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Choosing to leave just to be stronger, long-distance relationships mostly don't end well, but many people still think that they are in that small group.
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I'm also trying to be in a long-distance relationship, but it's okay.
Both of our parents respect our opinions, and as long as we love each other and are willing to support each other, both parents bless us!
My boyfriend and I are 3,000 kilometers apart, one south and one north.
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If you love, love deeply!
Love, madness; If you don't love, be strong!!
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Parents mean nothing more than hope that their children will be happy in the future, but on this most beautiful starting point, they add something specific and their own evaluation of their children's happiness.
If you really want to be together, I suggest working hard and doing two things well
1. Persistently honor your parents, no matter how they scold you, you must honor your parents, and it is consistent, always, especially your girlfriend, you should use more heart to honor the second elder in the details of your parents' personality preferences. People's hearts are long, and if the kung fu is in place, there should be a turnaround. At the same time, don't be too utilitarian, even if there is a turnaround, you must always and always honor the two elders.
2. You and your girlfriend are more competitive, you have to work hard, and if you work up, your ability to make money will go up, and your life will be guaranteed now and in the future, especially your girlfriend, you have to work harder. In this way, parents have less financial worries.
Parents actually know a little bit in their hearts: in the future, it is she and her husband and their children who will live with you until they are old, they just expect to try to check for you when they can control some of them, their intentions are good, we must fully understand them, and make something to reassure them around their starting point.
I wish a lover a family member!
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Summary. After reading your problem description, your parents are rejecting your long-distance relationship, right? In fact, they are also for your good, because the success rate of long-distance relationships is relatively low, and it is very difficult, so I think you still listen to your parents' opinions.
How parents reject long-distance relationships.
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After reading your problem description, your parents are rejecting your long-distance relationship, right? In fact, they are also for your good, because the success rate of long-distance relationships is relatively low, and it is very difficult, so I think you still listen to your parents' opinions.
It makes sense for them to reject your long-distance relationship, because they are worried that you will not be able to get together in the end, and it is you who will be hurt, so they are doing it for your good, in order to protect you, and pity the hearts of parents in the world.
Long-distance relationship, after surviving is a lifetime, but not for a while, so this requires a lot of patience, because many times, it will be lost to distance. No matter how many messages you send, you can't get a hug.
Long-distance relationship is very painful, the success rate is not high, the risk is very high, he is a man, will he leave his parents in the future, buy a house and live on your side, he agrees, his parents and relatives will not agree, you are a public institution, let alone quit your job to go to his side, if you have different backgrounds, it will be a problem to live in the future (mainly values), long-distance relationship is a kind of gambling, you can't predict whether your other half can withstand the test, this initiative is not in your hands, even if you can stand the test, two people have been separated for a long time, When we are together again, we find that it will be colder and colder when we find that it is not the same as before. Another point is that values change a lot after college and work, and the reason why you like your local boyfriend is because of the change in your values, and you like your former boyfriend because you miss the good old days, but this beauty is already a memory. Don't be unsure of your attention, otherwise it won't be good for anyone.
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