Why don t I have a lover but I don t have that feeling of love anymore?

You're so tired! Psychological inequality: Feelings should be sweet and mutually beneficial, not just one-sided like you.

Maybe one of the parties will pay more in the early stage of the relationship, but if you want to go far, both parties must give, not like you said, she only loves herself. Time washing: There is also a fresh period in love, and no pair of lovers can stay in love from beginning to end.

And what is needed for the time after falling in love is mutual understanding and care, and many people can't do it, so they separate. Even if it's been two years of love, it's going to be a lot duller, not to mention that you've been giving unequally. It's normal to feel pain.

Personal advice: talk to her once, say what you think, and see if she really loves you! If she's willing to change, start over!

If she still loses her temper with you and thinks that your contribution is due, I advise you to let it go. A woman who doesn't understand other people's efforts will not think too much about others. As you can see, she only loves herself.

Why do you have to pay hard and not respond, if you want to pay, you have to find someone who is worthy! Ay.

I'll make an analogy and you'll understand.

For example, one day you willingly give 100w to others, but when you need this money one day, you imply that someone turns a blind eye, and you explicitly indicate that someone tells you that he has no money now, and even if he has money, he can't give it to you!

That's how it feels. Because you borrowed money to lend money that you shouldn't have borrowed, now you understand??

Money can be recovered through legal means.

And it feels like spilled water, if the object loves you, it will naturally know how to join hands with you, and if the other party just borrows your harbor as a sheltered passerby, then the person who will hurt you in the end is you!!

Break up without feelings, don't delay your future and her, breaking up is good for both of you, rather than waiting until the future to regret it, it is better to be decisive now, by the way, I didn't want to say it, she should also be very unhappy, I advise you to find your true lover as soon as possible.

Without feeling, there will be no love. Love is a synthesis of happiness and sorrow Love is sweet and painful I don't know why, is it not immature enough or I am too simple, I have tried hard many times, but I can't get rid of it.

You also said that after two years of ups and downs, if she didn't love you, she might not be by your side for a long time.

Because I'm used to the feeling.

Is it visual fatigue? Or is it that the personalities of the two people are not in harmony?