What should I do if my long distance parents don t agree?

Let's talk about me first, my husband and I are also in a long-distance relationship. I've been in love for 7 years. At first, my parents and my husband's parents didn't approve of us being together.

Then seeing that we had been talking for so long, they acquiesced, and then urged us to get married. Actually, I also thought about giving up, but it mainly depends on the man. My husband has always insisted, and he has done a lot of ideological work on both sides.

Now I have been married for two years, and my baby has just turned one year old, and my husband treats me as before. I have to say I'm quite lucky! The first thing is to understand the reason why your parents disagree, if it's just because of a long-distance relationship, then see if this man is worth entrusting himself for life.

After all, there are still a long days ahead, and if you are angry after marriage, your mother's family is not around, and you will feel very wronged. If this man is reliable, I think my parents must be happy to entrust themselves to him. ‍‍

I can insist, I am in a long-distance relationship, my family has been letting me break up when I was with my boyfriend for the first year, and now it is the third year of talking, my parents don't say anything, only ask me about his family conditions and work, etc., in fact, my parents are afraid that we will suffer, as long as I show my family that life after is not bitter, but very sweet, my parents will agree. ‍‍

I understand very well why my parents disagree, because I also came over like this, in fact, my parents don't agree because they feel afraid that the other party will fail them, if two people love each other enough and are firm. Parents will eventually give in to our happiness, but only if the other half is self-motivated. ‍‍

I was also in a long-distance relationship with my husband at that time, and my family didn't agree at first, and then I insisted on wanting to be with him, and then my family agreed, and now we have been married for ten years, and we are very happy, so a long-distance relationship can also be very good.

Choose your own life, distance is not a problem, and it can't be an excuse, it depends on whether two people can cope with this hardship, if the love is firm enough, parents will agree. ‍‍

To understand my parents' hearts, my parents didn't agree with the long-distance relationship at the time, but slowly saw my husband's self-motivation, ability, and sincerity to me, and the family agreed. ‍‍

As long as the man is responsible enough, and the family conditions are not miserable, and then he is happy with the south, the family will not object, and the reason for the opposition is that my parents are afraid that we will suffer outside. ‍‍

Parents don't agree simply because they foresee many of the difficulties their children will face, and they will agree to let parents accept their boyfriends and feel at ease with their boyfriends. ‍

If your parents aren't too innocent about your boyfriend or girlfriend. But you are already living with him, so I personally think it's better not to tell your parents. Because your parents don't know about your relationship, and you've already identified your boyfriend or girlfriend.

That's why I chose to live with him. It's your own choice. And your parents don't think highly of your boyfriend or girlfriend.

So in this case, it's better for you to keep your opinion to yourself.

But once your parents find out about living with your boyfriend or girlfriend, don't make a big fuss. Because they're going to give you an opinion, you just have to say what you think. Don't make a big fuss with your parents.

It doesn't make sense because your boyfriend or girlfriend is your choice. And not what your parents chose.

You are responsible for the decisions you make, even if you don't marry the person in the future. Then you have to bear the consequences of this cohabitation.

There are a lot of friends around him.,It's been living with the object for a long time.。 But I knew about it before their parents. Today's young people generally don't like their parents to get involved in their lives or influence their choices.

Because today's young people have their senses.

If in the future, you and your live-in partner get married, and the two of you have a conflict, then the first thing you two think of is how to resolve the conflict, but if your parents choose this object, then if the two of you have a conflict, the first thing you think of is to blame your parents.

Therefore, it is better for young people to be responsible for their own affairs. In the future, whether it is good or bad, it is your own choice, even if it is a trench and a wisdom. Some things have to be experienced once to know what is going on, and it is impossible for Huinai Spine to rely on the preaching of his parents alone.

In this process, we young people must have the courage to take responsibility for ourselves. And be good at summarizing and understanding others, so that you can walk more smoothly on the road of life.