In a long distance relationship, my parents don t agree, my boyfriend has no money, I simply can t l

I advise you to give up! First, I'm not optimistic about long-distance relationships. Second, although money is not the main thing of love, without money, love is difficult! It's time to let go, let it go, while you're still young and youthful, and pursue your dreams!

Then do something and keep yourself busy.

When people are full, they will forget their feelings.

Otherwise, the long-distance relationship will not end well, and sooner or later it will be separated, and don't be thrown off by the time.!!

Since ancient times, love words have been the most difficult to understand, and this kind of thing has to be followed, and there is no need to force it.

It depends on whether your boyfriend is worth it! If you can be happy in the future, you will persevere; If you feel hopeless, give up.

I just can't let go of my feelings, what should I do.

You can use two simple words yourself, but you have already made a decision in your heart, why are you so hesitant?

Are you so unconfident that you can't find a better one than him?

Some things will only hurt people if they drag on, and there is nothing good to come of.

If you don't want to separate, why can't two people go to the same place in different places, and they are not willing to give up their location means that their feelings are not deep enough, what else to say.

When I saw it, I was angry, and I had nothing to do.

There are things that can't be done, and they have to be done.

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Hello, if you really love him, you should support his decision, after all, you are together for two people, and if your boyfriend really loves you, he will think about your future. Regardless of whether you are together in the end or not, you should not regret your choice, since you have chosen to be together, then it is good to cherish each other and not let yourself regret it.

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My boyfriend has no parents, and the family doesn't agree to be together, and I can't bear it, what should I do?

Good afternoon, good conversation!

The reasons for parents' disagreement are: 1. Parents. Parents think more about it, they will think that if you have children in the future, without your mother-in-law to help take care of the children, without the help of your mother-in-law and father-in-law, your life will be very hard.

2. They will consider your boyfriend's situation. Your boyfriend's economic conditions should be average, and your parents are afraid that your married life will be too stressful, and they also want you to have an easier life.

Solution: No, my boyfriend's dad is gone, his mom is still there, and he has an older sister who is married.

1. Communication. If you really can't bear your boyfriend, then your boyfriend is also a more responsible man and is also very good to you. Then you have to communicate with your parents, communicate well with your parents.

Dear, your boyfriend's family situation is average? What's his mom's personality like? How is your boyfriend treating you? Is it a mom boy?

Dear, because these questions are considered by your parents, can you tell me about the situation in detail? I can help you better, okay?

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My home is northeast and my object is Hebei.

My boyfriend is not a mom.

Dear, you are marrying far away, so your parents don't agree, right?

Kiss, if you want to marry your boyfriend. Here's some advice: 1. Sit down with your boyfriend and talk to your parents.

Let your boyfriend talk, give your parents an attitude, be good to you, never let you be wronged, promise to come back to see your parents several times a year, can give you living conditions, etc. Let your parents see your boyfriend's determination and sincerity to marry you.

2. Negotiate with your boyfriend. Buy a house on your side of the house, be closer to your parents, and if you can, accept your boyfriend and mother to live with you. This solves the problem of marrying far away, and also solves the problem of worrying about his mother.

3. If you can, find a wife for your mother-in-law. Because after all, it is not convenient to live with you for a long time, and no matter how well your parents take care of you, it is not the same as your wife. This should also be a concern for your parents, who are afraid that you will live together for a long time and have conflicts between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

First of all, you feel that with this boy, you have to see if he is self-motivated, whether he is working hard for you, if he has room for development, and works hard enough, you can tell your parents with practical actions that he is a worthy person, if he is not like that, and he is not self-motivated, I think I still listen to your parents, but this is just a suggestion, and the final decision is in your hands.

1. Relatively speaking, the time that parents can accompany us is short-lived, even if you follow their arrangement and marry another boyfriend, or will you leave them in just a few days? And they will slowly grow old and leave us slowly and completely, and the husband is indeed someone who can really accompany you to old age, so this person must be chosen well.

2, in fact, we all know that our parents are for our good, but the general's words are not necessarily right, it does not mean that parents will not be kind to do bad things, is your boyfriend good? Are you compatible with him? Only you know, because it is you who have lived with him for a lifetime, not your parents who have lived with him for a lifetime, so it is useless for your parents to be optimistic, the question is whether you are optimistic, and there is that a man is good, only a woman next to him knows, in other words, only you know, your parents have never been with him, how do they know if he is good or not?

