heart, two people's heart-to-heart attraction, and it is not binding.

Knowing that the other person doesn't love you, you can't practice your feelings, be kind to yourself, take care of your emotions, put away your feelings, travel light, and you will meet a better version of yourself and the most beautiful love.

Think it's best not to confess because once a girl confesses, you are already in a passive position in the relationship, whether the two of you are successful together or not. He doesn't think he needs to care too much about you because you like him, you can't leave him, and you'll take the initiative to go to him. Girls, if a boy really likes you, he will be more impatient than you are with your feelings for yourself, because most boys are action-oriented and what is too easy to get will not be cherished.

Hide this love in your heart and turn it into motivation to improve yourself. He I like him very well, and I want to be good, and I want him to appreciate me and like me. Don't be too heavy about gains and losses, which will make you very uncomfortable.

When you have someone you like, and you don't have a lot of gains and losses, I think that feeling must be that your heart is filled, and you don't have a kind of happiness.

All that goes into mind is the best thing to do.

Then work hard to improve, make yourself better than him, today he loves to ignore it, and he will not be able to climb high in the future.

I will try to improve myself, make myself better, both physically and mentally, love myself first, and then let others love me.

Then I will try to make him like me, but if he really doesn't like me, I will give up, after all, people don't feel for me, and I can't force it.

That's what you think, let the girls think you're good.

This person is not ugly or not, but whether you are attractive or not. Especially attractive to girls.

Why? You shouldn't wait for girls to like you, but take the initiative.

Hehe, I'm depressed too! Dude, let's both die together.

Either you're too honest, or you're not humorous enough, or you're too obscene or something, annoying. That's it, figure it out for yourself.

Haha, that's an interesting question. This is a bias in self-perception. This bias can come from many sources, and different backgrounds will have different biases.

To give you a simple example: social feedback. I didn't have many setbacks growing up, and it was always going well.

Everybody was nice to me. I think I'm an easy and popular person because everybody treats me like that. I went on a date with you today, and you didn't show any disgust, so I assumed that you, like everyone else, had an initial crush on me.

Haha, everything happens subconsciously!

There is nothing unfair about it. It's all about the different pursuits of each girl. Some girls like to pursue glory and wealth, and only have money in their eyes. But some girls like to be sincere and self-motivated, rich or poor. And I think the latter is more discerning.

I'm a girl, and to be honest, everyone sees things differently, and a lot of times my friends around me have boyfriends who are also unsightly to the rest of us. Appearance is also important or not, because people who don't know you must judge you by your appearance at first glance, and the laws of society cannot be changed. Think about it, will you reject a girl who is not good-looking at the bottom of your heart at first sight?。。。

Actually, you don't have to rush. It's all yours. If you have what you like, chase it, don't give up, you can meet a few people who look pleasing to the eye in life...

Finally, I wish you a very fast end to your singleness

Are you satisfied with the above?

Summary. Hello, judging from this question alone, he should be very unconfident, and always hopes to gain confidence from others.

Do you always think I'm good? Am I outstanding? Is the boy who pursues me excellent?

Hello, judging from this question alone, he should be very unconfident, and always hopes to gain confidence from others.

You can give him appropriate encouragement.

yes, how do you know.

It was evident from the questioning.

Generally, people who are not confident will ask others all the time.

Because women have men who like to pursue at any level, but there is a difference between good and bad.

This may have something to do with the ratio of men to women in our country.

It's like Wang Sicong looks at the women he pursues, whether they are beautiful or not, they are all rich women, Wang is rich, and he must be rich when he dates women, just like Wang Sicong looks at the women he pursues, whether they are beautiful or not, they are all rich women, Wang is rich, and he must be rich when he dates women.

This is because everyone's circle is different.

Because Wang Sicong is rich, his friends are basically rich.

Yes, that's how you can understand this truth, just like Yao Ming and his wife, they are both giants, and the children born to him will definitely not be lower.

Well, that's right.

Genetic factors.

So the rich circle is all playing high society.

It is normal for circles to determine the quality of friends.

So am I rich? Is it excellent? So am I rich? Is it excellent?

What about your circle?

If your circle is full of rich people, then you are not bad either.