This person is the person who will accompany you for a lifetime, what your parents say doesn't count, you have the final say, you must choose well.

3. Parents do not agree, usually there are three reasons, 1) It is too far, I am afraid that my daughter will be wronged if she marries so far, and it is inconvenient to go back to her parents' home. In fact, if you think about it, where is it inconvenient to go with the current traffic? Farther it is, it is to go abroad, that is, two or three days away.

Afraid of being wronged, if you marry far away, you may not be wronged, and if you marry close, you may not be popular, some marry the same village, not three days of two-headed fighting, will you be wronged, the key is to see how this man is? So, you must choose this person well.

2) is the family is poor, in fact, I personally feel that money is not necessarily happy, and no money is not necessarily unhappy, health-centered, chic, confused, forget money, forget fame and fortune, have a companion and a nest, a little money and friends, simple love, real pain, a little warmth, a lot of peace, happiness is just so, besides, the key is not to see whether his family has money, but to see whether he has the ability and desire to make money, no matter how rich the family is, if he is not angry, sooner or later it will be ruined, If he is self-motivated and has the desire to make money, then the current poverty will be temporary, at this point parents should look farther, not just look at the present, at least should not beat people to death with a stick, so the rich and poor are not looking at the family, but looking at people, so you must choose this person well.

chose a boyfriend from other places, and chose to separate from his parents! Your parents can't bear you, and they can't rest assured of you! You marry in a foreign country and have no relatives or friends! One day, I quarreled with my boyfriend and didn't even have anyone to complain! So you have to have enough courage to choose a boyfriend from out of town!

A person who deserves to be entrusted with a lifetime is worth holding on to for a lifetime. I also have friends who have gone to distant places despite their parents' objections, and now they are living well. It's the trouble of going home during the New Year's holidays.

Communicate well with your parents, and it's best to let your boyfriend show his abilities in front of your parents.

I think the reason why your parents don't agree is that they are reluctant to marry you so far, and they are afraid that you will endure hardships, so be more considerate of your parents and communicate more, there should be no problem.

There is some truth in what your parents say, but you still have to listen to your heart. In this way, the heart will be full, at least experienced.

The best way is to ask your out-of-town boyfriend to live in the city where your home is located, not to be rich, but at least to be together.

You can also verify your feelings :)

As long as love is together, move your parents, they are your parents will support you and feel sorry for you.

Don't make a hasty decision about this, I used to be in a long-distance relationship, and it turned out to be fruitless. However, through my own experience, I feel that if you both already have jobs, you can work hard to be together, for example, the man goes to the woman's side to work, buy a house, or the man develops well in the place where he works, and make an appropriate transition, and then let the woman go to the man, let the man solve the work and life, and let the woman's parents rest assured. If you are still in school, it is recommended that you make a decision after planning your life, and it is an unrealistic performance to fall in love without strength, and this is how contemptible people come over, and I feel that sometimes reality can defeat feelings.

Let your boyfriend come and live here so your parents should agree. ☺

Elope, or fight for your parents!

First of all, the most important thing is to understand the reasons for disagreement. Is it off-site? Planning conflicts? Character? Family?

Communicate with your parents to see what you can do, or see if your boyfriend can move in to work.

The ideal way is for the family to agree and still be able to marry him, right?

So you first have to understand, what is the reason for the family's disagreement? Is it because of poverty? Or is it because you don't have parents? Or is it because it's off-site?

You need to understand this clearly in order to solve it and get support from your family. In addition, when communicating with the family, it must be very strong**"This is my own marriage, and my own marriage is decided by me, and others cannot interfere"This one. Because the marriage certificate only needs to be signed by yourself, it doesn't matter if the family agrees or not, because if you marry your boyfriend, your boyfriend must be responsible for life, and you can endure hardships yourself.

The family won't give you money, and as for the wedding banquet, you don't have to have a wedding banquet when you get married. It's okay if you don't.

Next, if the family still can't agree through a variety of methods, then look at how deep your own feelings are for your boyfriend, and if your boyfriend is sure that he can support you, then you can marry your boyfriend directly regardless of the family's opinion.

If your boyfriend can't support you, then you can only talk to the family.